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Why not should love not be shown in the journey as well. Are you trying to say after her Divorce she should have no life or love. It did not happen straight away we still a way from it yet.. i think you need to change your mindset as nothing as been shown to date to make you uncomfortable. It shows your thinking.

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

Your viewpoint is totally acceptable 😊. Sometimes even I feel what is the need of showing Hanita, can't the serial just progress without someone entering their life. But time and again, I realized the fact that, it is important to have someone in your life who supports you, understands you and respects you. From Babita's pov, she would never want to be in a relationship again. But, having someone in your life like Hanuman Singh is bound to lead to a relationship. If you like this statement or not, it happens. And like that psychologist said, no one understands the behaviour of the human brain,which is highly unpredictable....

They want to break the stereotypical norms of the society that woman cannot marry for the second time. Somewhere down, I feel living in such a patriarchal society is not going to yield any good results for us women. We need to deal with the situation the way we want to. We also have a life. When a man marries for the second time no one points fingers at him. But, when a women does, only at that point all the 'Tum yeh shaadi nahi kar sakti. Log kya sochenge' comes into being.... So I am sure that every Kamo Madhu in the society would get an answer, by watching this track...

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

They want to break the stereotypical norms of the society that woman cannot marry for the second time. Somewhere down, I feel living in such a patriarchal society is not going to yield any good results for us women. We need to deal with the situation the way we want to. We also have a life. When a man marries for the second time no one points fingers at him. But, when a women does, only at that point all the 'Tum yeh shaadi nahi kar sakti. Log kya sochenge' comes into being.... So I am sure that every Kamo Madhu in the society would get an answer, by watching this track...

And to add, to all those asking why should Babita marry for the second time, have you all asked why should Hanuman marry for the second time. This just shows the thinking of everyone with this thought. Not trying to question the onscreen characters but just the characters living in this society. Just once try to change your mindset and even you will love them....

Hs and babitas story has made me too look forward in life. Most important is the guy should be like HS. The way he understands mini , not even real fathers do what he does.

Originally posted by: dellaakdha

@Reshmi.parekh78 👍🏼U have valid point..And

Agree with everyone's view...Personally I feel Babita deserves love in her life, to be loved by someone for what she is and to love someone with her heart...Her marriage with Ashok and her service to his family was just a duty as bahu.. she expected love from Ashok as a wife.. she was excited and nervous to meet him after so many years(Her Expressions says it during initial episodes) But the fact is she never received that affection from him...Love comes from respect, trust , friendship..

And about showing some moments between HanIta now in Mini's depression track...I think makers don't want to drain the viewers emotionally...They are balancing both the tracks to lighten the environment/mood..Till now HS didn't admit that he loves Babita...So it's a long way to go...Their track has just now started...

Friends, I respect your views since it is nice to read positive updates and know that ppl are so liberal ...think so well...but few of you comment without reading...atleast read the post...I have a very open mindset...and m equally liberal...u might have realised that...if u wud have read the post properly...i read few comments like ‘you should change your mindset’ ...or ‘why do you feel single mothers or divorcees don’t deserve a second chance’ go thru once agn ...Whn did I say that... I have very well mentioned that Babita shud meet someone and they should show that because she deserves someone good ...she shud get married ...y will I evn feel that she shud not marry someone ...infact she shud get someone wonderful as she is so wonderful & deserves someone special ...honestly wud go one step further and say that m happy that she got rid of the person who was worthless...as in ...as per the storyline ...the person who divorced her actually was not worthy for her ...and is not a gud human being ...so nothing bad has happened ...my point here is different ...I feel Mini and her mother are capable of facing the world ...face all problems in the most confident way ...be for each other...support each other......do anything they wish to do...so y show someone else in this journey ...which is their’s...y show dependency here ...not that support is not needed and HS and all others who are supportive are shown to be really good...but they can have the love track separate..as in she can meet someone in the course of time while she is already reaching great heights ...I mentioned that single mothers confidently take care of things and are inspiration for their children... their love track can be a natural one ...as in naturally a person can fall in love right ...Not because she/he is dependent ..just feel having someone helping u out while fighting the world and showing his intervention in each incident then how he is so good and then she falls in luv with him ...she is dependent on him ...that is not required....as for me these two journeys are different...atleast for me ...I luv the bond bet mother and her daughter and I want it to be just there as it is and the love track is most awaited but somehow don’t want it along with this track ...just want them separate ....infact doesn’t. It mean that I am looking out for a stronger independent version of Babita which we are already seeing now and loving it ..she is independent now as she is on her own and that is the change which I want to continue seeing ...but agn that does not mean at all that I m wanting to see Babita all alone ...and she has to stay single....guys this is another view of the same view point ...u just need to understand wat I mean ...and again u can have a different view ...as that is how v know different ways of looking at same situation ...someone also mentioned that I have no issue with HS marrying agn but with Babita marrying second time ...buddy... read the post properly ...both deserve to get married ....Male female did not evn cross my mind...the context itself was different ....post itself was different ...hope u atleast read it now ...sorry big post but read each and every word pls

Yes surely those who feel so are Khatris of society 😀 but for those who feel she should marry ...well that thought also is a problem ...basically wat a person does in his/her life is none of our business ....a person deserves to get married if he she wants to ....but if the person does not wish to get married that also is his/her decision ..basically it wud be great if society just becomes invisible ... just like no marriage is not required ...marriage is also not a compulsion ...what is required is what the person wants to do ..this is a fictional show and we are free to have views as v know itz a painting where colours are for free...but in reality live and let live should be our motto ....if a person feels companionship is necessary without being married that also should be ok ...to say that y should she do this and not do this... itself shows mindset ....most important is ‘is she happy.... if she is ...that is what she deserves ...this is not related to the track but in reality ...v don’t deserve to comment on what someone shud do or not do ...that’s when v can say v are open ...

Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

Friends, I respect your views since it is nice to read positive updates and know that ppl are so liberal ...think so well...but few of you comment without reading...atleast read the post...I have a very open mindset...and m equally liberal...u might have realised that...if u wud have read the post properly...i read few comments like ‘you should change your mindset’ ...or ‘why do you feel single mothers or divorcees don’t deserve a second chance’ go thru once agn ...Whn did I say that... I have very well mentioned that Babita shud meet someone and they should show that because she deserves someone good ...she shud get married ...y will I evn feel that she shud not marry someone ...infact she shud get someone wonderful as she is so wonderful & deserves someone special ...honestly wud go one step further and say that m happy that she got rid of the person who was worthless...as in ...as per the storyline ...the person who divorced her actually was not worthy for her ...and is not a gud human being ...so nothing bad has happened ...my point here is different ...I feel Mini and her mother are capable of facing the world ...face all problems in the most confident way ...be for each other...support each other......do anything they wish to do...so y show someone else in this journey ...which is their’s...y show dependency here ...not that support is not needed and HS and all others who are supportive are shown to be really good...but they can have the love track separate..as in she can meet someone in the course of time while she is already reaching great heights ...I mentioned that single mothers confidently take care of things and are inspiration for their children... their love track can be a natural one ...as in naturally a person can fall in love right ...Not because she/he is dependent ..just feel having someone helping u out while fighting the world and showing his intervention in each incident then how he is so good and then she falls in luv with him ...she is dependent on him ...that is not required....as for me these two journeys are different...atleast for me ...I luv the bond bet mother and her daughter and I want it to be just there as it is and the love track is most awaited but somehow don’t want it along with this track ...just want them separate ....infact doesn’t. It mean that I am looking out for a stronger independent version of Babita which we are already seeing now and loving it ..she is independent now as she is on her own and that is the change which I want to continue seeing ...but agn that does not mean at all that I m wanting to see Babita all alone ...and she has to stay single....guys this is another view of the same view point ...u just need to understand wat I mean ...and again u can have a different view ...as that is how v know different ways of looking at same situation ...someone also mentioned that I have no issue with HS marrying agn but with Babita marrying second time ...buddy... read the post properly ...both deserve to get married ....Male female did not evn cross my mind...the context itself was different ....post itself was different ...hope u atleast read it now ...sorry big post but read each and every word pls

Dear, I did not point out that you have an issue with Babes marrying for the second time. I just pointed out in general. This is still the thought of many in our society. It was not to do anything with your opinion. Otherwise I wouldn't have written that your point is acceptable. Hope you understand...😃

Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

Friends, I respect your views since it is nice to read positive updates and know that ppl are so liberal ...think so well...but few of you comment without reading...atleast read the post...I have a very open mindset...and m equally liberal...u might have realised that...if u wud have read the post properly...i read few comments like ‘you should change your mindset’ ...or ‘why do you feel single mothers or divorcees don’t deserve a second chance’ go thru once agn ...Whn did I say that... I have very well mentioned that Babita shud meet someone and they should show that because she deserves someone good ...she shud get married ...y will I evn feel that she shud not marry someone ...infact she shud get someone wonderful as she is so wonderful & deserves someone special ...honestly wud go one step further and say that m happy that she got rid of the person who was worthless...as in ...as per the storyline ...the person who divorced her actually was not worthy for her ...and is not a gud human being ...so nothing bad has happened ...my point here is different ...I feel Mini and her mother are capable of facing the world ...face all problems in the most confident way ...be for each other...support each other......do anything they wish to do...so y show someone else in this journey ...which is their’s...y show dependency here ...not that support is not needed and HS and all others who are supportive are shown to be really good...but they can have the love track separate..as in she can meet someone in the course of time while she is already reaching great heights ...I mentioned that single mothers confidently take care of things and are inspiration for their children... their love track can be a natural one ...as in naturally a person can fall in love right ...Not because she/he is dependent ..just feel having someone helping u out while fighting the world and showing his intervention in each incident then how he is so good and then she falls in luv with him ...she is dependent on him ...that is not required....as for me these two journeys are different...atleast for me ...I luv the bond bet mother and her daughter and I want it to be just there as it is and the love track is most awaited but somehow don’t want it along with this track ...just want them separate ....infact doesn’t. It mean that I am looking out for a stronger independent version of Babita which we are already seeing now and loving it ..she is independent now as she is on her own and that is the change which I want to continue seeing ...but agn that does not mean at all that I m wanting to see Babita all alone ...and she has to stay single....guys this is another view of the same view point ...u just need to understand wat I mean ...and again u can have a different view ...as that is how v know different ways of looking at same situation ...someone also mentioned that I have no issue with HS marrying agn but with Babita marrying second time ...buddy... read the post properly ...both deserve to get married ....Male female did not evn cross my mind...the context itself was different ....post itself was different ...hope u atleast read it now ...sorry big post but read each and every word pls

i agree it does not necessary that they need someone to reach heights in her life.well members already have give their answers why the HS & love track is necessary so i have no different one.

but the main thing is that its a fiction show.& writers have to attract the viewrs so love track was necessary.ok i agree they can show the love track after already indendent track of babita & mini.

but the question is

kya viwers iss show se connect ho pate without showing entry of Hanuman singh?

from my point of view "no"

babita & mini independent track without any support that track take many episodes.i saw few episodes before the entry of Hanuman singh that episodes were quite boring for me.

iss show mein interst mujhe H.s ki entry ke baad aaya & i think many viewrs getting interst after the hanuman entry.

but that doesn't mean that i don't appreciate the concept of the show.i really appreciate the concept of the show bcoz i have same bond with my mom but show mein entertianment tadka is also necessary.

& that entertianment tadka is hanuman singh.ok & now lets talk about support system.so i think in real life we all need a support in our life whether immosnally or financially or in some other thing.that support system can be anyone whether our parents ,friends or collegue or life partner.

before reaching height of independency babita have to change her mindset regarding "log kya kahenge" or about boy- girl friendship or in other things also & vo mindest change kiya hanuman singh ne as friend or as advisor.i don't think mini fully capable hoti babita ka mindset change karne mein.

now babita understand the things & now she can face society.

& makers ne love track vahan start kiya jahan babita independent hai she have their own business.writers doing their job very efficiently & correctly.

well it just my pov.

& dear you have full right to express your views whether it is negative or positive because afterall this forum is for all!

Now that Ashok is going to marry and have a child, Mini will realize even more what useless father he is.