Originally posted by: AreYaar
I will again repeat that to me it’s never about “deserving”....Babita is a very flawed woman but she does love Mini and HS. Her problem is that she gets swayed by outside influences, societal expectations and her own insecurities. It doesn’t make her a bad person or someone undeserving of love.
She needs help but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t deserve any relationships in her life. Therapy is what she needed to tackle her issues....but no one in her life seems to realize that. Things have been muddled over skewed excuses about her “choice” when she doesn’t even understand what she’s doing....just getting carried away.
And HS wasn’t up to the task of dealing with her, that added to the problem.
current babita will do mini more harm than good. she can very well emotionally manipulate her and even get her married off as soon as she finishes graduation. even graduation is just for a degree. degree ke baad to shaadi hi karni hai. I think its better mini stays away. HS ka to pata nahi he will just meekly protest. Babita could deserve anyones love but mini dosent deserve this at least. She deserves better. Today she even questioned mini why she cant see her happy,& that she is trying to ruin HS career. Right now she needs a jolt and both HS mini need to be away from her for their own sanity.
No ones bad like a villain here but if a person is completely un-respecting and non perspective of others and their needs and feeling it is never going to help. Its more bad because you can leave off Ashok type people and walk off but what do you do with babita type people who are slowly going to suck everything out of you
the babita now i am seeing is someone worse than she was with khuranas in their house. That babita did have a caring side to her and she allowed others to take decisions for her because she did not know how to take them. This babita with a right of makanmalkin still dosent know how to take decisions but thinks only she can take decisions for everyone.
Edited by naq5 - 5 years ago