Nicely written. And precisely what I have been trying to convey.
Writers are labeling Babita's insecurities as "Ego". Which it is not. Her relation with Ashok, she didn't have ego. It was Ashok who had giant EGO. He was ready to pay Lawyer 1 lakh per hearing and Khatri muh-mange paise to badmouth Babita. But, In his own words, he won't pay a single penny to Babita. His Ego was hurt. In his Ego, He tarnished her character in the court.
I am seriously baffled as to how can anyone say it was Babita's Ego that led to her separation from her Ex-husband. Have you even watched the episodes? I am watching them now, so I know what I am talking about.
The Camera incident that is being brought to say that Babita doubted HS's intentions. No She didn't. All she said was - kisi ko pata chalega to koi kya sochega. She was worried about Society. And anyway, to accept this expensive gift from someone who is Landlord or Friend, is not normal. She was right in her worries.
As for HS and Babes, Up until Pottery scene, they were shown to be equals. Caring for each other. Confiding in each other. Being there for each other. Discussing things. Talking and sharing pain. Mini was never needed for them to communicate. They did that so well. They fit.
Since then there had been a shift in writing.
Paraya Mard comment was below the belt. HS decided for Babes and Mini and to keep them away, he went out of line. First of all, why should he decide. And even if he did, the words were harsh and very hurtful. Even then Babita came back to support him. Proposed him putting the hurt aside.
The way she asked the apology was wrong. But still the outrage over it extreme. Didn't see the same outrage over Paraya Mard comment. Outrage over why did Babita decide to leave when HS's case came out -- is huge. But no outrage over when HS said.. Galati ho gai Lale. Prayaschit karna padega. Galati as in.. leading Babita to this. He was backing off in that moment stating Imarti reason. Didn't see much outrage.
Hanuman and Babita are not real people. They are being written by someone. Right now, they have made HS adorable and Babita insecure. So, criticism should be for writers. Not for Babita and say.. she doesn't deserve HS. LOL. Well, it's a show. They are the end game. They are gonna be a couple. I hope some will be able to absorb that. 😆