Minnie breakdown - Page 4

Wow what lengths people will go to bring Mini and Mickey together is crazy.

He is not worthy of both the Girls and I hope that the Girls see him for what he is and give him the boot.

Maybe he should practice his new found knowledge on his own Family and apologise to all the Girls that he has cheated.

Originally posted by: guddi01

Wow what lengths people will go to bring Mini and Mickey together is crazy.

He is not worthy of both the Girls and I hope that the Girls see him for what he is and give him the boot.

Maybe he should practice his new found knowledge on his own Family and apologise to all the Girls that he has cheated.

Did he cheat you or something? Do you know someone he cheated? You are writing as if you know it all so up close and personal

Did they show someone preggers with his baby?? Or that he molested someone? Or that he lead someone on in a serious relationship?

Maybe Micky is married this whole time 😂

Originally posted by: guddi01

Deefy89

Have you even watched it from the beginning.

From the beginning he has been dating more than 2 girls at the same time.

Than he chased Mini and wanted to make her his girlfriend by all cost but it never worked. Than he becomes Mini friend and The girls patch up and again he tries and she says no.

Than he takes up with Preeti, who by the way did ask Mini and who said no. Mickey and Preeti start dating. And yes my dear its called cheating and deceit., even Mini knows its wrong but still goes out with Mickey and yes its during the Wedding and than turning up at night not the first time and forces her to come down again not a good sign and she did not tell HS as she knew it was wrong.

Even HS has told he does not like him coming around like this but only tolerating for the Wedding.

Its never done to go out with your friend's boyfriend openly like that its deceit.

This is all going to blow up like bomb in a toxic friendship and a shame all for a Romeo.

Mini is young and should pursue her studies and make something of her life and when old enough find a boyfriend. And certainly not someone like Mickey who plants seeds of doubt in her mind regarding her relationship with her Babes and its this that's bothering her and Mini should be wiser than to come in this talks with him.

Yes I have watched it since episode number 1. That seems to be your go to question when someone points out the ridiculousness of your statements. Ppl CAN watch it from day 1 and have a different opinion to you, you know. With respect, you seem to have a very close minded opinion on what dating and teenagers at that age go thru.

I agree he was a Romeo. Just as hs was once upon a time a woman beater and drunkard. The point is that PPL CHANGE. Yet you continue to judge the character based on what you’d seen in the introduction episodes that he featured in.

What about preets deceit? Rightly so as u point out it’s preet thAts mini’s childhood friend and it’s been common knowledge (even with bobby) that mickey has been into mini since he met her. WhereS HER loyalty. You seem to be so hard pressed on being against the two of them being together that you fail to realise, even through his faults, his been a MUCH better friend to mini than ANYONE ELSE in her life (including babita).

You seem to equate dating to marriage however you are wrong. Women CAN date, and focus on their studies without having to be hurriedly wed off. Perhaps you’re from a different generation however currently, ppl of mini’s age really do struggle with feelings and attraction to the opposite sex, without having to sacrifice their career and be married off.

Yeah I agree going with your friends bf is deceit, however mini has not done that. She has never acted on any of the feelings she’s started to feel (NOT BY CHOICE). In the same breath, where is preets loyalty with going with a guy who’s been in love with her supposed best friend since day 1? Mickey mini friendship is actually stronger than mini preet because preet gave it all up over a guy (which won’t be easily forgotten). Both mini and mickey haven’t crossed any lines and i don’t think mini ever will, because unlike preet, friendship and loyalty actually means something to mini.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Ashok was in relationship with Meeta since last 10 years of their Marriage. So first 7 years he might have visited them couple times.

Babita and Ashok could have had differences. But, Ashok was in other relationship and yet he kept Babita in dark for 10 years. He should have come home & told her about Meeta earlier. Even the last time He came, he couldn't muster the courage to tell Babita. He left. It was Meeta who landed up at airport & so, Ashok had to confess it to Mini and Babita that he doesn't love her and that he loves someone else.

That's a huge back stab. You no longer love your wife. You keep her in dark in sham Marriage for 10 years to serve your family while you enjoy your life away from home. If Meeta hadn't come, he would gone another couple years without saying anything and keeping his wife & daughter in dark.

I agree they weren't compatible. But still Ashok shares bigger share of the blame. He always will. And, what about Mini? He fulfilled no duty of his towards her either.

I am not writing the story. I am just speculating what might have happened in the initial years of marriage based on what the CVs have shown. I think I have every right to my opinion. If you have problems, maybe you should take it up with the makers. Why fight with other members? You are entitled to your opinion. I am entitled to mine.

Originally posted by: rose1000

I am not writing the story. I am just speculating what might have happened in the initial years of marriage based on what the CVs have shown. I think I have every right to my opinion. If you have problems, maybe you should take it up with the makers. Why fight with other members? You are entitled to your opinion. I am entitled to mine.

Can you please show me where am I fighting with you? You put across your point and I am putting mine. Isn't this a debate forum? Someone quotes you in an open forum, and that person is fighting with you? My reply was in total decency.

I am not writing story either. I just pointed out what have been shown in the show. You are speculating about first 7 years of Babita and Ashok's married life.

Whereas I am talking about what was said in the show that Ashok was in relationship with Meeta since 10 years. Babita and Ashok were married for 17 years. So, Ashok lied to Babita for 10 years. If he was unhappy, he should have told her. Which he didn't. That's why he shares bigger blame for marriage breaking down.

Now if you want to counter, kindly do so with logical points shown in the show. This is an open forum and we are all here for discussion.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Can you please show me where am I fighting with you? You put across your point and I am putting mine. Isn't this a debate forum? Someone quotes you in an open forum, and that person is fighting with you? My reply was in total decency.

I am not writing story either. I just pointed out what have been shown in the show. You are speculating about first 7 years of Babita and Ashok's married life.

Whereas I am talking about what was said in the show that Ashok was in relationship with Meeta since 10 years. Babita and Ashok were married for 17 years. So, Ashok lied to Babita for 10 years. If he was unhappy, he should have told her. Which he didn't. That's why he shares bigger blame for marriage breaking down.

Now if you want to counter, kindly do so with logical points shown in the show. This is an open forum and we are all here for discussion.

This is the second time this has happened. There are other people in this thread who have said a few things against Babita. But somehow you chose to target me. I have stopped making comments in the forum as I did before. If you want to debate shouldn't you be debating with all members equally? Why just pick on me? Anyways, I rarely comment. So I am ending this here. Please do not...I repeat , please do not quote me anymore.

Originally posted by: rose1000

This is the second time this has happened. There are other people in this thread who have said a few things against Babita. But somehow you chose to target me. I have stopped making comments in the forum as I did before. If you want to debate shouldn't you be debating with all members equally? Why just pick on me? Anyways, I rarely comment. So I am ending this here. Please do not...I repeat , please do not quote me anymore.

Target you? I am just putting across my points. Where is the targeting? I have not said a single personal word to you. Re-read both my posts. They are about show and show's characters.

On this thread I quoted you, but I discuss with everybody here on the forum. You can check other threads if you want. I am not targeting you.

And this is an open forum. Once you post on public forum, people quote and discuss.

Anyways, I won't quote you any further. Have fun. End of discussion from my side.

I don't think Ashok would have divorced Babitha at all if Meeta didn't come to Indi and force him, he would have kept meeta in London for another 10 + saying some excuses can continue acting like a sacrificing son role in India...

Ashok-Babitha lacks communication and also distance for too many years have never given chance to develop deep feelings between each other. Whatever may be the relationship break Ashok takes the BIG share as he cheated his partner and his kid for 10 + years. He did nothing to his daughter Minni failed totally as a father.

How can we take away the miscommunication and distance be equal and leading to be cheating, if so will role reverse Babitha -HS feel in love before 10 + years with no sexual relationship can the blame go to lack of Ashok love or not communication with her and will society and people accept them ? I don't think so, it will be worst for a woman than a man..

What happened to Ashok so called love for meeta ? He claimed he loves meeta and after marriage what happened ? Who is blamed in Ashok-Meeta relationship ? Meeta who didn't accept his advice to meet Minnie and raising her opinions and wanting or it's Ashok who will never able to love anyone but himself..

It's the CVS who showed Ashok is the selfish, egoistic guy who love MONEY and HIM and then only others like meeta, parents, sister, minnie and every one..The guy who feels his parents as burden and made ugly blame on his wife character to avoid giving single penny to his daughter maintanance.. I don't understand how can CVS justify Ashok character as gray and babitha who accepted all this can also be termed as Gray ..

Babita is grey because she exploits her own daughter Minnie in all possible ways .

No Preeti did ask Mini first and she was not interested in Mickey. And Mickey took up with Preeti when he saw that Mini was not interested in him. So don't blame Preeti for going out with Mickey when she made her feelings clear to them both.

What does that tell you about Mickey. Once a Romeo always a Romeo.

In fact both the Girls should give him the boot.

Lol..I have seen boys like this in real life and in Friends as well. They flirt from one to another and cause damage as well.

No don't compare him to HS.

He should go and practice his new found knowledge on emotions on his own family first.

Anyway what's this fascination with girls having boyfriends at this age instead of studying and making something with there life.