Why Raghav did not believe.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Why Raghav did not believe...

Some people seem disappointed why Raghav did not believe about surrogacy and the answer lies in what all Raghav said to Niana before Rehaan entered the room.

Is Raghav really at fault ?

Since the day Raghav & Naina parted ways after he came to know that Naina is pregnant, he has been asking Naina about the truth. Naina decided to keep the secret to herself rather than sharing it with Raghav.

Gradually Raghav accepted Naina even when he believed that she is pregnant out of relationship with some other guy. When Naina's life was in danger and there were regular attacks on her , he saved her out of concern for her. Naina blamed Raghav about these life threating attacks on her but even then he brought her to his house to ensure her safety. He did all this selflessly out of his love for her without asking any thing in return except that he wanted to know the name of the father of the child. Naina never shared the truth with him and was firm on hiding the truth. Raghav believed that the person she loved has ditched her but she never felt the need to clarify this to Raghav. Even recently when Naina was trying to find out about Raghav's sister truth, Raghav in return wanted to get answer of this question..who is the father ? Naina told him that its none of his business and asked him to get out of her room. Even then Raghav loved Naina & Chotu dearly and risked his life to save them.

Raghav who confessed his love for Naina even after believing that she is pregnant with some one's else baby, speaks it all about the depth of his love for Naina. In this condition when he has accepted & loved Naina and chotu to the core of his heart, what problem he can have when he comes to know about surrogacy. He should not have any problem rather he should be happy and relieved. But he did not believe about surrogacy. Why..the answer is timing of revelation of truth. Naina revealed the truth about father of baby in yesterday's episode when she has no other option as chotu's life was in danger. Raghav, though hurt, did not ask any question and begged Rehan to save the baby.Today when the truth was revealed by Naina , Raghav is not believing it and is feeling cheated by Naina & Rehan.

Does he really at fault. When we hide a truth for so long, don't reveal it and don't make any effort to clarify things, it is quite possible that when we say the truth in a desperate situation, the other person may not give it a damn and consider it an excuse rather than a truth because the trust is broken.
Raghav is not believing it because he is extremely hurt and is not seeing things in right prospecting. He is doubting when he should believe. Even today Raghav said that he loves Naina and always wants to see her happy. So when he will accept the truth, he will realize what sacrifice Naina has done for him.

In love speak your heart out..have trust on the person you love..sacrifice but don't destroy your life. No amount of money can buy true love.. do you want to see you loved one smiling in your loving company or you want to see your loved one rich but deprived of your loving company. Choice is yours...but don't expect life to dance on your tunes...once you have taken a decision you will have to face the consequences...good or bad...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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problem is that they never talked openly about their feelings ..
when naina took that decision she thought raghav loves sanjana and he didn't try or get time to clarify it ...
and another trust ...there is no trust between them ...
once naina didn't trust him now he doesn't ...
when trust is missing what anyone can do...
both needs to learn about each other a lot ...
but at the end both are wrong and not mahan type and that's why they are different
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Posted: 8 years ago
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don't know about others but as a raina fan( not blind ) i can't accept that raghav didn't trust her just like i couldnt accept naina hiding it . ..
she was wrong
now he is wrong...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Preeti Di... Love u and ur post as well 🤗

Raghav's reaction was completely justified... It's Rehaan who told the truth that too in such a critical condition when they can't hide the identity of baby's father anymore, any normal person will think they just made up a story...

Raghav said it right, If u had done such a noble deed (becoming a surrogate for Ahana's baby) then why did u hide it? I would've supported ur decision... But no, she chose to hide it, infact she lied to him that she loves baby's father (she herself claimed it infront of Raghav)

I watched the episode after reading the comments and u know I liked the episode or rather I should say I loved the reasoning done by Raghav... Like he asked her why she refrained from telling the truth after Ahana's death?

Naina hide the truth for so long and top of that she kept lying that she loves baby's father and now when truth came out from Rehaan's mouth everyone wants Raghav to believe Rehaan's words blindly like a dumb person without any reasoning? Like seriously?

In love speak your heart out..have trust on the person you love..sacrifice but don't destroy your life. No amount of money can buy true love.. do you want to see you loved one smiling in your loving company or you want to see your loved one rich but deprived of your loving company. Choice is yours...but don't accept life to dance on your tunes...once you have taken a decision you will have to face the consequences...good or bad...

Words Preeti Di... if only some people have different priorities! *Sigh*
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Posted: 8 years ago
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👏👏👏 Excellent post!!!! You couldnt have said it better. I agree with you 100%. I also agree with Keepdreaming when she said they are both at fault because they never communicated openly. They never told each other about their feelings, they always went with their ego.
Naina was at fault 100% when she hid the truth from him for so long. I understand she hid it in the beginning, but as Raghav mentioned, after Ahana died... why she still hid it??? She should have come clean with Raghav at that moment and tell him what Ahana said to her about the inlaws or her husband not wanting the baby. If she would have told him the truth then... all this mess wouldnt happen. So now, when Raghav finds the truth out under this circumstance, and even that from Rehaan instead of Naina... ofcourse he'll feel even more betrayed. And he cant think straight... he cant think logic... at this moment all he can think about is how he was kept in dark, how he was betrayed over and over by his wife... and even his friend. When he calms down, when someone can talk to him about this topic more calmly ( most likely dadi ) he will understand the situation better. Then he will realize what Naina did for him. But at this moment, given the situation, its not Raghav's fault that he's not believing them. But with logic, you cant have a hindi serial and stories like this if everything was done correctly and everyone communicated with each other correctly. So misunderstanding and miscommunication to banta hai yaar. 😆😆
Edited by brishtii78 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Keepdreaming

problem is that they never talked openly about their feelings ..
when naina took that decision she thought raghav loves sanjana and he didn't try or get time to clarify it ...
and another trust ...there is no trust between them ...
once naina didn't trust him now he doesn't ...
when trust is missing what anyone can do...
both needs to learn about each other a lot ...
but at the end both are wrong and not mahan type and that's why they are different



Problem is that they both love each other immensely but their MU is not allowing their love to flourish 😛
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: LuvArTi4ever

Preeti Di... Love u and ur post as well🤗

Raghav's reaction was completely justified... It's Rehaan who told the truth that too in such a critical condition when they can't hide the identity of baby's father anymore, any normal person will think they just made up a story...

Raghav said it right, If u had done such a noble deed (becoming a surrogate for Ahana's baby) then why did u hide it? I would've supported ur decision... But no, she chose to hide it, infact she lied to him that she loves baby's father (she herself claimed it infront of Raghav)

<font color="#333333" face="Roboto, sans-serif">I watched the episode after reading the comments and u know I liked the episode or rather I should say I loved the reasoning done by Raghav... Like he asked her why she refrained from telling the truth after Ahana's death?</font>
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<font color="#333333" face="Roboto, sans-serif">Naina hide the truth for so long and top of that she kept lying that she loves baby's father and now when truth came out from Rehaan's mouth everyone wants Raghav to believe Rehaan's words blindly like a dumb person without any reasoning? Like seriously?</font>
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In love speak your heart out..have trust on the person you love..sacrifice but don't destroy your life. No amount of money can buy true love.. do you want to see you loved one smiling in your loving company or you want to see your loved one rich but deprived of your loving company. Choice is yours...but don't accept life to dance on your tunes...once you have taken a decision you will have to face the consequences...good or bad...

<font color="#333333" face="Roboto, sans-serif">Words Preeti Di... if only some people have different priorities! *Sigh*</font>



Raghav reaction is very normal and natural. He will take time to accept the truth. Itna wait kiya to know the truth to thoda time to lagayega to accept the truth 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No, he isn't at fault .He feels she betrayed him and the person whom he considered to be his friend also betrayed him.. But, having said that, he should have atleast given a chance to explain .He refused to even listen to what she had to say. You don't want to believe, it's ok your choice .But, atleast try to listen to what the other person has to say..
When both are saying the samething atleast try to hear their side before coming to conclusions..

I don't know why they are doing this again and again. Once naina accused him and now he is doing the same..It is as if there is no trust factor in their relationship and that makes it miserable to watch the show.. I just wish this whole drama ends soon and we get to see a fresh romantic track atleast a good lead-centric track if they are really planning to end this show
Edited by MissAngryBird - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: MissAngryBird

No, he isn't at fault .He feels she betrayed him and the person whom he considered to be his friend also betrayed him.. But, having said that, he should have atleast given a chance to explain .He refused to even listen to what she had to say. You don't want to believe, it's ok your choice .But, atleast try to listen to what the other person has to say..

When both are saying the samething atleast try to hear their side before coming to conclusions..

I don't know why they are doing this again and again. Once naina accused him and now he is doing the same..It is as if there is no trust factor in their relationship and that makes it miserable to watch the show.. I just wish this whole drama ends soon and we get to see a fresh romantic track atleast a good lead-centric track if they are really planning to end this show



He will accept the truth..he is feeling betrayed at the moment. He is angry, he is hurt , he is frustrated.

Romantic track...uske liye to hum fans ko koyi ghor tap karana padega tab kaheen jake humein vardaan milega
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: well-wisher



He will accept the truth..he is feeling betrayed at the moment. He is angry, he is hurt , he is frustrated.

Romantic track...uske liye to hum fans ko koyi ghor tap karana padega tab kaheen jake humein vardaan milega


Agar tap karne se milta to humlog wo bhi karlete🤣.But kya bharosa is time ke tarah hi ek lollipop dekhe next moment dhamaka kardale inka koi bharosa nahi

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