Not father but we Love eachother - Page 3

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

One thing I’ve noticed is that PH are going back in time and kind of rewriting our perceptions

All the interactions between HS and Minnie led us to believe it was a friend/parent child relationship. She confided in HS as a friend and obeyed him like a daughter. So what happened ? Babita is what happened. I feel like she changed the dynamics of the budding relationship with her bipolar behaviour.

HS constantly needing to reassure Babes, having to say Minnie was his daughter even though he may not have fully understood what that entailed.

Then HS starts going on about attraction. So now the Ph have rewritten all those scenes by insinuating that HS felt attracted to Babes at first site ( he called out Babes for not calling him Bhai Saab but HS didn’t also call her behen ji)

Sooo now what does all this mean? Are we getting insight into HS mind and perspective regarding his feelings for Babes since day one ? Was indeed all that stuff he did for Minnie strictly fatherly or was a small part of him also trying to impress Babes?

It’s one thing the PH are effing with the present story line but now past intentions are being skewed by them also

They have to skew it to undo what we think otherwise what they are trying to show would not work. At least, that's what they think but we're not buying it.

PH ne apne hi paidh par kulhadi maari hai.

Originally posted by: inlieu

They need a heart to heart conversation and a reset because both have misconceptions about the other that is hurting them at the end of the day.

yes but everyone keeps saying what can HS do mini dint want it. But we all know even mini wanted it. If she was slower to catch up on her feelings or to officially call him as father we cannot just tell that she dint want it.

And mini is a person who takes time with her feelings. we saw it with mickey too. by the time she thought he was someone special preet mickey were dating. im sure if mickey wasnt dating preet mini would have slowly said yes to mickey, the romantic feelings which are not there right now would have come sooner. Even with mickey its still of a special friend status. And it happens with people some people need friendship to turn into love some can act just on a attraction basis.

Originally posted by: Hannie_Fan

See u are definitely right but for me that Pooja scene was very special for a reason. The way they made it into a way of pleasing Babita broke my heart(and I am not overreacting) I became very emotional and am still very emotional. Hence I want them to be beti father and not friends or something else . That’s why these were questioned I listed as to why did they need to destroy the essence of such a beautiful scene

Kharti and Kammo caused a lot of damage, and the reason they succeeded was because of weak foundations in this little family and them not being on the same page about what they wanted from each other and from life.

It broke all our hearts, dear. Especially because they have failed to justify why they are messing with past events. 🤗

Originally posted by: inlieu

They have to skew it to undo what we think otherwise what they are trying to show would not work. At least, that's what they think but we're not buying it.

PH ne apne hi paidh par kulhadi maari hai.

I’m so confused as that PH are actually trying to show 😂

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

But on the Same Pooja day itself, when Bachha Party and NB were upstairs, everyone kept asking him to propose, he told them.. are kar to diya propose ibb ke baki hai.

So declaring himself Mini’s father was his way to propose to Babita and Mini.

He said the same thing recently. Doesn’t take away anything from his love for Mini.

Correct. I think the writers are deliberately doing all this, anyway.

Mini Hanuman relationship was seen as father daughter one because that's how we wanted to interpret it.. everything they have shared so far can easily be regarded as a relationship between a loving uncle and a girl.. I mean not everyone we obey and look up to has to be in the same line as a father

I don't think Mini wants the authority figure of father in her life and neither does Hanuman seem too keen about having that kind of authority untill literally forced to by Babita.. he was happy as Hanuman uncle who imparted wisdom, showered with love, scolded but not significantly..

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

One thing I’ve noticed is that PH are going back in time and kind of rewriting our perceptions

All the interactions between HS and Minnie led us to believe it was a friend/parent child relationship. She confided in HS as a friend and obeyed him like a daughter. So what happened ? Babita is what happened. I feel like she changed the dynamics of the budding relationship with her bipolar behaviour.

Sooo now what does all this mean? Are we getting insight into HS mind and perspective regarding his feelings for Babes since day one ? Was indeed all that stuff he did for Minnie strictly fatherly or was a small part of him also trying to impress Babes?

It’s one thing the PH are effing with the present story line but now past intentions are being skewed by them also

@bold: LOL yes....Babita happened.....her bipolar behavior definitely doesn't help when two confused and hurt hearts are trying to sort out their emotions.....it's ironic actually.....a lot of HS-Mini ki initial bonding was about them trying to tackle Babita, motivate her, give her strength.....but now that Babita only has become the Achilles heel for them....especially HS.

As for HS....all he's trying to say is that yes, he always felt a sense of awareness towards Babita from the early days....he isn't saying he bonded with Mini simply to impress her but yes, maybe some things he did in terms of Mini were more to assure Babita than Mini.

That still doesn't take away from the immense love he has for Mini on its own level. But yes, Babita and Mini are intricately linked....so anything he does for one, has some link towards him trying to bond with the other....and vice versa.

If only the writing had allowed HS-Mini to continue developing on their own level also....it was happening through little things like the Karate competition and other chats they had.....but with the wedding track, everything got skewed into only managing Babita again.....these two hardly get the opportunity to bond on their own level without only fussing over Babita.

Originally posted by: naq5

yes but everyone keeps saying what can HS do mini dint want it. But we all know even mini wanted it. If she was slower to catch up on her feelings or to officially call him as father we cannot just tell that she dint want it.

And mini is a person who takes time with her feelings. we saw it with mickey too. by the time she thought he was someone special preet mickey were dating. im sure if mickey wasnt dating preet mini would have slowly said yes to mickey, the romantic feelings which are not there right now would have come sooner. Even with mickey its still of a special friend status. And it happens with people some people need friendship to turn into love some can act just on a attraction basis.

I agree.....Mini is a gregarious child otherwise who does bond with a lot of people but I think her truly deep and meaningful bonds take time.....she's a very sensitive kid....and she's hurt right now....so she needs time to sort through her feelings.

Problem yeh hai ki HS is also very sensitive on this topic....ab dono sensitive souls hain toh kaun kiski sensitivity manage karega😆

Originally posted by: naq5

yes but everyone keeps saying what can HS do mini dint want it. But we all know even mini wanted it. If she was slower to catch up on her feelings or to officially call him as father we cannot just tell that she dint want it.

And mini is a person who takes time with her feelings. we saw it with mickey too. by the time she thought he was someone special preet mickey were dating. im sure if mickey wasnt dating preet mini would have slowly said yes to mickey, the romantic feelings which are not there right now would have come sooner. Even with mickey its still of a special friend status. And it happens with people some people need friendship to turn into love some can act just on a attraction basis.

I don't think HS was prepared for any other outcome than being her father. When the CD thing happened it shook his world and he didn't know what to do after that. Instead, he backed off and stopped expecting anything to her, instead of just continuing to be her Hanuman Uncle as he had always been.

What I feel sad about is both HS and Minnie took on the stance that they may never be father-daughter or that one didn't want the other in their lives, when the truth is that Minnie especially needs him a lot in these crucial times, and being needed by her as a hero was a huge deal to HS, it filled a void in him.

It's not Minnie's fault, but as I keep saying, HS can love her as her father if he wants to, without expecting her to reciprocate or expecting him as one. These bonds need effort, especially because they don't share blood ties. I still think as the adult and as her mentor it's up to him to lead the way and be there for her unconditionally. She will follow suit in time if she wants, and even if he thinks she doesn't want him, he needs to win her over. Many step parents go through this process with their step children as they get to know one another. I have seen this in my family, it's not easy at all.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I agree.....Mini is a gregarious child otherwise who does bond with a lot of people but I think her truly deep and meaningful bonds take time.....she's a very sensitive kid....and she's hurt right now....so she needs time to sort through her feelings.

Problem yeh hai ki HS is also very sensitive on this topic....ab dono sensitive souls hain toh kaun kiski sensitivity manage karega😆

Yes, they are both very sensitive, but I personally think HS needs to do a bit more as the adult and more mature one. Let him take his time to develop the bond but at least start somewhere and not be so afraid.