Khari Baatein

😆😆😆.....I'm just gonna take a moment here to digest the speed with which Babita's guilt trip arrived today.

Anyways, backing up a bit.....the first Mini-Babita scene was a list of home truths being listed out for Babita.....at the end of the day, humse zyada time spend kiya hai Mini ne apni Babes ko observe karte huye.....LOL she knows all her defensive mechanisms, smokescreens and tricks. So Mini basically cut to the chase and pointed out that Babita is only pushing the grandparents away out of a sense of paranoia related to LOG KYA KAHENGE (as always😆)....and maybe ki HS bhi sochenge she isn't a good enough wife cuz she cares about her ex in-laws. LOL

And Mini basically pointed out a lot of obvious things that many of mentioned yesterday also....Babita wants to pretend that she doesn't care for the grandparents anymore.....not true....Mini held up a mirror and Babita stewed in anger over being faced to force that truth....that she does care.....and it's precisely because she still cares that she has to use excuses and ultimatums to pretend she doesn't.

Maine toh kal bhi bola tha....problem yehi niklegi that Babita still cares.....LOL everyone thought she took a stand that day.....while that meltdown actually was about hurt in the moment....it didn't wash away the years of attachment she invariably has to the Khuranas....aise bahut rishte dekhe hain real life mein.....pyar aur resentment saath mein chalta hai.....lol dunno how.....which is why I knew Babita would feel guilty in the end for her angry outburst...because it's not that she feels her grievances aren't justified....but at the end of the day, she still cares for them and doesn't really want to hurt them. Her personality isn't gonna change from those core tenets.

Where I don't agree with Mini is her asking Babita to suck it up ki in-laws toh aise hi hote hain....calm down there, kiddo....LOL tune abhi khud in-laws kahaan experience kiye hain....second hand observation isn't gonna make you an expert on the subject.....lol.....yes, there is always a difference between daughter and DIL.....even the most loving of in-laws can trip up in managing to bridge that divide......Daadu-Beeji ki selfishness and neglect of Babita can't be excused just through that......Mini talks about empowerment and rising to a better place....but Daadu-Beeji are being excused simply cuz they are from a different generation? lol no, bacche.....that doesn't excuse them from trying to do better.....their faults can't be excused simply because of that.....yes, they aren't bad people, and never wished ill for Babita.....but I will never agree with the whitewashing either......anyways, this is the grandkid in her talking....I get it....she will only understand if she ever becomes a DIL herself.....which, seeing the haalat of the adults around her, I don't blame her if she never wants to be......lol

What amused me though was the VOLTE FACE from Babita.....LOL ek baar Mini ne 2-3 home truths kya sunaaye aur selfish kya bol diya, suddenly dimaag ki tubelight kya DHAAIN se chal padi ekdum extra tez😆.....I was barely able to keep up with the speed of how she went from "How could you, Mini?" to "Mini ne sahi bola, main HOON selfish"🤣.....I mean, I did want acknowledgement of the fact that she had become self-absorbed and caught up in her own head off late, but somehow the way it came about just left me amused more than feeling for her plight....LOL....I guess we are supposed to chalk it up to her "bacche jaisa saaf mann".....lol

And err that HB scene....man, the chemistry feels so dead....wow😆.....tuning ekdum off ho gayi hai.....the side hug and consoling felt so token and almost robotic, I was amazed.....and couldn't help but compare to the amazing emotional impact of the HS-Mini scene two epis back.....lol.

And speaking of HS-Mini.....I loved the brief scene they got today also.....Mini back in her Karate mode....bahahaha kya DHOYA Khatri ko🤣.....mazaa aa gaya....lol.....I had missed seeing this Mini.....she's finally emerging from her shell again and so FED UP of the nonsense around her.....lol.....but HS itna helpless sa kyun ghoom raha hai bhai? Mini nikal bhi gayi aur yeh dekhta reh gaya? lol I liked that he tried to get her to calm down with the countdown, but I miss the HS who was more effective....

Irfan matlabi nikla.....as expected.....standard ITV storyline hoti hai yeh jab beta bade dino baad maa se milne aata hai aur makaan mein interest dikhaata hai😆

Precap🤣.....Babita is gonna manaao Daadu-Beeji by wearing those earrings that she ignored the first time for HS ke earrings? hahahaha what a LONG loop these earrings have taken.....yeh writers ki soch bahut door ki hai yaar😆.....

Looks like they are gonna brush aside all resentments and make up like a big happy family.....LOL typical PB style.....isliye itna expect nahin karna chahiye tha Babita ke outburst se😆.......

Rofl matlab sab ka royal pappu🤣 Chalo good . I will watch and come back

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Rofl matlab sab ka royal pappu🤣 Chalo good . I will watch and come back

Babita was total comedy today😆.....I burst out laughing when she said, "Haan hoon main selfish"😆......and the way she was suddenly all child-like, "Main kisi ka dil nahin dukhana chahti thi"😆

Bipolar personality lag rahi hai aajkal.....I'm not sure if the writers wanted us to sympathize with her today because she started guilt tripping....lol but mujhe toh hassi aa rahi thi😆

It's like she can only react in extremes.....ya toh ekdum OTT gussa and tantrums ya toh ekdum total guilt trip and blaming herself for everything......no middle ground....I'm not sure how you take such a person seriously😕😆

Waise mere dil ko bahut sukoon mila that Mini dropped the UNCLE after Khatri's name today.....she's back to calling him only Khatri like she did in the early days😆

Itna ghatiya aadmi doesn't deserve the respect of that salutation.

Suddenly Babita feels guilty, and bring them haveli back looks like kuch to Pak Raha hai,

I think writers want ignore romantic life of Hanita, Hs ke, kya din aa Gaye yaar, now he surly feels like he is married from 20 years 🤣

No enjoyment at all, in Sab ke beech me peesta rahega bechara😒

Originally posted by: Indulatha

Suddenly Babita feels guilty, and bring them haveli back looks like kuch to Pak Raha hai,

I think writers want ignore romantic life of Hanita, Hs ke, kya din aa Gaye yaar, now he surly feels like he is married from 20 years 🤣

No enjoyment at all, in Sab ke beech me peesta rahega bechara😒

LOL HS ne toh pisna hi hai beech mein.....shaadi ke side effects😆

I guess they will try to show that Babita will again feel conflicted about managing between husband and doing seva of buzurg log.....lol HS phir se frustrate ho jaaye shaayad😆

Honestly, buzurg ho ya na ho, HB ka husband-wife dynamic is kinda mehh right now regardless.

Yeh meri sherni back in form today👏......the way she told the crowd to BACK THE HELL OFF😆......and then the way she twisted his arm was 🤣

Yeh mera fiery duo😆....you don't need to be doing senti things to have chemistry....it either is, or it isn't. These two have it even when they aren't in the same frame together....lol and same frame mein toh😎

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeh meri sherni back in form today👏......the way she told the crowd to BACK THE HELL OFF😆......and then the way she twisted his arm was 🤣

SUKOOON x infinity AHHHH

GO GIRL this nikkamma deserved it i eish tod hi dia hota baazu phir se waise yeh besharm kahan baaz aa gaya ughh .

Hs trying to calm chori was sweet but i again felt it was rushed and the old dynamic was missing like i just don't see the actors connecting like a few weeks back it is a hit or miss. Somedays we get lucky and get a FANTASTIC and moving epi where everything is on point or we get bit of blah epis like today where the connection seems missing.

HB ka toh kya hi bolein i swear they wetr never this boring or without a spark these days they are on auto pilot and just put me to sleep and to be completly honest i end up fast forwarding caz their is absolutly nothing there to enjoy or watch. They were better off as kirayedarani and maalik makan atleast they used to talk and had more apnapan then this faltu ka courtesy and fakeness where everything feels like a lie . Sach boloon they now look like kirayedarni maalkikmakan and pehle ek dum family thi from word go

Aaj sabse mast apni chori hi thi with her truth bombs i really appreciate her do some khulasa and phodoying thise truth bombs and humari babbo ji 2 sec main start ho gayi kya main selfish hoon🤣🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ idk if it is me but aajkal babita kuch zyada hi pouting atart kar di hai and it doesn't suit her pehle bhi she had her ego and anger/tamtrum issues but their was a fine balance

Ab kuch zyada hi bachi bani ghoom rahi hai babita shayad nayi naveli dulhan hai issliye But it is just not suiting her. Bohat hi immature kar rahi hai babita woh jo pehle ek bouquet tha of many moods and flaws yet ek tehraav tha woh missing hai and in all this poor paridhi seems the most out of sync and confused. Babita confused aur joker toh hai hi in her flips but aajkal it feels so apparent paridhi is losing connect too atleast i feel so. I need the powerful babita and paridhi who did the epic jeete hain chal scene or throwing ashok the door or slapping him . I want that confident mature young lady who despite her confusions and issues was never clownish and had this form keechav towards her. Aajkal babita ke hone na hone se koi farak nahi padta and HB toh wk dum lifeless ho gaye hain and now individually bhi i am finding it difficult to connect with badla hua hanuman

Lol at guilty babita i was laughing so hard at his hum aapko lene aaye hain🤣 And apni cheez dhoond rahi hoon seriously lol though i felt paridhi more like her usual self in precap scene byt aaj toh hadh level disintrest dikh raha tha from both ani and pari

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

SUKOOON x infinity AHHHH

GO GIRL this nikkamma deserved it i eish tod hi dia hota baazu phir se waise yeh besharm kahan baaz aa gaya ughh .

Hs trying to calm chori was sweet but i again felt it was rushed and the old dynamic was missing like i just don't see the actors connecting like a few weeks back it is a hit or miss. Somedays we get lucky and get a FANTASTIC and moving epi where everything is on point or we get bit of blah epis like today where the connection seems missing.

HB ka toh kya hi bolein i swear they wetr never this boring or without a spark these days they are on auto pilot and just put me to sleep and to be completly honest i end up fast forwarding caz their is absolutly nothing there to enjoy or watch. They were better off as kirayedarani and maalik makan atleast they used to talk and had more apnapan then this faltu ka courtesy and fakeness where everything feels like a lie . Sach boloon they now look like kirayedarni maalkikmakan and pehle ek dum family thi from word go

Aaj sabse mast apni chori hi thi with her truth bombs i really appreciate her do some khulasa and phodoying thise truth bombs and humari babbo ji 2 sec main start ho gayi kya main selfish hoon🤣🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ idk if it is me but aajkal babita kuch zyada hi pouting atart kar di hai and it doesn't suit her pehle bhi she had her ego and anger/tamtrum issues but their was a fine balance

Ab kuch zyada hi bachi bani ghoom rahi hai babita shayad nayi naveli dulhan hai issliye But it is just not suiting her. Bohat hi immature kar rahi hai babita woh jo pehle ek bouquet tha of many moods and flaws yet ek tehraav tha woh missing hai and in all this poor paridhi seems the most out of sync and confused. Babita confused aur joker toh hai hi in her flips but aajkal it feels so apparent paridhi is losing connect too atleast i feel so. I need the powerful babita and paridhi who did the epic jeete hain chal scene or throwing ashok the door or slapping him . I want that confident mature young lady who despite her confusions and issues was never clownish and had this form keechav towards her. Aajkal babita ke hone na hone se koi farak nahi padta and HB toh wk dum lifeless ho gaye hain and now individually bhi i am finding it difficult to connect with badla hua hanuman

Lol at guilty babita i was laughing so hard at his hum aapko lene aaye hain🤣 And apni cheez dhoond rahi hoon seriously lol though i felt paridhi more like her usual self in precap scene byt aaj toh hadh level disintrest dikh raha tha from both ani and pari

Cent percent KHARI baat boli yeh aapne😛😆.....wohi toh irony hai....they had more natural apnapan before shaadi.....now they look like they are putting on an act of a married couple....natural nahin lag raha.

Babita ka rebirth chal raha hai with this shaadi.....lol she still seems to be in toddler mode....dheere dheere adulthood tak pahunch jaaye shaayad.....writers ki meherbaani rahi toh.....lol

Shaadi se pehle waali Babita toh grown Babita thi...isliye she had a mix of traits....yeh waali Babita toh naya janam leke abhi bhi bacchi hi hai😆

And yes, I feel mostly indifferent to Babita now....and seems like the actors do as well....can't even blame them....itna tossing around chal raha hai....

I can only hope HS ko kuch worthwhile dein karne ko rather than just being a spectator in mother-daughter ki life.

Epis haven't been consistent since the shaadi fiasco...mainly because they opened up so many threads in that timeframe...ab ek ek karke close kar rahe hain woh saare.....aaj toh it felt like they were in rush to fix up Babita after dragging out her tantrum for so long...lol