My views on Juhi and Rakhi - Page 4

Originally posted by: Silver_Lining

talking about Rakhi.. She is an uneducated and that shows... otherwise she comes across as very smart as well as sensitive person... her lack of education is not her fault... and anyway there is a vast difference between being literate and being educated... looking at many comments about her on Internet and on this forum too.. proves that education does not help many people anyway.. so she is good the way she is. 😊

Many PERFECT people spare no chance to find faults in her, mocking her, ridiculing her, above all cursing her for no reason.. like her fiancee should dump her or she doesn't deserve Elesh, or how can Elesh wants to be with her.. .. what the heck.. same people defend Juhi endlessly.. that Sachin knows her better and that's why he is in love with her.. that's why he married to her and all that.. same theory applies to Rakhi-Elesh too.

These so called educated and cultured people show their level and upbringing when they use dirty, abusive language for her...

I read somewhere someone said about Juhi that since she is not so good with kids on this show, so she shouldn't get a chance to be a mother in real life as well, or Since Elesh is good person.. girl like Rakhi doesn't deserve him.. I mean wishing something bad for others is plain cruelty.. and I don't understand how some people manage to be so vicious..

I like the way she leads her life on her terms.. without caring about what PERFECT WORLD is talking about her... what these spiteful educated people are writing about her.

I like Elesh, I find him levelheaded, decent and cultured.. If Rakhi and Elesh do get together in future then that will be the best thing happened to Rakhi..Pesonally I feel Elesh is a perfect match for her, but if she thinks otherwise then she should do whatever she feels is right for her.. she shouldn't marry him just for the sake of what media and nameless, faceless people like us are going to say about her. .. When she keeps judging Elesh, based on her previous experiences.. (her previous boyfriend not having financial stability or was totally dependent on her to make his career or the way she had to support her entire family all her life..) and keeps calculating her future with him.. then I can understand where she stands...

Rakhi ke saath abb aisa ho raha hai..

"Dil Bhi Ek Jidd Par Ada Hai Kisi Bachhe Ki Tarah..

Ya Toh Sab Kuch Hi Muze Chahiye Ya Kuch Bhi Nahi."

wonderfully written jo👏👏..i liked wat u have written dear...its true i have been critical of rakhi attimes bt then i have always admired her sensitivity 2wards little jai or be it sia...she bonded well wid jai 4 whom she cried.. attimes skipping sleep, food n even her constant bodypain.... she showed the perfect example a real mother wud be.....tats wat i liked abt her n did appreciate her in numerous posts!her geninuness cud be seen wen she says 2 sia 'smile beta' n the doughnuts n the cake she kept on bringing.....i agree wat u have written ..yes we as humans have tis tendency not 2 see the other side of the coin....probaly or cos v hve nvr been in such a state or a situation as rakhi must/ had been...smewhere in sme post some1 said abt rakhi offering the doughnut 2 sia tat probaly shes reliving her childhood cos she must have been deprived of simple pleasures in her life then ..tat post kinda touched me n im looking n definately will see rakhi in different prospective now..thanx jo!

Originally posted by: Silver_Lining

I never followed any of Juhi's shows till date..so don't have any pro or anti views about her.. since I am watching her for the first time in PPAW. Whether she is dominating or whether Sachin likes to be dominated by her.. is entirely their personal issue.. so won't comment on that.. but I think she should stop blaming channel or editing of the show.. cause whatever is shown to us.. is coming from her mouth.. she is saying all those things which are not given to her as written script.

When there was a tea party at Debina's house.. one incident struck me as a sharp contrast between 2 personalities .... like Rakhi told Debina that she should serve that jalli hui kheer.. "jalli hui hai toh kya hua .. kha lenge.." that was very sweet of her.. on the other hand.. Juhi was telling Debina that "mai sandwiches nahi khaungi.. bahut fike bane hai.." .. now who does that..??? if you are a guest then behave like one.. not finding fault in whatever is served to you by your host comes under a basic etiquettes..

Another incident was there when Debina didn't whine about using their share of oil to cook food for a tea party.. but the way Juhi was creating a scene for using jeera when Sachin was cooking lunch for others.. "bekar mai jeera khatam mat karo.." and then she was talking to channel crew members.. like "hum ko jeera la ke do.." .. that was really very petty.

I am sure whatever Juhi did.. if Rakhi would have done those things... then this forum would have been buzzing with Rakhi bashing posts.. and same people who are criticizing others for judging Juhi and posting anti comments on her behaviour would have been busy mocking Rakhi endlessly..

Actually I was waiting for whether someone comes up with an intelligent poll thread like whether Juhi is a drama queen or not??😕😆

but one thing is common between Juhi and Rakhi... both are politically incorrect most of the time.

😆😆😆 tats the perfect contrast...u see dear i did mention abt the jeera stuff n the gas thng juhi kept on complaining.....tats a task given n juhi shud have done it...even debina was unhappy bt she singlehandedly organized the prty pretty well

Originally posted by: Silver_Lining

I am sure whatever Juhi did.. if Rakhi would have done those things... then this forum would have been buzzing with Rakhi bashing posts.. and same people who are criticizing others for judging Juhi and posting anti comments on her behaviour would have been busy mocking Rakhi endlessly..

Actually I was waiting for whether someone comes up with an intelligent poll thread like whether Juhi is a drama queen or not??😕😆

but one thing is common between Juhi and Rakhi... both are politically incorrect most of the time.

First let me give you an applause fo rputting it so wonderfully 👏....I had the exact same thoughts that if Juhi had taken care of the kid like Rakhi, she wud have been voted as the best mom, inspite of what Rkahi has done for Jai, she is being criticised just because she doesn't know how to talk and that she is a drama queen or an item girl. I feel when appreciation is due it shud be given. I too agree that if Rakhi had done what Juhi madam is doing, then people wud have said that this is the real her....I feel sad when someone wishes that Elesh shud leave her or so...what she deserves and what she doesn't is not our wish but that upto Rakhi to decide. Wishing ill for someone is a low blow. I know Rakhi is a drama queen and does try to get some attention but thats her, she has not got that during her childhood and she is doing that now. Just because she can't speak English doesn't make her a non-human. i applaud her for her fight to make a name and space for herself in this plastic and fake industry who make fun of those who cannot speak English nor behave like a wannabe Brit. Another example is Kangana ranaut, many ppl made fun of her accent and english but see her fight, she struggle and made a place for her.

Originally posted by: mehraan

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Originally posted by: mehraan

wonderfully written jo👏👏..i liked wat u have written dear...its true i have been critical of rakhi attimes bt then i have always admired her sensitivity 2wards little jai or be it sia...she bonded well wid jai 4 whom she cried.. attimes skipping sleep, food n even her constant bodypain.... she showed the perfect example a real mother wud be.....tats wat i liked abt her n did appreciate her in numerous posts!her geninuness cud be seen wen she says 2 sia 'smile beta' n the doughnuts n the cake she kept on bringing.....i agree wat u have written ..yes we as humans have tis tendency not 2 see the other side of the coin....probaly or cos v hve nvr been in such a state or a situation as rakhi must/ had been...smewhere in sme post some1 said abt rakhi offering the doughnut 2 sia tat probaly shes reliving her childhood cos she must have been deprived of simple pleasures in her life then ..tat post kinda touched me n im looking n definately will see rakhi in different prospective now..thanx jo!

Originally posted by: mehraan

😆😆 tats the perfect contrast...u see dear i did mention abt the jeera stuff n the gas thng juhi kept on complaining.....tats a task given n juhi shud have done it...even debina was unhappy bt she singlehandedly organized the prty pretty well

Originally posted by: desicrowd

First let me give you an applause fo rputting it so wonderfully 👏....I had the exact same thoughts that if Juhi had taken care of the kid like Rakhi, she wud have been voted as the best mom, inspite of what Rkahi has done for Jai, she is being criticised just because she doesn't know how to talk and that she is a drama queen or an item girl. I feel when appreciation is due it shud be given. I too agree that if Rakhi had done what Juhi madam is doing, then people wud have said that this is the real her....I feel sad when someone wishes that Elesh shud leave her or so...what she deserves and what she doesn't is not our wish but that upto Rakhi to decide. Wishing ill for someone is a low blow. I know Rakhi is a drama queen and does try to get some attention but thats her, she has not got that during her childhood and she is doing that now. Just because she can't speak English doesn't make her a non-human. i applaud her for her fight to make a name and space for herself in this plastic and fake industry who make fun of those who cannot speak English nor behave like a wannabe Brit. Another example is Kangana ranaut, many ppl made fun of her accent and english but see her fight, she struggle and made a place for her.

Originally posted by: jhustju

Actually I think she was telling Sachin not to eat the sandwich because it was phika. Which I think was worse than just making a comment