Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #244 - Page 91

Originally posted by: spdp

All the nautanki of parvarish & guilt trapping dhara bhabhi tried with devars was mainly to stop them so her promise to her prized possession chikoo gets fulfilled.

Otherwise she doesn’t care much about all three.

if she did, she would have told kids family stories, how Shiva took care of Store when young , how shiva fought to get money for chutki,

How Raavi never let them lift a finger when her & Rishita were pregnant.

But all bhaji does is manipulate, gaslight, add fears, anxiety in young kids. Do weird promises for no reason & go all out committing crimes for that.
lies lies and control.

They honestly think they are making bhabhi Suman look bechara others bad- but as a mother- wife- daughter-daughter in law: I feel only for Raavi & rishita prerna are right in wanting to step out.

No one can live under such suffocating clutches.

Guilt tripping your sons, and playing baghban music doesn’t work with narratives they have set.

whatever they are showing is plain filthy. Again.

I am with you as well. I am a mother, daughter, DiL , Bhabi, Devrani, Jethani all in one, I felt for Raavi, Rishita and Prerna. All 3 have been vilified just to whitewash Suman and Bhabima and absolve them from all their crimes.

I have grown up in a joint family until I was married to my husband and pushed into a nuclear family. I could clearly see the difference between the 2 and my mother lost out on many things in her life post marriage which I gained after my marriage with a nuclear family setting.

I am still close with all my cousins (ofcourse my own sisters too) we still reminisce about our growing up phase together yet we are all happy in our own lives, none of us are missing the joint family system as we have seen the effects if it. Still our family was not as pathetic as Kandyas. My mom being the badi bahu was nothing liike Bhabima because my grandmother who was a widow too, had an iron fist. She was the matriarch and a tyrant too, yet she was manageable but Suman and Bhabima are incorrigible, no redemption or recourse for both of them.

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Maybe gaumbi will chop himself up into pieces or better yet jump into the well. I fear he and bhabhiji are the kind of people if the get desperate they might commit murder suicide and kill everyone so they don't leave such pathetic people they are.

Neither Raavi nor Rishita asked for batwara. All they wanted was financial security for their kids. Which was easily possible by drawing up a will for all the kids. Every family does this so that there's no problem in future for kids. Doesn't mean they all go separate ways. All of them could have still lived happily under the same roof. But mahaan bhabhi started her rona dhona trying to twist Raavi and Rishita's demand and Prerna brought in batwara topic. So why is Raavi getting blamed for all this when she was the only one who spoke sensibly and tried to sort out the mess amicably. No matter how much aaaa bgm or ddp they give mahaan bhabhi and ghatiya Suman, no one will sympathise with them. Everyone who has watched the episode can clearly see who did what and where all this started. So this trying to blame the 3 bahus and projecting ghatiya saas and maha saas as poor souls will not work out.. not now, not post leap.

Dhara is EVIL for letting the get kids get involved and twisting everything in their minds. They don’t understand financial security, and calling it batwara, manipulating the whole situation in the minds of young kids, trapping them is cupboards is so messed up.

Dhara and suman will never réalisé what it’s like to lose anything… Raavi lost her husband, she suffered, putting food on the table, post partym, talking care of her husband. Rishita lost her daughter for 7 years. Prerna lost Krish and got molested by Shivank. Dhara has no forking clue what it’s like to loose things in life. Suman, can STFU. She was perfectly fine with gaumbi being a mute when Natasha was kidnapped, the store went to swetha… the list goes on.

Dhara and suman are lucky the other three never retaliated and gave them a laundry list of things Dhara has cost them.

the makers are trying to say, only Dhara has gone thru shit, only Dhara pain is valid, only she is right. Lol, that woman is a freak.

From Akshays story they are still shooting the same day scene lol I see shivi mithu, shesh chiku, bhabhiji gaumbi piddhi Dev is taking the pic lol also Akshay didn't tag Ankita who is clearly in the pic but bhabhiji isn't even visible lol also Simran is there today coz she posted a story in the morning lol

Originally posted by: mpks1

Episode starts with

Raavi says, “ ho sakta hsi ye kaand aap hi ne kiya ho, kyunki aap toh chavhthi nahi ki batwara ho, mujhe talashi leni hai aapko kamre ki”

Dhoom Tana BGM plays

Bhabima says, “ teek hai Raavi, meine aise kuch kiya toh nahi hai par tujhe mann ki shanti ke liye talashi leni hai toh le sakti ho” ( JHOOT)

(How is this woman able to lie through her teeth, still accuse others of wrong doing. Writers have indeed stooped so low in depicting Bhabima’s character😡)

Rishita says, “ mukhe bhi doubt ho raha hai abb, Chal Raavi”

Both go to Bhabima’s room to search. Bhabima rums after them.

Raavi and Rishita start looking for the kids.

Bjabima is taunting tjem, “ Dekh lo, dekh lo acche se dekh lo har waqt mein hi buri lagti hoon tum logon ko”

Raavi looks at the cupboard and its slightly open. Bhabima starts to panic,

In the aangan

Suman asks Gautsm, “ ye Dhara ne kuch kita?”

Gautam says, “ pata nahi hai Maa”

Suman says, “ Uske hi dimaag mei aisi sab idea aate rehate hain”

Dev says, “ Gombi, bacvhon ko dekhne bahar jaate hain”

Gautam says, “arrey pehle yahsn ke raota sametne de, pata chale hum bahar gaue yahsn rk aur kaand na hojaaye”

Shiva says, “ sahi bol raha hai Gombi”

Back in Bhabima’s room

Raavi goes to the cupboard to check for the kids. Rishita stops her.

Rishita says, “ kya time pass kar rahi hai Raavi. Dhara Bhabi beharam todi naa ki hamare bacchon ko cupboard mei lock kardi hogi, sans kaise lenge, chal kahi aur jaake dekte hain”😔

Bhabima heaves a sigh of relief.
Raavi and Rishita leave the room. Bjabima again follows both of them.

(Rishita and Raavi trust Bhabima that she would not have locked them in the cupboard, look what Bhabima did, broke their trust, instead goes batshit crazy on Raavi, Rishita. She doesn’t regret that she has locked them in tje cupboard. The woman has NO SHAME!🙄)

How can they show these sort of crimes on children in such a light manner..its mind numbing to imagine these writers have such a low level of conscience when it comes to bhabhi..they make this character do such wicked stuffs..horrible team..

Raavi rishita n all have always given dhara their share of money/property....as and when she has ever wanted (buying chiku etc etc.)

She ,Gautam or Suman have never acknowledged or thanked them for this...but always blame raavi rishita and starts manipulating their husbands.

Gadha can never do this for their brothers or their families.

This is clear injustice which audience notices...

Dhara, Gautam or gadha for that matter can never be mahaan.

For all of us, we are the people who have closely watched this program and that too from the beginning.

Remember the day in Haveli when Bhabhimaa herself did the bantwara.

Here neither Rishita nor Raavi asked for the bantwara, they just asked the fair right for their kids which is way too realistic and practical. They are being projected as family breakers whereas none of them said that they want to break the family.

Writers lost the plot of asking for "Financial Stability" and made it into a bantwara just because they want to show Raavi and Rishita as home breakers and Bhabhima as parivaarwaadi.

Bhabhima is making a huge deal of this hissa business

Remember the day when Bhabhimaa wanted to celebrate her actual favourite Dev and Rishita's wedding anniversary?

She was ready to give Dev his "hissa" way back then to save the family from breaking apart. Where is that soch now?

Writers should answer, their always righteous Dhara 🤢 was wrong then or is wrong now?

Originally posted by: deeps07

How can they show these sort of crimes on children in such a light manner..its mind numbing to imagine these writers have such a low level of conscience when it comes to bhabhi..they make this character do such wicked stuffs..horrible team..

For writers of this show, crimes against children are not a big deal. They show it as a matter of fact and involved adults pay no price for their crimes. According to them what Bhabima is going through is more important, her dukh, dard, peeda are more important.

In Western World, if parents or relatives did this for fun and law enforcement authorities come to know of it, they will take the children away and file a felony charges against the parents or the relatives.

What if one of them died? Will Bhabima’s DDP take precedence?

Don’t these writers, creatives, director and crew members have children of their own. Even if its a fiction who writes such things and justifies it. They are glorifying criminals. Who will tell Bhabima that what she dud was wrong?
This team gets away with lot of crap they write on the show because of the disclaimer and India does not have strict rules and regulations on what can be show on National TV.
In the US, there us an agency called FCC- Federal Communications commission which has several branches regulating TV, OTT, Cable news, Radio content. The television branch controls what is shown and how appropriate it us for the targeted audience and the shows come with a disclaimer and a rating too. That doesn’t mean there is any censorship. US is the only country which gives importance to Freedom of Press, Media content. They even take the sitting President to task, still won’t be banned as long as the content is appropriate and factual.

BUT ITV shows are full of inappropriate things especially Star Plus which thrives on such negativity and crimes amongst children.

I have been saying it fir a long time, this show needs to be shut down, doesn’t deserve an extension at all, This set of writers are plain horrible,

So when Bhabima was convincing Shiva, rather emotionally manipulating him to stay back, she literally started talking about her Dard, Dukh, Peeda never thiught about what Raavi and Mitthu lost for 7 years. Heck this man was going to marry another woman, leaving his wife and child, still Bhabima worried about what she, Maa and Chiku will go through🙄

If she had stopped Shiva from going to boxing match and not injured, would have redeemed herself. She needed quick money for Chutki’s treatment to save her ass because she caused it, so didn’t stop him. Later when Raavi begged him for additional money for further treatment both Suman and Bhabima kept stalling it because getting the store was more important than treating Shiva. After all this this woman still keeps the criminal Shweta at home because Chiku said so.

Not once She thought about Raavi but continues to blame her for everything. When Raavi asked to search for Bhabima’s room, how confidently she said she won’t find anything when all along kids were hidden by her and later no sorry, no remorse, no regret about what she did. In the 9 years of her marriage, Shiva is supporting Raavi for the first time and going against Bhabima which she is not able to accept, digest and fathom;

For the first time, Shiva us standing by Raavi and Mitthu, both Maa and Bjabima cannot stand it. Their feeling, how dare he puck Raavi and Mitthu over them. If that’s the feeling then why get them married in the first place atleast Shiva could have stayed as their slaves of the rest of his life.

Bhabima’s sole notion is continue to control the devars and bahus lives and handover the baton to Chiku to control the next generation so the CULT continues.

Chiku is being groomed to be a combination of both Bhabima and Shweta and I already feel he is going to completely control and manipulate the lives of Natasha, Shesh and Mitthu.