Good job Koolsadhu !!! - Page 22

@koolsadhu: At no point do I mean to say that Manav can be exonerated by comparing him with Damodar. I even did not say ki Damodar does nautanki and all.

nikita The accident was one chance for Manav to show love for Archu but he remained aloof , going around telling everyone that he is doing it out of sheer humanity , even gave Shravni explanations inside that dont think anything is between me and Archu . He blew it . There is no passion in his character anymore ..........why make so many explanations for him that indeed he was awake whole night ? 😆 Ok , lets assume he was , but it was not shown effectively enough and it is a blunder on creatives part as sindoor scene has really pissed off many viewers . Manav is lead .........expectations from him r indeed more ,and Damodar is a side character who has surprisingly risen over normal expectations . What they have shown that Damodar has done is far more for his character ...........a mere side one . while what the lead has done is far too less is the ratio.

I dont agree that Damodar only calls Archu beti beti and does nothing . I wud rather say Manav says Ha main Archna se pyaar karta hu to Tarun all the time but in reality does NOTHING . What titbits he does that too he himself goes around telling its mere humanity and washes the charm away.

PS : I agree with u at at the cost of building up Savitas character creatives blew Manav's .

@koolsadhu: Actually I am not trying to convince anyone that he was awake all night. I am going by my first impressions. Coz when I saw the video that day, I was like, okay, so Savita is awake to help Archu, but how the hell did Manav wake up... its 2 'o' clock.. not the time to stay awake or get up early... so why is he awake? And I didn't get any reason. Later I came to know that everyone was blaming Manav for not showing Archu care after the accident... this actually surprised me... for even though I had expected more out of Manav since as you rightly said, he is the lead and expectations will be more, but overall, I did not really find any reason to get boiled up that much. I was happy that he had been checking her from time to time. But I realised that the creatives had not made this point clear... they should have ideally, to salvage some of Manav's character. Everybody got a different idea of that scene, this is what I believe, so ultimately I leave everyone with their own interpretation of that whole sequence.

I must clarify however that I didn't bring this issue up to justify or defend Manav... I just wanted to point that in my opinion the creatives could have demostrated Damo and Archu's relationship better... just my thoughts... I suppose my views on Manav are well known after all the long posts I have written in the last few days.

Well there ur , u said it urself dear . Exactly what I was trying to say .......that Damodars voice is often drowned by Manav 's stupid siding of Savita . U said that he takes his own decisions ...........so ok , even if u agree with that , if he takes decisions with his own volition , still in the end ......he ends up agreeing with Savita . Damodar really doesnt get any support from him in that aspect . I have said this so many times in my earlier posts . That Damodar is reduced to a muttering , helpless man ninety percent of the time due to Manavs teaming up with his Aai ......who throws triumphant looks at her husband and walks off . In karanjkar home , everyone voices their opinion freely . Varsha says her mind , Vinod does , Sulo does so does Vaishali and even Manohar when he wishes to speak up . Savita drowns others voices ..she shuts Vandu up and shoos her away , tells Manav to just keep quiet , completely tries to emasculate her husband . Yet Manav keeps quiet .

@koolsadhu: Why ? When he can fight for others, slap manav when he says I'm ready to marry shravani, slap savita when she does something wrong.. in short, is shown to be doing what he wants inspite of what others think, then woud it have been too much to show that he gives Archana a blanket and sheets? He was the one shown as taking responsibility for Archana when she came in that house, then why can't couldn't they have shown this teeny weeny thing? Okay he is the side actor and can't be given much footage... then there was no need to show such a scene, just show Archu sleeping with a blanket and saying later that Baba gave it to me, and later Manav coming and draping it properly around her since it came off a little in her sleep. Would have done justice to both.

nO nikita , here i dont agree with u AT ALL . They showed Damodar sitting with her for consecutive two days now . Ur expecting so much detail from a side character and making so many excuses for your main lead Manav ......pardon me dear , i say what i feel . U know me na...dont take offense plz . We both r frank with each other and know each other by now.

I am sure Dam Baba is the one feeding her and making her hair , giving her medicine etc . They are just not showing it . He is with her almost all the time .

yes Doctor Ji , if Manav held her tightly today it is all thanks to Dam baba .

Oh god... I guess no one here is getting my point... I am not trying to defend Manav at all... I myself said that I always expect more from him since he is the main lead and more importantly her husband.... Manav is not the issue here at all... my point is that it doesn't make sense that Damodar isn't shown to be helping Archana in any little way.. protecting against Aai... giving her blanket... etc. etc.

My point is that the creatives showed him to be boldly telling the Karanjkars that Archana is my beti etc etc. but didn't show him doing a little bit for her.. it is a flaw of the creatives...not of the character...I choose the blanket scene to describe it coz it was the simplest, easiest and non-controversial scene. As Tanyaz rightly said, Baba must be doing her hair, medicines etc. even I'm sure he must be doing it...but creatives chose not to show this...I somehow felt that the way they protrayed this loving sasur-DIL relationship was lacking. But I liked the scene in which he sat with her in the kitchen and ate with her... I expected something of that sort rather than the same dialogue 'beti-beti' all the time.