Don't know: ajao saray - Page 3

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I know right. It’s so unfair to babes. She can’t even enjoy her newly married life.

Woh bas paida hi hui hai senior Khuranas ki seva karne ke liye.

Mini says babes apni marji se ji. Babes does so. She is dumb and Mini madame sunaoes her.

I hate that writers are making Babita villain here when she is the victim here.

How I so agree..

And please don't think that I dislike paridhi or something .it's nothing like that .I have not seen her shows before this and before the marriage sequence I actually liked her and Hanita chemistry .It's just that did not expect such behaviour from her .she appeared sweet and professional so a bit disappointed now .it's sad that you like a story a couple but you don't get enough of them not Bec of storyline or writing but Bec of actors .

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It's honestly ridiculous. Like she said, she's not cold hearted. She knows that their growing age is becoming hard on them and they need someone to take care of them, but that's not Babita's job. She did it for 17 years and was given nothing but insults and abuse in return. If she's putting her foot down this time, then let her!

I don't get why she's being called dumb for not wanting to be around people who abused her. Remember, abuse doesn't always have to come in a physical form. What the Khuranas have done is harm her mentally and emotionally to the extent that it's only in her mid-thirties, that she's starting to create an identity for herself. She's finally, slowly allowing herself to want things for herself without being forced to feel guilty for them.

For Minnie, I understand that they're her grandparents, but for her to expect Babes to do anything for them is beyond words. Minnie was the one who took Babes out of that home in the first place so that she didn't have to suffer anymore because of them. And now she'll want to bring them back in? That too, after knowing full well how Babes feels about them?

And I don't get why all of Babes' suggestions were being shot down. Putting them up in a hotel or finding them another home to rent are all reasonable. Besides, she's even offering to pay for their rent, so it's not like she's completely abandoning them. If Naeem Bi doesn't want to let them go, then that's her problem, not Babita's.

@bold — I so agree. All her reasons are valid, proper and more intelligent than Mini’s and HS’

I just don’t understand this jabarjasti ka making Babes at fault and proving her wrong always.

She wasn’t wrong in asking apology for Paraya Mard comment. It wasn’t her ego. Hanuman was freaking way out of line. Writers totally flipped that and made it about her ego. Total writing contradiction there.

And now too. She isn’t wrong for not wanting Khuranas with her. I am so sure Biji as soon as comes, will start expecting Babita to behave certain way. Earlier in her marriage she couldn’t be with her husband coz she had to look after her in-laws and now even though she doesn’t have in-laws, she can’t want to spend time with her husband. There’s so going to be friction where she would want to be with Hanuman and she will have to do things for Dadu Biji. And yet Mini will blame her.

So done with Mini glorification here. 😔

Don't hit me but the way Khatri said duplicate baap mujhe toh itni zor ki hasi aayi🤣🤣🤣🤣

Infact he has become hilarious now. Original baap ke original maa baap 🤣🤣

OMG what an incredible Hanita scene!!!! Loved loved loved it!

MUAAAAAH.

Specially the way HS said kiska ghar? Yeh aap hi ka hai ji

Aise hi makan maalikin thodi naa bolta hoon❤️

The shoulder rest. The chin pull.

Aaye haaye!☺️

I can feel both Mini and Babita here. You ARE truly sensitive towards your grand parents and I can totally get Babita as well. She doesn't want her ex in laws around here, no one would want that.

Infact lol, Irfan bhi galat nahi hai. He wants to sell off his makaan and settle elsewhere with his mother (preferably to manage the household). Bass bande ki thodisi neeyat aur tareeka galat hai.

But overall, amazing episode <3

I really hope HS comforts Mini about the whole Beeji daadu issue. He cannot just ignore that she overheard their convo and was heartbroken. I think he will talk.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Don't hit me but the way Khatri said duplicate baap mujhe toh itni zor ki hasi aayi🤣🤣🤣🤣

Infact he has become hilarious now. Original baap ke original maa baap 🤣🤣

OMG what an incredible Hanita scene!!!! Loved loved loved it!

MUAAAAAH.

Specially the way HS said kiska ghar? Yeh aap hi ka hai ji

Aise hi makan maalikin thodi naa bolta hoon❤️

The shoulder rest. The chin pull.

Aaye haaye!☺️

I can feel both Mini and Babita here. You ARE truly sensitive towards your grand parents and I can totally get Babita as well. She doesn't want her ex in laws around here, no one would want that.

Infact lol, Irfan bhi galat nahi hai. He wants to sell off his makaan and settle elsewhere with his mother (preferably to manage the household). Bass bande ki thodisi neeyat aur tareeka galat hai.

But overall, amazing episode <3

Love Hanita scene, love it after a long time, simple bt matured one.

I don't think HS himself is ok with the idea of the Khuranas coming to the haveli permanently because it would hurt Babita. His suggestion today seemed a temporary arrangement but it was good to see that he left the decision to her, so that Babita would be the one to have the final say. It was her haveli too. I laughed when she mentioned finding another place for rent, because we'd all discussed this option. I also liked that she said she wasn't a bad person, she understood their issues but she also had to think of herself. Why shouldn't she put her happiness first?

I am sure HS is now uncomfortable after what Irfan said because he is concerned that not only will Irfan create problems for NB but also say or do something to upset Dadu Beeji, which as he saw in Minnie's eyes, was quite a disturbing thought for her. Seeing Babita's distress today also confirmed his initial reading that it wouldn't be a good idea to bring them in to the house.

Both Babita and Minnie need to move on from their past and as long as the Khuranas are back in a domestic setting with them, it won't happen. Mother-daughter conflicts would continue, they would somehow remember both Lovely and Ashok and the bitterness would not go. They both need some space from each other and from the Khuranas. Beech mein HS phans gaya hai - God help him. The look on his face when he saw Minnie in the kitchen - nice touch there showing him reading her after the apology scene - made it clear that his mind had already thought several steps ahead to what was going on.

One thing I really liked was that in keeping with the PB approach of showing characters with various shades, Irfan didn't come across as this typical evil or manipulative son who wanted nothing but to hadap his mother's property, and I hope he remains this way. I think he would want to take his mother home for his own selfish needs but his comment about the Khuranas not being straightforward was spot on. He's read them perfectly and I think he is right to be concerned that they would take advantage of NB - she can be quite a softie sometimes. They rely on NB's generosity to an extent yet have no warmth for her son HS and his new wife. Irfan and HS know each other since childhood, so it looks like they share a lot of history.

In all this, my biggest concern is how hurt NB is going to be when everything goes haywire, and because of that HS too. I don't think she's going to leave with Irfan - there will be a big sacrifice she is going to make soon, i.e. losing the chance to go live with her son because she might choose to stay back in her own house for the sake of the Khuranas. They way she honors her dil ke rishte, and especially the way she has been talking about Dadu being her moonh bola bhai, tells me she will try to protect them by staying back in Patiala, in her own house. I am curious to see if it will also be because of HS and his Veer Balika that she will decide not to let the senior Khuranas be homeless overnight or have to stay alone in a rented place. They do not just need care physically but also need emotional support as they grow older.

I was actually quite happy to see Khatri back, much needed break. He might be a sleazeball (didn't miss the way he pointed out to Irfan that Babit was his behenji), but he says a few things that are on point, especially about Minnie looking for someone apna if her parents were too busy, the difference being they had been too busy fighting with each other instead of romancing. As soon as I'd learned that Irfan was concerned about the property itself, I knew Khatri would be involved, and now I expect this whole thing to become extremely ugly, with some of the unaddressed issues and slurs from the pre-wedding festivities brought up like they were today. In a way, that's good because it will cause everyone to spill out more venom and face issues instead of sweeping them under the rug or pretending as if they never happened. I loved how he took a dig at Minnie about how she could not resist the pull of blood ties and how HS was a duplicate in her life, a stand-in. All these bits and pieces are going to add up, and I also hope HS hears of it one day. It's necessary for their growth as father-daughter.

I think Minnie wanting to help Preet and Mickey out by possibly having them stay over at the haveli might change Babita's mind or create some other ruckus. From a humanitarian perspective, I think it's fine for anyone to be concerned about Dadu Beeji's health, and Babita too is conscious of it, but I also agree with her that it doesn't mean they'd have to live in the same house as her. A better solution needs to be found. Also, as long as HS and/or Babita are helping them, their own useless kids will do nothing for them at all, and in fact they'd have an even bigger excuse not to look after their own parents. Also, I am wondering if Minnie is transferring the application of her savior skills from Babita to her grandparents. I know she loves them and cares about their well-being but she's still a kid who should live her life and let grown ups deal with logistics. I am so afraid she will ask her parents to let the Khuranas stay with them as her 18th birthday present. I really hope not.

As for the token physical contact between HS and Babita, it was pretty obviously a nod to the audience asking for this. Her smoothing his hair when it was already set in place looked out of place and took us and HS by surprise, and today they didn't edit out the bit where he put his hand on hers. The whole thing was ridiculous and it looked unconvincing to me, especially because the contact was there but the emotion was still missing. Anyway, forget it...the rest of the episode was great.

HS wants a kalesh-free house but that ain't happening. When's his next camping session or conference?

Originally posted by: Riyarita

Patani I don't know but I don't feel the same chem of HANITA now after marriage .

Bec chemistry build hi nhi Hui shadi ke baad .we were made to believe they married ND started living like husband wife .No slow progression of romance .

And scene felt like they are trying to give moments for fans.Nd it is evident now from the scenes or no scenes it's actors uncomfort .I mean how beautifuly the writers shown Hanita falling in love specially Hanuman and now it seems unbelievable that after marriage they will skip the romance between them or them coming together for first time or their first hug .There was no explanation of kumkum scene ND now this scene confirms it .

@bold, I just wrote this in another post. That's exactly what I felt - they took feedback from us but I think it was too obvious that it was inserted for us and didn't seem organic.

I think hanuman is not being inconsiderate towards babita. He knows irfan is not happy with senior khuranas being around in his house and has can sense him insulting them in future which will hurt mini. He is just trying to temporarily find a solution before everything blows up

If mini due to all this decides to shift with her grandparents in another house then it will be his family that will be broken. And babita is not going to Like that also. Though it's unfair to babita to keep seeing them in her own house. Not that with them living in nb house she does have to see them everyday. But in future I see her choosing between mini going off to stay with her grandparents or then staying with mini in her house. Which is again not fair to her. Why should she loose mini to them. And right now she is ready to take finanacial responsibility of their rent which is again not fair on her too. And why are they paying less rent to nb when lovely and sukhi can send more.

Ideally lovely or ashok should be asked to come and take them and till then untill irfan goes away for 7 days I agree with hs solution. I think hs should have told her about how irfan was talking about them and how mini heard it all. He again was not very clear with her. But them living with nb is not a permanent solution either. They will get more older fall sick they will need ashok or lovely to step up and take them. Mini who is not earning currently or babita cannot be financially responsible for them for ever

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

If Naeem Bi doesn't want to let them go, then that's her problem, not Babita's.

Today, when HS was saying that it's time they thought about NB when she does so much for everyone, my heart just broke. He doesn't even know what Irfan and Khatri are planning and when all that comes to the surface... Jeez...

NB really deserves so much better. I don't think I can bear to watch her suffer in this old age.

I have a feeling NB is the one who's going to make the ultimate sacrifice, choosing HS and Minnie over Irfan and Imran. It's hurting me to even think about what she's going to lose.