Originally posted by: asmaanixx
I get that too, but her approach was wrong. She keeps thinking Minnie is a kid who doesn't understand anything when she does. She reminded Minnie of the ugly words Ashok used on her in court but did she forget that it was Minnie who held onto her and tried to soothe and calm her down? Did she block out the wails and screams of her little girl who had to hear the nastiness that her own father spewed at her mother?
Babita has gone through a lot but so has Minnie. No body has ever asked her how she felt with her dad being gone or about the divorce as a whole. Sab Babita mein hi busy rahe gaye.
Minnie told us today that she wanted to know if Ashok ever thought of her. Babita ke saath jaisa bhi rishta ho par Minnie ka kya? Did he ever think about her? Did he ever want to reach out to her? What did he want to say that made him reach out to her now, but not before? Whatever his words may have been, right ya wrong, acha ya bura, she had the right to read them.
I was so mad that day at both ashok & babita to make mini go through that. I mean as parent divorce lena hai lo why drag your child into this in such a bad way.
And you are right everyone was busy with babita. Making babita move on, empowering babita, her feelings her hurt. no one saw mini because she also made it only about babita. She was selfless . And generally it is the selfless people who no one understands, their pain goes unnoticed mostly.
In most divorce cases of abandonment children do think why the other parent has never thought of them even once. And she has a right to be in touch with ashok if she wants. She dosent need to break all contact with him to prove to babita that she supports and loves her
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