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Posted: 15 years ago
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Juhi has earned herself a bad name....She is solely responsible for this...Like Someone previously said..she is a good example of saying the right thing the wrong way..She should have expressed concern over all the unfair items, but creating a scene infront of the kids, their parents, the original parents, Sharad was all uncalled for...She may be right in saying that the producers are heartless, but she didn't prove to be any different, when she kept packing when the kids were crying....I noticed that even Sachin was upset with the producers, but he wasn't going crazy like her...He even was apologising to the kids parents...He was so much more easy to manage that Juhi..Even when Sharad asked Juhi the problems, she took the time to complain, but when he tried to make a point..she just ignored it and asked him to make way so she cud get out of the show.....I liked Juhi in kumkum...I even read the appeal to her fans article..Everything is fine...this bevaiuor is not excusible at all....Today, after all this, even if people realise that Juhi-Sachin weren't given a fair treatment, still, people will blame Juhi the most for her behaviour with the kids and others, than anyone else.....She should control her emotions...This my opinion....and I will clear that I am a Juhi fan...atleast WAS!


Another thing is about Elesh..I think Elesh is such a sweetheart..He bonded with Sia so well and even took her to playschool and the minute he realised that things are going wild..he just left..It was such mature and sensible stuff....I am not a Rakhi fan, but I must say that she did a good job picking Elesh..He is sensible and smart and broad minded...Hope she doesn't fight with him, again.....Rakhi will be at fault if she picks another fight with him....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Todays episode was a rli big dissapointment. I didnt expect this from Sachin. He seemed o be an understanding guy, but Juhi just got on my last nerves. She needs to learn how to control her temper in front of little children. Its a bad impretion on them.
Im kind of glad that shes out of the show, i was sick of hearing her yell at Sachin and complaining all the time.
We'll get to see more of the other coupless
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I believe Juhi was justified in her anger
Everything she was saying was true
Sachin was given the task of cooking yesterday and he pulled it off, so they gave him the harder task of cooking chiken today. If you don't know how to cook chiken, it can easily become a disaster
And if Juhi's children are still sleeping, how can she look after 4 other kids? The playschool was supposed to start at 11, and her kids woke up at 11:30. If she is looking after those 4 kids, and her own kids wake up and need to be fed and bathed, what will she do?
And it's not like Sachin is at home to help her (like he's supposed to be), he's out delieving lunches
I think that the task was delieberately impossible, just to get a rise out of Juhi (because it's clear that she's a little hot headed), and it seems to have worked beautifully. Now everyone will be hooked to see what happens next, and will wait for any further tantrums out of her
As for the real parents who were watching the drama unfold, well I wanted to slap every single one of them. They all repeated that their child was there while Juhi was using inappropriate language and their child was getting scared. Well if they were that concerned, why didn't they go in and take their kids out of the situation?
The twins were crying continuously, from the moment all the mothers left their children, why did their mother come and get them after they managed to fight with Sharad and bring their luggage down the stairs? That was a good 15-20 minutes
What were they doing till then? Watching the tamasha on screen?
I totally do not blame Juhi for her outburst. She went about it the wrong way, but she was justified in her anger
Yuks
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I did think they were given hard tasks but they are in a show...she could have been a bit sporting...as one of the parents said "she could have made the experience an enjoyable one" after all she is on the show not her home...
all i know is ...no matter what the situation is u should have a basic respect for other people....in this case juhi showed no respect to kids , parents and even other celebs.. i understand she was mad...but i was shocked how she talked to mouni and debina,as soon as they entered the house....its not their fault ...they should not have to bear with her attitude or anger...
....i used to like her but after watching this show i have realized she is a hard person to live /interac with..she is very dominating in nature and has very strong views,not that having strong views is a bad quality...but she is an overly rigid person ..she has problems with everything...she is in a show ,she can be little nicer...but good for her that sachin loves her the way she is....and avoids having serious arguments...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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am actually thinking whatever way we put it juhi's attitude was inexcusable.....how can u justify how she behaved with those small twins.......and as twins parents said why couldnt juhi get ready beforehand.....task was really hard i completely agree,but way juhi speaks its just too much..yesterday way she almost yelled at twins mom about food was so not expected from her
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yeah, juhi certainly lost respect from all her fans, I agree that what she was trying to say about the contract(parents of twins should stay home for work) is right, but the way she was howling at everything was wrong. In one episode she even mentioned that "aisa hota hai baccha paalna, then I am not gonna think about it for the next 5 or 10 years" "baby romance khatam agar baccha aa gaya to" these sentences prove that she can portray a good mom onscreen only. Baby, in middle class families, there are women who have more than two kids plus elders to take care of, moreover they have to do the household work without any servants or their husbands. She just couldnt handle little pressure. She is not ready to have kids in 10 years, but then she should know that her parents had her and even they had to scarifice a part of their life. In my thinking, a child strengthens the bond between a couple, it brings in responsibilities, love, affection and makes a person more mature. All we can see is that juhi is a celebrity and she has hardly seen any troubles in life. She is very dominating and careless. She mentioned in one interview that she used to do all the chores in the house without sachin's help which was never shown, but today all that work does not matter. We saw how careless she was, she went to pack her bags leaving the kids alone and not bothering about their well being. The language she used was way too bad and that surely must have affected the kids too. Juhi needs to look out of the box to those women who get up at 5 in the morning, prepare breakfast, make lunch, get their kids ready to school, clean their house and then leave to their job, many women travel in second class compartment where there is hardly any place to stand. Those women come home, do their vegetable shopping on the way, and prepare dinner, help kids with homework and then go back to the same roitine. Juhi ji kumkum bannna bahut asaan hai, par kumkum ki laali jo saare ghar ko mehkaaye, woh aaap mein nahi hai. kids are god's gift and it totally changes the life of a person and I hardly know any couple who have repented on having kids early. I love my kid too. juhi should understand that a woman is considered complete once she gives birth to a kid, romance will fade away once old age comes, that time if there are no kids, hubby god mein nahi baithega. By saying " aisa hota hai bacche paalna and I am not ready for it for 10 years" she has shown us how selfish she is. she is totally not ready to be a mom, why did she come on the show. Who knows after 10 years or so, her body might give up to have kids. I dont want to offend any fans, but motherhood is the best experience in whole life. Sachin is a total biwi ka gulaam. I wonder how he fell in love with her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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She should have said I will take care of my children, till the Director and the parent s of the children don't come! Then she should have done the packing! I was really upset how she handled the situation. She is a grown women and needs to act like one. Yes, I agree the task that was given was impossible. But there are homes in Middle Class family, where the husband goes to work and the wife has two or more children and they have to do EVERYTHING, so she needs to stop complaining! ANd do what's done. Put the kids first then speak to the Director!!

I think Elash is a good person and good dad! Sucks that Rakhi doesn't see that or see him in that light! He is so patient with his daughter and does everyhting with her!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I was reading everyone's post and watched the show too.... I am a mother of a 22 month old. I am replying from a mother's point of view... Juhi shouldn't have reacted like this.
as mothers we have to face soo many situations each day. cooking for the entire family, dropping my hubby to the train station, picking him up in the evening. doing every single household chore (we do not have any help in USA), doing all shopping, visiting the doctors, doing all bill payments, car servicing. oon some days if a frind is not well, cook for her, or look after her kids. every day is not just as same as the previous one. so you have to manage, while keeping your cools. you cannot keep shouting at others.
the parents who are putting their kids through all this, just to earrn money, are also to be blamed. how can you do this to your kids!?! aren't us, the parents supposed to provide them with all the securities and comfort and happiness!?! how can they use their children for earning money?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: dimple_usa

Yeah, juhi certainly lost respect from all her fans, I agree that what she was trying to say about the contract(parents of twins should stay home for work) is right, but the way she was howling at everything was wrong. In one episode she even mentioned that "aisa hota hai baccha paalna, then I am not gonna think about it for the next 5 or 10 years" "baby romance khatam agar baccha aa gaya to" these sentences prove that she can portray a good mom onscreen only. Baby, in middle class families, there are women who have more than two kids plus elders to take care of, moreover they have to do the household work without any servants or their husbands. She just couldnt handle little pressure. She is not ready to have kids in 10 years, but then she should know that her parents had her and even they had to scarifice a part of their life. In my thinking, a child strengthens the bond between a couple, it brings in responsibilities, love, affection and makes a person more mature. All we can see is that juhi is a celebrity and she has hardly seen any troubles in life. She is very dominating and careless. She mentioned in one interview that she used to do all the chores in the house without sachin's help which was never shown, but today all that work does not matter. We saw how careless she was, she went to pack her bags leaving the kids alone and not bothering about their well being. The language she used was way too bad and that surely must have affected the kids too. Juhi needs to look out of the box to those women who get up at 5 in the morning, prepare breakfast, make lunch, get their kids ready to school, clean their house and then leave to their job, many women travel in second class compartment where there is hardly any place to stand. Those women come home, do their vegetable shopping on the way, and prepare dinner, help kids with homework and then go back to the same roitine. Juhi ji kumkum bannna bahut asaan hai, par kumkum ki laali jo saare ghar ko mehkaaye, woh aaap mein nahi hai. kids are god's gift and it totally changes the life of a person and I hardly know any couple who have repented on having kids early. I love my kid too. juhi should understand that a woman is considered complete once she gives birth to a kid, romance will fade away once old age comes, that time if there are no kids, hubby god mein nahi baithega. By saying " aisa hota hai bacche paalna and I am not ready for it for 10 years" she has shown us how selfish she is. she is totally not ready to be a mom, why did she come on the show. Who knows after 10 years or so, her body might give up to have kids. I dont want to offend any fans, but motherhood is the best experience in whole life. Sachin is a total biwi ka gulaam. I wonder how he fell in love with her.

my my dear u summed up wat i wanted 2 write n xpress......yes motherhood is the best xperience n being a mother of 2 toddlers i kno how hard it is 2 manage house, work n family...it all depends on understanding, love, affection n most importantly patience vich i feel juhi lacks...how can she be so insensitive 2the kid who was crying downstairs n she was busy growling n howling....tis was also evident wen she used 2 hand over rudransh 2 sachin wen he used 2 come back from work...she never bonded wid the baby then ....always constant complaining n arguments is wat she is good at!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i thought rakhi is a big drama queen ,i hate looking her part in PPOW but i must say she is a big drama queen but far better than juhi when it comes to taking care of children..................rakhi was also complaining that production house delibrately gave her a cranky child but still she bonded with that child but juhi started showing her tantrum n ignored the twins all together..............she just want that whole world should work as per her wishes😡

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