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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 15 years ago

#11

I agree with Anj and Natz completely...those babies r just 1-2 yr old... what they understand about reality shows or cameras or whatever..I could see those babies screaming their hearts out not able to sleep at nights because of course they r used to sleep in their mother's presence(Thats what was shown in Gaurav and Mouni's case..correct me if I m wrong)

Then Rakhi's baby was screaming and got almost choked when she was forcibly trying to feed milk with that huge spoon and cup..the mother had to come and intervene..

These were just few clips that they r showing us for half an hour..god knows how much more torture these babies had to go through off the camera...

I seriously don't agree to such shows even though Juhi ,Gurmeet and Apu r my personal favourites...

But at the same time Sharmi has a good point..NGOs should hv come forward earlier when the shoot was actually going on..they should hv put the terms and conditions that time only...now already the torture is over...its all recorded being shown now

but still its difficult to see those babies crying and screaming and then on top of that Rakhi complaining,,.." Yeh bachha sota hee nahin..mein marr gayee" and all such nonsense🤢

I will b happy if such a disgusting show goes off air and at least the junta is sparred of seeing such torture..because we indian audience r such hypocrats that until and unless it does not go off air we will continue to watch such nonsensical shows just because our favourites r there including myself mayb...

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sharmadha

@Sharmii

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Posted: 15 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: jyoti06
I agree with Anj and Natz completely...those babies r just 1-2 yr old... what they understand about reality shows or cameras or whatever..I could see those babies screaming their hearts out not able to sleep at nights because of course they r used to sleep in their mother's presence(Thats what was shown in Gaurav and Mouni's case..correct me if I m wrong)

Then Rakhi's baby was screaming and got almost choked when she was forcibly trying to feed milk with that huge spoon and cup..the mother had to come and intervene..

These were just few clips that they r showing us for half an hour..god knows how much more torture these babies had to go through off the camera...

I seriously don't agree to such shows even though Juhi ,Gurmeet and Apu r my personal favourites...

But at the same time Sharmi has a good point..NGOs should hv come forward earlier when the shoot was actually going on..they should hv put the terms and conditions that time only...now already the torture is over...its all recorded being shown now

but still its difficult to see those babies crying and screaming and then on top of that Rakhi complaining,,.." Yeh bachha sota hee nahin..mein marr gayee" and all such nonsense🤢

I will b happy if such a disgusting show goes off air and at least the junta is sparred of seeing such torture..because we indian audience r such hypocrats that until and unless it does not go off air we will continue to watch such nonsensical shows just because our favourites r there including myself mayb...

Nice to see you jyo!!

I agree about being a hypocrite ....Maybe because Apu is on the show I am cutting them some slack.....

I Think looking back....since they are diff stages....they could have just started with the second stage..kids above the age of 6-7!

The basic debate is we dont know what the kids are saying....I think Mouni's kid was quite happy or atleast didnt percieve any major changes whereas Rakhi's kid was clearly crying for its mother.....

Basically the show was started in foriegn countries to educated people against teen pregnancy........The cause does sound good....But I dont think this show will send out that message to our people as we need desperately need to control our population!

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Dhara Singh

@Dhara_s

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Posted: 15 years ago

#13

I dont understand why people can only see the babies' crying...???? My daughter kept crying for the whole night sooo many times..so is that a torture...???? When the parents need to go out overnight, when they leave their kids with grandparents, some babies cry, is that a torture...????

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Jyoti

@Silver_Lining

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Posted: 15 years ago

#14

hmm .. talking about hypocrisy.. 😕 I think each and every tv show, film should be banned which features babies of age group from new born to minor age group.. across the world... cause of course their parents are not with them when these kids are working in tv, show, films etc.

All the working women or rather both the parents should give up their careers because they leave their new born babies at home for longer period of time... Kids stay either with maids or with family members other than parents.

I really don't understand.. when those parents willingly handled over their toddlers to these celebrities then why other people are making such hue and cry. 😕

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Mallika113

@Mallika113

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Posted: 15 years ago

#15

As a mom to 3 kids, I can speak from experience, when I say that kids cry and throw tantrums even with parents. So babies cry for various reasons, we just have to play detectives and pacify them. They maybe colicky, hungry, hurting somewhere, we just don't know. Given all these reasons, the celebs are doing ok. Parents are there to intervene.

I don't see the big controversy here. It's only 4 days, not a big deal in my opinion. I have left my kids with friends overnight and they have left their children with me too. The kids cry at first, then they adjust fine. So what, if you lose one night of sleep or whatever. no big deal!

Kids are not tortured or whatever. They may miss parents little bit, but as long as they are taken care of they will be fine. Rakhi's baby cried like anything on first day, but today, baby was laughing and clapping.😃

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 15 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Sharmii
Nice to see you jyo!!

I agree about being a hypocrite ....Maybe because Apu is on the show I am cutting them some slack.....

I Think looking back....since they are diff stages....they could have just started with the second stage..kids above the age of 6-7!

The basic debate is we dont know what the kids are saying....I think Mouni's kid was quite happy or atleast didnt percieve any major changes whereas Rakhi's kid was clearly crying for its mother.....

Basically the show was started in foriegn countries to educated people against teen pregnancy........The cause does sound good....But I dont think this show will send out that message to our people as we need desperately need to control our population!

Sharmi nice to see u too🤗...I m roaming in this forum like a bhoot these days😆...I love Apu,Gurmeet but I m not able to support the show because of what is shown

I agree with u...ya kids above 7-8 was fine..at least the kids would hv known what they r doing..in this case those small kids just don't hv any idea where they r taken..who is handling them..they don't even know that they r being filmed.....so thats where I m opposing..

Also Baby Borrowers show was introduced in western countries to teach how to maintain a family...in western countries hardly anyone believes in institution of marriage and then parenthood..so for them it was all a learning experience..

Here already we know everything about marriage and pregnency😆...so putting that fake belly and making a mockery of God-Bharai..was indirectly hurting Indian customs and sentiments I guess..God-Bharai is a very sacred ceremony for a mother..in western countries they don't hv all such sentiments attached with motherhood..In India we hv..so we need to respect it..there was no such need of doing God-Bharai when the mothers r not actually pregnent but sitting there with fake bellies...We saw that in Ekta serials too...right ?/ ..so whats the difference here and there ?/..why we say Ekta shows illogical stuffs when a reality show is doing the same thing..showing fake pregnency...😆😆..again hypocracy shown here...😆

Also those who r debating that if the parents go out then their grandfathers or cousins or some relative takes care of the babies...yes I completely agree to that...but again they r all close relatives of the child and not any strangers..whereas in this show u r putting your 1yr old baby in the hand of two strangers for 3-4 days and that too 24/7...how can a baby stay without the warmth of her mother or without the feed given to her by a mother..think about it...if u r already a mother.. u will understand what I m trying to say here...

In today's show only we saw how Gaurav-Mouni's child was suffering from loose motion..these things r bound to happen..and thats where I say small babies are exploited in the show...

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 15 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Mallika113
As a mom to 3 kids, I can speak from experience, when I say that kids cry and throw tantrums even with parents. So babies cry for various reasons, we just have to play detectives and pacify them. They maybe colicky, hungry, hurting somewhere, we just don't know. Given all these reasons, the celebs are doing ok. Parents are there to intervene.
I don't see the big controversy here. It's only 4 days, not a big deal in my opinion. I have left my kids with friends overnight and they have left their children with me too. The kids cry at first, then they adjust fine. So what, if you lose one night of sleep or whatever. no big deal!

Kids are not tortured or whatever. They may miss parents little bit, but as long as they are taken care of they will be fine. Rakhi's baby cried like anything on first day, but today, baby was laughing and clapping.😃

@Bold:See u gave me the reply in your defence only...yes its no big deal if u loose one night of sleep to take care of the baby..but then why is Rakhi complaining about it..screaming and saying "Yeh rota hua bachha mujhe kyun diya..jo sota hee nahin"...thats where I oppose this show...why u r complaining of something which u yourself decided to do ?? 😕...Rakhi's comments somewhere can hurt any mother's sentiments...😊

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 15 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Dhara_s
I dont understand why people can only see the babies' crying...???? My daughter kept crying for the whole night sooo many times..so is that a torture...???? When the parents need to go out overnight, when they leave their kids with grandparents, some babies cry, is that a torture...????

So are u willing to hand over your 1yr old baby for 4 days to a unmarried celeb-couple if a channel offers you money ??😊

Edited by jyoti06 - 15 years ago