Today Manav was wrong - Page 2

I'm completely agree Savita is a monster and she need to be jailed for doing all injustice done to Archu but i personally don't feel Manav need to speak in support of Archu yesterday,if he would have spoken in support of his mom then she would have done more tamasha in the function and Archu would have felt more disturbed.
I think even Archu aayi should be jailed with Savita for harassing Manav as Sulochana has done nothing good even she has done the same what Savita has done to Archu.Savita use to ask dowry from Archu directly but in case of Sulochana she is not sending Archu to Manav because he is poor and is not earning more money than Satish so she is getting Archu married to satish so what is the difference b/w Savita and Sulochana both are expecting money than they children happiness one is asking directly by harassing and another one is asking indirectly by not trusting her son-in-law.
I know Manav should have spoken in support of Archu but when women he is in love with is only able to not understand and convice her how can he convince his mom whom he know she is very rude and can hurt to any extent regard of not seeing the situation.
As manav has started to love Archu much before marriage so does it mean that only he has support her,trust her not Archu who told Manav on Satyanarayana pooja day that she can speak anything to Manav as she is very comfortable with him so where is that why can't she speak to him and clear evrey thing in stead he scold him as she is confident that he won't speak any thing against her for instance when Manav came to collect dd Archu scolded him later she only felt bad.
Manav has never been a person who speaks against any one if i am not wrong he did not even speak against Sulochana when she accused him with so many bad things not even during marriage or even function.
Savita is kind of women who can do any thing for money and i am sure Girish is thinking of making Sachin ghar jamayi which i am sure Savita will get big shock and will realize Archu is good than her another daughter-in-law.
And please don't defend Manav's dad drinking habit i know he is very good and supports Manav so dearly and fights for his happiness which we all know and in that Manav's dad and mom both insult each other in front of every one for each other bad habit.

Manav was wrong... Savita kept on insulting ARchu but he dint say nething bu wen his father slapped her he is defending her that dint make sense... It was clearly Savita's fault but he dint say nething to her...

Yes.. how can he support Aai when she is always wrong.. Manaaaavvvvvv

This is my take on why Manav supported his mother

1) It was Sachin's engagement and Manav didn't want any more tamasha going on. His father slapping his mother is no ordinary thing, he also knows the nature of his mother had he not said anything or supported his dad, his mom would have just continued to make a scene. Now since he knows his mom wont' shut up so the best he could do is ask archana to go.

So if he didn't do this for stopping the tamasha, lets look at it from his point of view, he is under the misunderstanding that Archana has moved on with her life and is getting married to Satish, so if he believes this to be true doesn't he have a right to live his life? If archana is getting married to satish, why should he be the one pining for her the rest of his life? And if she has clearly shown no intention of coming back in his life, doesn't he have every right to throw her out if she's the one causing tension between his parents?

Also what about the slaps and insults Archu's family throws his way? I'm not saying what savita does is right, but Archana doesn't stand up and defend him to her family so why should he defend her? He's only politely asked her to leave, i don't think it would have been the same had it been the other way around ,

yes may be Manav was wrong yest(though in my POV he wasn't)bt archu did many more worng things..n she is kept on doing d same thing...whenever she needed to stand up 4 Manav..she never did...savita never slapped archu bt sulochona did with Manav...woh vi infrot of Archu..archu stands up for every1 even for satsih n when she signed the disvorce paper...she was lyk Ma Chandi infront of Manav...she knws some stupid things vry well.avoiding Manav...shouting at him without listening 2 him..sach kahoon...slowly slowly archu has lost all my respect...nw she needs to prove her luv 4 Manav...Manav is sweetest guy ever..he was with her n still aftr all dis he luvs her unconditionally....

Even i think Manav was not wrong.

Originally posted by: mitts

Manav was wrong... Savita kept on insulting ARchu but he dint say nething bu wen his father slapped her he is defending her that dint make sense... It was clearly Savita's fault but he dint say nething to her...

Originally posted by: sadvita

I'm completely agree Savita is a monster and she need to be jailed for doing all injustice done to Archu but i personally don't feel Manav need to speak in support of Archu yesterday,if he would have spoken in support of his mom then she would have done more tamasha in the function and Archu would have felt more disturbed. I an not saying he had to speak anything at all [ although i would have loved it if he gave his great mom a blasting one day ] ..........who is talking about speaking up for Archu here . But if Manav was silent when Archu was being called characterless , why was he not silent when his mom was slapped? Dono point pe chup raho na . Besides , when Manav did finally speak up , Savita was quiet and chupchap , she was covering her face and was chup . So this argument that he spoke up to avoid a tamasha is baseless . The tamasha actually was already over when Manav spoke up . It was the right point to leave the woman there and walk inside with the whole group .by putting his hand around his father [ not his sainted mom] . In fact , by putting his hand around his stupid mom , Manav rather spoilt the effect of that slap . Aisa kiya toh woh kabhi nahi sudharegi . Manav use sir par chada raha hai , clear and simple .
I think even Archu aayi should be jailed with Savita for harassing Manav as Sulochana has done nothing good even she has done the same what Savita has done to Archu.Savita use to ask dowry from Archu directly but in case of Sulochana she is not sending Archu to Manav because he is poor and is not earning more money than Satish so she is getting Archu married to satish so what is the difference b/w Savita and Sulochana both are expecting money than they children happiness one is asking directly by harassing and another one is asking indirectly by not trusting her son-in-law.Why shud Sulochana be jailed ? She is not committing any crime . She is a good mother in law..........see how she treats Manju . She doesnt demand jewels from Manjus home although Manju comes from rich family . She doesnt even take Manjus salary for the monthly family expenses........Manju lives phookat there , using the excuse that her money is for Punni , Punni Punni . She took her daughter home when her son in law's character was badly damaged in public by that evil Ajit , but to her credit , the policeman lied , what do u expect her to do ? And taking your daughter home is definetely not a crime . Sul;ochana may not always be correct but she is definetely not in the same league as Savita . Yes , both are wanting wealthy jamais and bahus for their children but the biggest diffrence between them is Savita wants ALL the money for HERSELF that comes in the house via the rishta [ See how she grabbed Archu's jewels on the first day itself and how she is hankering after Sharvani's wealth now ] .............whereas Sulochana wants all the wealth , status , happiness , for her children , not for personally herself or her husband . This is a very big diffrence . People are jailed when they demand dowry like Savita pressurized them later to give jewels ...........to my knowledge , Sulochana never committed that crime . She slapped Manav once in a fit of temper that was wrong , but later she coldly withdrew from his life wheras Savita made Archu slog like a slave in that chawl and followed her around after the break up , constantly flinging her character in her face , even in the office place , market , mandap of engagement , everywhere . Ajit assasinated Archu's character once , Savita assasinated it over and over again . Frankly , the woman doesn't need a slap , she needs a whipping .
I know Manav should have spoken in support of Archu but when women he is in love with is only able to not understand and convice her how can he convince his mom whom he know she is very rude and can hurt to any extent regard of not seeing the situation.
As manav has started to love Archu much before marriage so does it mean that only he has support her,trust her not Archu who told Manav on Satyanarayana pooja day that she can speak anything to Manav as she is very comfortable with him so where is that why can't she speak to him and clear evrey thing in stead he scold him as she is confident that he won't speak any thing against her for instance when Manav came to collect dd Archu scolded him later she only felt bad.Precisely my point . She clearly states that ab jaake woh apne aap ko comfortable mehsoos kar rahi hai . Thats not love ..........thats just getting to know someone , the first stage . Arre , how many days did their relationship have ?Only 15 . Just now she was getting ready to talk comfortably with him and this whole drama occured . One can hardly blame her as such .
Manav has never been a person who speaks against any one if i am not wrong he did not even speak against Sulochana when she accused him with so many bad things not even during marriage or even function.Here i agree with u totally . He did not speak up even to Sulochna , very true . But again , i find that a weakness , this not speaking up business . Whether its his mom or mother in law , when its ur character or even ur wife's , Learn to speak up and clear urself . Manav is the lead hero , he has to be smarter .
Savita is kind of women who can do any thing for money and i am sure Girish is thinking of making Sachin ghar jamayi which i am sure Savita will get big shock and will realize Archu is good than her another daughter-in-law. Of course that will happen ..........the marraige for which she was jumping with joy will give her maximum pain as she will lose her son totally . And frankly i wont blame Sachin for it , she desrves it . I wont blame Girish either , why shud he send his daughter to live in that hell hole .
And please don't defend Manav's dad drinking habit i know he is very good and supports Manav so dearly and fights for his happiness which we all know and in that Manav's dad and mom both insult each other in front of every one for each other bad habit.

Read my post carefully . I said clearly there that I am not making excuses for his drinking . Ultimately when one drinks or smokes , it is all due to his own weakness . But yes , I would definetely put some part of the responsibility on Savita . See her nature . Which man would survive with such a woman ? A woman who gives no love and only demands greedily from her husband , brother in law or children . He was constantly called a loser by her in front of society ............that is very hurtful to a man's ego . She treats him worse than a roadside dog . Atleast the children have the option of walking away from her if they choose to by setting up their own homes , he doesn't even have that option . By now , he has turned into an alcoholic , so he is literally a gone case . But frankly my dear , with Savita , anyone will even become a drug addict ! It is her pure luck that Manav and Sachin have turned out fine ..........Sachin toh uske training se chor ban hi raha tha . All i am saying that is for a weak minded man whose personal ambitions have been destroyed , who has been branded as a loser , and who has a shrew for a wife who is simply uncontrollable , it is extremely easy to turn to drink . U see , Manav 's dad does not have the strength of Manav's character . Manav is more like his Kaka ........strong and silent . Manav's dad has a weak personality and circumstances didnt help . But he loves his children and wants the best for them , not for himself . Savita wants all for herself only , she cares a hang for the children .

What about today mahaepisode now, manjusha has send them to jail, as they got evidence against ajit. Now how the story will turn now???? How Archu will come to know. Please comment.

Yes, archu needs to prove her love for Manav is in jail now.