Kool's Commentary : Mar 25 - Page 4

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Posted: 15 years ago
#31
Forget Manav... the concept of the serial is ruined. I get really bugged even thinking of the name of this serial- 'Pavitra Rishta'. Can someone explain why this Rishta is pavitra? Ponder on the lines in the title song....
'Aasmaan mein jab tak, sitarey rahenge
hum ek doosre ke sahare rahenge...
Nazdeekiyan ya ho dooriyan
Bas pyaar hi rahega darmiyan...'
None of this came true in the story. None of it.
Archana started her education again AFTER she got separated from Manav, that too thanx to her Mom. (Manav protected her from goons once when she was returning from school once- not that big an impact).
Archana started working and developed confidence to stand on her feet thanx to her Mom, not due to Manav. In fact when she came back home, she stopped working. Till date Manav hasn't asked her to start studying or working again.
Manav got the garage thanx to Tarun after he separated from Archana. (okay she asked Satish please do it as soon as possible- very feeble)
Archana returned to Manav when she came to know he was innocent- not coz she loved him- it would have been so nice if she refused divorce saying I dont want to get separated from my husband coz I love him for his goodness. They could have shown Manav in dire trouble and Archana coming back to help him defying her mother, saying he helped me always in bad times, now I can't see him in pain.
and many many more.
But what did we see???
Thanx to this marriage- Archana suffers a lot of abuse. Till date her husband hasn't been able to provide justice.
Manav suffers from the police complaint and charges of harassment. Till date Archana hasn't been able to say in public that my husband never harassed me. His reputation is gone.
Archana witnesses Manav's bigamy.
As some of you must have noticed... I am actually pointing out events that took place in my FF in a different way... (education, work and job wala point). All my frustrations against PR come out alive in my FF.
Actually I don't believe that a relation is 'pavitra' if you have ganpati bappa coming in at every point and uniting you at every step even when you want to break away... a relation is pure and sacred when it is what the title song says it to be- two people living for each other, helping each other in life in all circumstances, having their differences but still being life support systems to each other- ultimately their lives and characters enhance each other- they blend into each other and merge beautifully- and here I'm not being romantic or dreamy-AT ALL!!!
Coz this is the kind of love story we see in everyday life... look around you and you will find so many examples- I see them in my parents who had an arranged marriage and are completely different characters but have had a very successful happy marriage (touchwood), two good children (yup thats me and my sis) and a secure future and comfortable living. In all they have complemented each other and been good parents, homemakers, and husband and wife, and family people- and I know for a fact that they couldn't have been able to do it alone. This isn't plastic love- you don't need 'I love you' declaration everyday. This is a realistic, traditional, successful, middle class love story.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Niki, leave yaar. Bygons are bygons. Thats the concept of show. And just leave pondering bout title. We have been doing it since long time and that too in vain.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Niki, leave yaar. Bygons are bygons. Thats the concept of show. And just leave pondering bout title. We have been doing it since long time and that too in vain. At the END OF THE DAY ITS JUST A SHOW MERE DRAMA.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Same here . When my sister was kicked out of her sasural when she was 5 months pregnant it was my father who gave her support and a job so that never wud she be dependent on anyone financially again .My mother was worried ki what will society say .But my father was firm like ROCK . My sister had done love marraige , she had polio in one hand and cudnt use it .Only one hand was good .My brotherin law was good and loved her but his mother hated the fact that he had married a polio stricken gal .She made my sister sleep in the balcony and took ALL her salary . Everyday before going to job , even for bus ticket my siister took money from mother in law . My jiju's sisters constantly told him why did you marry this DEFECTIVE PIECE .
So u guys see why I am so much against women abuse ? I have personally seen it .
The two men were good ..my JIJU who married her and left his moms house when she was kicked out , and also my dad who did not fear society but gave support to daughter till she delivered baby , till she booked a flat and got better job . All the wmen who treated her badly were WOMENand even my mom was hesitating to get involved saying what we will tell people . Seeing all this I became a VArsha .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000


Infact frankly speaking , in cities [ I dont talk of rural areas ok ] Women r more in power than men . At home too 90% r dominated by wives , at office too , by pushy politicking females .


Honestly speaking I find men far more broad minded than women sometimes . As husbands , as father in laws , brothers ...........they dont really try to control a woman or pull her down like other women do . Women only pull other women down . As mothers they favour sons over daughters , as mother in laws they hate bahus . As nanands they hate bhabhis and vice versa . They rarely argue rationally with men , using tears as weapons and sex as a method of control !


I feel ashamed to call myself a woman when i see my own species doing this all the time .


Of course men have their own faults .........but my point is ............Women in cities , educated women , r NO LESS .



I totally agree with u Kool.

u know everyone says archu wud hav more advantage nd power if she was educated. everyone got so excited when she started her education nd everyone was really angry when she left her studies (this was acceptable). but i hav seen soo many educated women who show so much jahalat. one such women is my sister's mother in law. i m telling u i hav never seen a woman like her. she is educated, she has a loving husband who dances on her tunes, she has obedient children(too obedient. they r like her dogs), they r pretty well off, nd she has a lot of power. but she misuses that power. Savita is a selfish woman bcoz she thinks about her happiness, like she wants to b rich. but that woman just disrespects women even though she is a women herself. she will say women cant do this women cant do that nd she will b doing all those things herself. such a hypocrite. i m telling u she is worse than Ajit. she wants to control everyone! uneducated archu is farrrrrrrrrrr better than that educated woman. actually that woman cannot b compared to any woman. it will b a disgrace to all women.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#36
Haila, ye kya? I thought that you all will be throwing tomatoes on me. Yes i agree. But women in rural AND BACKWARD AREAS ARE NOT TREATED WELL. But WHERE PEOPLE ARE EDUCATED THEIR women act more strong than men. PR MEN ARE BEST EXAMPLE WHO JUST DANCE ON THEIR PARTNERS ISHARA. Look At vinod, manohar, manav, damodar or kaka.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Ali, I think MEN ROCK.

Whatever I am today , so happy and content I owe it all to some really wonderfull men in my life ( father , husband , uncles , sons , cousins , brother in laws , friends etc etc ) . I have hardly ever met men who I would call BAD , maybe just 2 or 3 . But I have met a lot of bad women ....

Same here Tanyaz, I too have met a lot of bad women, but few bad men... In fact many memorable people in my life have been men- most of them my teachers, and of course my Dad and friends.
Agree with you too kools... women pull other women down. We can see it in everyday life- they compete regarding clothes, books, studies etc. In fact when I was small and got absent from school, my mother would advise me to take the day's notes from a... ummm... boy- friend rather than a girl- friend. (or maybe boy and girl classmate sound better😆) The reason- ??? She always said that yur friends may be very nice but they won't help you willingly in this regard, they will make excuses or simply refuse. Boys will willingly help.
And she was right! Every time!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#38
Please exclude Manav from your list Ali . Archan tells him what he wants to hear ....
I think Archana is way too scared of her husband to dare boss him around .
Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kool, i have so much respect for ur father nd ur jiju😊 they did the right thing.

its so sad to see women treated like that by other women. we dont need men in our society to treat women bad. we already hav women to do that job unfortunately.

my sister's saas is soooo obsessed with her son that she cannot even see her son going closer to his wife. she gets jealous from my sister. when my sister's husband wud fight with her, she wud smile. my sister noticed her smiling. when my sister's husband wud happily talk with her nd give her some happy news 1st then her saas wud say shaadi se pehle to tu mujhe batata tha har baat sab se pehle aur ab tu nahi batata. she fought so many times with him about this.

nd her saas cannot bear it if someone says something gud about my sister. once my sister made aatta nd the servant said bhabhi app ne aatta acha banaya hai. her saas got sooooo angry at the servant.

my sister has a really gud sense of fashion. she is young so she sometimes designed her own shalwar kameez nd they wud always come out beautiful nd when she wud attend family parties, everyone wud praise her. her saas even got jealous of that. she tried to make my sister wear everything of her choice nd she wud always pick bad things for my sister nd gud things for herself.
Edited by unknown18 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#40
Sid , does your sister have kids ???

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