Anyone else feel this time ||DT NOTE P. 14|| - Page 4

Originally posted by: Jazzkapur

that time neeti's mother didn't know about his 1st marriage. It was sanju who PROPOSED neeti for marriage by choice. They were in mandap at that time. According to neeti's mom, sanju was about to marry neeti anyways so she just asked reassurance from him that he will take care of her daughter whom HE proposed. N why does u guys forget that consummation toh sanju ne apni choice se hi ki thi. Uske liye kisine emotional blackmail ni kia tha usse. Lol! Baki i don't know if rajneeti marriage would be considered legal or illegal but if it is illegal, then it's not neeti's fault coz she didn't know that she is 2nd wife. It was rajiv, pari n whole Bajwa family who made her believe that her marriage is legal. Ur so called LEGAL wife herself supported this so called illegal marriage

Exactly!

Ek toh they should watch the episode again. Sanju/Rajeev got too scared by seeing Pari in the mandap when he was about to marry Neeti.

Jo bhi Neeti ke mum ne bola woh toh har koi maa bolti hai apne hone wale damaad ko. "Aap khush toh rakhoge na meri beti ko?" "Aap yeh shadi se khush ho na?" Etc etc isko "force" nahi kehte hai kissi bhi halat main.

Infact Sanju/Rajeev had a monologue ki kissi bhi tarah yeh Pari chali jaye phere se pehle. Nahi main risk nahi le sakta etc etc

Also people keep on forgetting that Sanju/Rajeev pursued Neeti. Formally usko 100 logo ke samne propose kiya tha. Engagement function bhi big scale pe kiya tha. Neeti se Shaadi ke liye utawla tha. Thoda darr gaya tha Pari ko dekh ke but he still went ahead with marriage. Bahot khush tha andar se. Consummate bhi karliya suhag raat ke din.

And still people say that he was "FORCED" such a big delusional joke really.

Also I see these Pari fans have a tendency to insult Neeti with ugly words like mistress, dusri aurat etc. Jisko kuch pata hi nahi tha ki dusri wife hai. All she did was fell in love with a guy who had pursued her himself. She married him and tried to settle a family. Ghar basaya. Do baar pregnant hui waisi ladki ko yeh log badi asaani se dusri aurat, mistress etc na jaane kya kya naam se bulate hai. This is so heartbreaking that inki nafrat has overlooked facts and they are totally unable to understand Neeti's place.

Jis aurat ko pata tha ki woh literally dusri aurat hai Sanju/Rajeev ke life main usne toh jaan bhuj ke aur romance kiya Sanju/Rajeev se. Woh insaan jisne uske bff se jhooth se shadi ki aur ghar basaya.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Rajeev had decided not to marry Neeti. He wrote everything in a letter (coward) and kept it for Neeti. Her mom read it, suffered a heart attack and then emotionally blackmailed Rajeev to marry her daughter. If she hadn't done that, Neeti would have had a much better life now. Marriage is illegal no doubt. Rajeev, Pari and whole Bajwa clan saying otherwise to fool Neeti won't change the truth. If Rajeev truly loved her and respected her, he should have first divorced Pari and made his marriage with Neeti official. But no one bothered to do that. And Neeti didn't know the truth, so simply believed what was told to her. However, now she knows everything. At least now she should open her eyes and see things clearly.

But Pari knew na? Sanju/Rajeev had clearly said to Pari that he Loves Neeti then what was the need to keep staying in that house and roamcing the guy who claimed to love her bff and made her pregnant as well????

Yaha pe kiski galti hai sachi batao.

Originally posted by: Jazzkapur

that time neeti's mother didn't know about his 1st marriage. It was sanju who PROPOSED neeti for marriage by choice. They were in mandap at that time. According to neeti's mom, sanju was about to marry neeti anyways so she just asked reassurance from him that he will take care of her daughter whom HE proposed. N why does u guys forget that consummation toh sanju ne apni choice se hi ki thi. Uske liye kisine emotional blackmail ni kia tha usse. Lol! Baki i don't know if rajneeti marriage would be considered legal or illegal but if it is illegal, then it's not neeti's fault coz she didn't know that she is 2nd wife. It was rajiv, pari n whole Bajwa family who made her believe that her marriage is legal. Ur so called LEGAL wife herself supported this so called illegal marriage

Nope... he had left letter to Niti saying he couldn't marry without telling her why.

Sukhwinder found the letter before Niti, had a panic attack or something and when Niti called him and he came to her house, Sukhwinder begged him to reconsider his decision to back out of the wedding instead of asking him why he was refusing to marry Niti at the last moment.

So, Sukhwinder does have a huge part of responsibility in her own daughter's current misery. Had she shown Niti that letter, maybe Niti would've confronted Sanju and made a wiser choice for herself and not ended up in a bigamy relationship.

Originally posted by: sumz_d

But Pari knew na? Sanju/Rajeev had clearly said to Pari that he Loves Neeti then what was the need to keep staying in that house and roamcing the guy who claimed to love her bff and made her pregnant as well????

Yaha pe kiski galti hai sachi batao.

And I never said Pari is not at fault. She should have asked for a divorce first thing when she got to know the truth and walked out. She did neither and as a result, she's now being treated as the other woman despite being legally married. The whole situation now is the result of many people's actions.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Rajeev had decided not to marry Neeti. He wrote everything in a letter (coward) and kept it for Neeti. Her mom read it, suffered a heart attack and then emotionally blackmailed Rajeev to marry her daughter. If she hadn't done that, Neeti would have had a much better life now. Marriage is illegal no doubt. Rajeev, Pari and whole Bajwa clan saying otherwise to fool Neeti won't change the truth. If Rajeev truly loved her and respected her, he should have first divorced Pari and made his marriage with Neeti official. But no one bothered to do that. And Neeti didn't know the truth, so simply believed what was told to her. However, now she knows everything. At least now she should open her eyes and see things clearly.

Originally posted by: Jazzkapur

yeah but still she didn't know the reason why rajiv doesn't want to marry neeti at that time. she didn't know that neeti's marriage would be illegal. N i never ever said that rajiv loved neeti. He WANTED to marry her. His guilt made him decide to call off the wedding but his guilt couldn't stop him from consummating marriage with neeti N i have said that even if marriage is illegal, its not neeti's fault coz she didn't know about it. Legal wife supported this illegal marriage. Anyways i have said that it's good if the marriage is illegal coz court ke chakkar kaatne se bach jaenge

He definitely consummated the marriage on his own will. And that itself makes him completely despicable. A day ago he didn't want to marry her and at the first chance he jumped into bed with her. Neeti's mother definitely played a role in ruining Neeti's life. No matter what the reason, the guy said he don't want to marry her daughter. She should have informed Neeti and let her decide. Just like Pari lying to Neeti led to this mess, Neeti's mom taking decisions for her created the mess in the first place.

Originally posted by: janecastle

He definitely consummated the marriage on his own will. And that itself makes him completely despicable. A day ago he didn't want to marry her and at the first chance he jumped into bed with her. Neeti's mother definitely played a role in ruining Neeti's life. No matter what the reason, the guy said he don't want to marry her daughter. She should have informed Neeti and let her decide. Just like Pari lying to Neeti led to this mess, Neeti's mom taking decisions for her created the mess in the first place.

Originally posted by: KalmaLove92

Nope... he had left letter to Niti saying he couldn't marry without telling her why.

Sukhwinder found the letter before Niti, had a panic attack or something and when Niti called him and he came to her house, Sukhwinder begged him to reconsider his decision to back out of the wedding instead of asking him why he was refusing to marry Niti at the last moment.

So, Sukhwinder does have a huge part of responsibility in her own daughter's current misery. Had she shown Niti that letter, maybe Niti would've confronted Sanju and made a wiser choice for herself and not ended up in a bigamy relationship.

Originally posted by: sumz_d

Exactly!

Ek toh they should watch the episode again. Sanju/Rajeev got too scared by seeing Pari in the mandap when he was about to marry Neeti.

Jo bhi Neeti ke mum ne bola woh toh har koi maa bolti hai apne hone wale damaad ko. "Aap khush toh rakhoge na meri beti ko?" "Aap yeh shadi se khush ho na?" Etc etc isko "force" nahi kehte hai kissi bhi halat main.

Infact Sanju/Rajeev had a monologue ki kissi bhi tarah yeh Pari chali jaye phere se pehle. Nahi main risk nahi le sakta etc etc

Also people keep on forgetting that Sanju/Rajeev pursued Neeti. Formally usko 100 logo ke samne propose kiya tha. Engagement function bhi big scale pe kiya tha. Neeti se Shaadi ke liye utawla tha. Thoda darr gaya tha Pari ko dekh ke but he still went ahead with marriage. Bahot khush tha andar se. Consummate bhi karliya suhag raat ke din.

And still people say that he was "FORCED" such a big delusional joke really.

Also I see these Pari fans have a tendency to insult Neeti with ugly words like mistress, dusri aurat etc. Jisko kuch pata hi nahi tha ki dusri wife hai. All she did was fell in love with a guy who had pursued her himself. She married him and tried to settle a family. Ghar basaya. Do baar pregnant hui waisi ladki ko yeh log badi asaani se dusri aurat, mistress etc na jaane kya kya naam se bulate hai. This is so heartbreaking that inki nafrat has overlooked facts and they are totally unable to understand Neeti's place.

Jis aurat ko pata tha ki woh literally dusri aurat hai Sanju/Rajeev ke life main usne toh jaan bhuj ke aur romance kiya Sanju/Rajeev se. Woh insaan jisne uske bff se jhooth se shadi ki aur ghar basaya.

Originally posted by: Jazzkapur

this pari literally didn't tell neeti that rajiv made her second wife taki saara zamana neeti ko aise aise words se bulaye uske pith pichhe tabhi toh rajiv ko divorce ni diya taki duniya legal wife sirf pari ko hi samjhe

For all the faults Pari have, I don't think she’s malicious or calculative. She’s just plain stupid. That's why she didn't ask for a divorce. Because in her mind, Rajeev loves Neeti and vice-versa and so everything would be just fine. She didn't think that's not how legal matters work. Or that the world is not black and white.