Babita scar is way too deep.. - Page 3

Hey Annx, you make some valid points.

Even I was not keen on them getting married so fast. But, you are right, for a woman like Babita, she needs that assurance that she has can exert her rights over HS, with marriage at least she will get that. She can do it haq se. Especially, with so many insecurities within herself, she wouldn’t have been able to come out of it with just having HS as a boyfriend. He needed to be her husband in order for her to fully come out of all her insecurities. HS will handle her just fine, with care, and love

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

I shouldn't have used degrade what I feel. Is she still. Feels. That she is not. Worth a healthy relationship that's why her insecurities are not home yet...

U r right getting divorced in India is not easy... As it takes years for proceeding and more than winning ur inner battle is more difficult than this...

I hope babes understand this soon....

Yes she is voicing out as she knows that this man will listen to her rant... As HS told earlier to. Lala that she is taking her past frustration on him....

She will understanad gradually. she needs love for that. she never got complete love from anyone. Her father could not stand up to society pressure and got her married at 18, her husband left her, and though it is not shown in the serial the vibe is that he did mistreat babita, in laws used her, when she stood up for herself, everyone ditched her including her brother. She lost everything except for mini and was on the brink of loosing mini as well when beeji and ashok wanted mini to live with them.

And what they are showing in the serial is that different people have different perspectives. what HS feels is negative ego is Babita's doubt. she doubts herself, she only wants assurance.

Hanuman flirting with another woman so soon is not going to give her any good vibes. it is actually very healthy that she is voicing these doubts. if she does not it will spoil the relation.

she is voicing out not only because she knows that HS will listen to her, but because she is also building up her self confidence and her trust in HS.

though it is not shown, but HS should have come clean about imarti, anad even if he did not, the episode where mini says that if HS is so full of imarti's love why did he show dreams to babita. this is correct. babita cannot forget that so soon. she knows HS loved imarti, but the fact that he was not willing to give babita her space in his life, even after indirectly confessing his love, is hurting her, is making her dount herself and her love.

and again, though not shown, the fear babita has is that when her husband who married her when she was a comely girl of 18 and even gave him a child cannot love her, then how can a nice man like HS love her? what can she give him? she cannot give him the best part of her youth, she has a teenage daughter, baggage from past relations, in laws still nearby who keep interfering.

P.S. sorry for the long post, but when i started writing, i just kept on writing. couldn't stop myself. dont mean to offend anyone.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

She will understanad gradually. she needs love for that. she never got complete love from anyone. Her father could not stand up to society pressure and got her married at 18, her husband left her, and though it is not shown in the serial the vibe is that he did mistreat babita, in laws used her, when she stood up for herself, everyone ditched her including her brother. She lost everything except for mini and was on the brink of loosing mini as well when beeji and ashok wanted mini to live with them.

And what they are showing in the serial is that different people have different perspectives. what HS feels is negative ego is Babita's doubt. she doubts herself, she only wants assurance.

Hanuman flirting with another woman so soon is not going to give her any good vibes. it is actually very healthy that she is voicing these doubts. if she does not it will spoil the relation.

she is voicing out not only because she knows that HS will listen to her, but because she is also building up her self confidence and her trust in HS.

though it is not shown, but HS should have come clean about imarti, anad even if he did not, the episode where mini says that if HS is so full of imarti's love why did he show dreams to babita. this is correct. babita cannot forget that so soon. she knows HS loved imarti, but the fact that he was not willing to give babita her space in his life, even after indirectly confessing his love, is hurting her, is making her dount herself and her love.

and again, though not shown, the fear babita has is that when her husband who married her when she was a comely girl of 18 and even gave him a child cannot love her, then how can a nice man like HS love her? what can she give him? she cannot give him the best part of her youth, she has a teenage daughter, baggage from past relations, in laws still nearby who keep interfering.

P.S. sorry for the long post, but when i started writing, i just kept on writing. couldn't stop myself. dont mean to offend anyone.

I agree with all the points u mentioned yaar... mere dil ki baat likh di tumne...

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

she knows HS loved imarti, but the fact that he was not willing to give babita her space in his life, even after indirectly confessing his love, is hurting her, is making her dount herself and her love.

Can you elaborate on this? When did he refuse to give her a place in his life? Did I miss a scene somewhere?

Wow guys so let me give my perspective also... I agree with all of u that Babita wanted love but also a specific place in HS life that haq with which she can say anything to him without hesitation...

And that's not possible in dating or live in... And Babita is not a kid nd of person who believes in these things... Even after having a broken marriage she still believes in marriage that makes her a strong woman... Only thing she wants is his love and he flirting with Poonam at this time dint go well with her...

Only thing what I felt is Babita is hesitating to show her emotions when it comes to sharmana... Like some ladies don't like if their hubby romances or flirts when there is third person there.. That I can feel bcoz even I was like that... 😉

IDK if I made any sense... Agar bakwas lage to daatna mat... Aur kya bolu.. Jo bhi main such rahi thi u guys penned it... 🤗

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

She will understanad gradually. she needs love for that. she never got complete love from anyone. Her father could not stand up to society pressure and got her married at 18, her husband left her, and though it is not shown in the serial the vibe is that he did mistreat babita, in laws used her, when she stood up for herself, everyone ditched her including her brother. She lost everything except for mini and was on the brink of loosing mini as well when beeji and ashok wanted mini to live with them.

And what they are showing in the serial is that different people have different perspectives. what HS feels is negative ego is Babita's doubt. she doubts herself, she only wants assurance.

Hanuman flirting with another woman so soon is not going to give her any good vibes. it is actually very healthy that she is voicing these doubts. if she does not it will spoil the relation.

she is voicing out not only because she knows that HS will listen to her, but because she is also building up her self confidence and her trust in HS.

though it is not shown, but HS should have come clean about imarti, anad even if he did not, the episode where mini says that if HS is so full of imarti's love why did he show dreams to babita. this is correct. babita cannot forget that so soon. she knows HS loved imarti, but the fact that he was not willing to give babita her space in his life, even after indirectly confessing his love, is hurting her, is making her dount herself and her love.

and again, though not shown, the fear babita has is that when her husband who married her when she was a comely girl of 18 and even gave him a child cannot love her, then how can a nice man like HS love her? what can she give him? she cannot give him the best part of her youth, she has a teenage daughter, baggage from past relations, in laws still nearby who keep interfering.

P.S. sorry for the long post, but when i started writing, i just kept on writing. couldn't stop myself. dont mean to offend anyone.

Very good descriptions of her inner thoughts. After Betrayal and divorce her self-esteem is very low. That's why she feel that she is unworthy of love and no one can love her. Also for the same reason she needs assurance again and again. My opinion.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Can you elaborate on this? When did he refuse to give her a place in his life? Did I miss a scene somewhere?

I guess she means the paraya mard wala scene... Correct me if I m wrong...

Originally posted by: inlieu

Can you elaborate on this? When did he refuse to give her a place in his life? Did I miss a scene somewhere?

episode 180- 182, where mini asks him that if he is so full of imarti's love then why did he show babes dreams. and when she tried to stop him from drinking, he said something on these lines.

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Wow guys so let me give my perspective also... I agree with all of u that Babita wanted love but also a specific place in HS life that haq with which she can say anything to him without hesitation...

And that's not possible in dating or live in... And Babita is not a kid nd of person who believes in these things... Even after having a broken marriage she still believes in marriage that makes her a strong woman... Only thing she wants is his love and he flirting with Poonam at this time dint go well with her...

Only thing what I felt is Babita is hesitating to show her emotions when it comes to sharmana... Like some ladies don't like if their hubby romances or flirts when there is third person there.. That I can feel bcoz even I was like that... 😉

IDK if I made any sense... Agar bakwas lage to daatna mat... Aur kya bolu.. Jo bhi main such rahi thi u guys penned it... 🤗

what you are saying is absolutely correct. babita is not only shy but also unsure of herself. and they still have not said ILU. they have confessed indirectly, but saying ILU is also very important. the only one who says ILU to babita is mini, HS needs to say the words as well.

thats why in precap, babita asks HS whether he likes her or not. she wants to hear those words.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

episode 180- 182, where mini asks him that if he is so full of imarti's love then why did he show babes dreams. and when she tried to stop him from drinking, he said something on these lines.

He never said that he wouldn't give her a place in his life in that scene. You might have misunderstood.