I hated Minnie ‘s savior complex and self pity because it was self inflicted and somehow HS was being blamed for that- ppl were telling why he can’t sense things and all that. He said he will be a father but it was all words blah.. blah.
I like when people deal with their own issues- introspection. When Babita extracted an apology from HS it made me mad, now Minnie trying to do the same was making me super mad as I expected her to have more sense than her mom based on their thinking not the age.
Minnie came through when she told Babita that she felt bad for a day about Kammo’s words but then got over it. That is why I still consider them family- they are not holding each other accountable for things that happened unintentionally- HS said I said things in anger which I didn’t mean to Minnie in regards to Babita. If Minnie has sense she will understand an apply it to the CD situation. Now if they expect separate apologies from him to gaye bhains paani mein!!
LOL I don't know where you are getting the sense that I expected HS to APOLOGIZE to Mini😕
This is what I mean by people getting oversensitive in their love for HS😆.....all I've asked for since MANY days is that he TALK to Mini seeing her change in behavior....that as a parent he has to be able to step up....and that is NOT an unreasonable expectation....this is not about blaming HS....this is about being clear-eyed about the things he too failed over....that doesn't mean he is being blamed....that means everyone's part in this is being evaluated clearly....they all made missteps.
So it's not about needing apologies...it's about realization....which finally seems to be happening in today's epi.
And self-introspection DIDN'T happen for many days....that was part of the problem.
Anyways, I think we can put this discussion to rest for now😆
