Originally posted by: sillybutterfly
In the SBS interview she said she is trying this philosophy of giving someone excess of what they like. In that case they will start hating it after having too much of it. I don’t have a stand on her manipulating him. Also I think she got the confidence because Nayeem Bi kind of told Babita there are only 2 ppl who can stop him from drinking. It’s her and Imarti. Imarti isn’t here anymore and Babita doesn’t want to do anything about it. I think Mini’s and Nayeem Bi’s plan backfired.
I agree, she could probably be the one to stop him drinking. However it’s too early for her to be throwing her weight around challenging him. Not two weeks ago her daughter was threatening to leave now she wants to step in and control his life. This was the only way it was going to play out.
I hate how emotional blackmail is so often shown as an acceptable method of manipulation. She handled this problem as she handles every problem, emotionally, rash, without thought. Has she even bothered asking him WHY he drinks? I don’t even see what the big issue about his drinking is if I’m honest. He drinks like once a week and does not make a nuisance of himself. He’s a perfect gentleman even inebriated. It’s so amazing how much of a bubble she’s been living in all these years that even at her age she is so clueless about life.