Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #244 - Page 90

Originally posted by: nami2811

Ugh watched again (bad habits die hard) 🤔

Dhara cannot be so bereham to hide the kids in the cupboard.. Wake up Rishita 😵

Am I seeing this for real? Shiva supporting Raavi 😲 for a 2 min scene hi sahi it felt good 🤔

The kids are attached to each other and don't want to be separated. Understandable. Dhara is caching on it which is not relatable.

Why are they making it look so bad that husband's support wives? The way Suman said as long as husbands don't support the wives the house stays intact? What kind of irrational thinking is this? So she means in joint families husbands never support their wives?? I stay in a joint family and I get all the support from my husband. This dialogue just blew my mind 🤢

Financial security to batwara was a big leap and throwing the entire blame on the DILs was so convenient. So whatever Dhara and Suman have done is washed away with washing powder Nirma and the bahus are tainted with Ujala blue 🤪

Exactly. And that’s why Suman’s baghbaan cries look manipulative and fake. Annoying.

Both her and Dhara don’t want family, they want voiceless, mindless followers of their cult. Who keep slogging, keep taking their orders.

These are the kind of mother s & bhabhi’s who break tgeir children’s marraiges.

Not to forget, Suman never stayed with her sasural. She has separate life and build store with darshan Pandya as it was mentioned earler.

They really have miscalculated on financial security part. It is way too common and terming this as batwara, dhara using kids for this- makes their devi Dhara look worse.

wonder why they want to start leap on characters that look bully, toxic. Dhara Suman chikoo.
chutki is being added to counter balance.

Mitthoo shesh are already shown as servants of mahaan parvarish groomer leader chikoo.

Post brothers walk out: don’t even want to bother knowing who- what next. Done. the end for Pandyastore.

Rishita comes back to the aangan. Bhabima follows her

( Raavi was there and not there in the scene, some of shots were without Alice)

Rishita says in front of everyone, “ toh teek hai ho jaane do batwara”

From here on Bhabima’s manipulation starts

Bhabima tells her, “Rishita kisi bhi ghar ke liye uss mei rehane waalon se hoti hai, agar batwara hua toh ye ghar nahi bachegaa, saare bacche saat rehana chahte hain, kisike liye na sahi bacchon ke liye socho” 😡😡😡

Prerna says, “ Dhara di bacchon ke baare mei soch sochke aap ye sab mat karo, agar batwara ki baat nikli hai toh ho jaane do naa”

Krish says, “ Prerna”

Gautam shouts now🙄, “ ek minute, ek minute mujhe samaj mei nahi aa raha hai ki tum logon ko ho kya gaya, ye batware ki baat aayi kahan se? Abhi tak hum log reh rehate hai naa hasi kushi iss ghar mei, tum log na meri baat kaan kholkar sunlo hamare liye ekta mein hi shakti hai”

( This us the same Gautam who told Raavi that he can’t help her during Shiva- Arushi shaadi track when he went to finalize the rishta with Suman, Dev and Shiva🙄🙄 Now he is talking about Ekta, My foot!)

Suman says, “ nahi Gombi”

Upstairs in the cupboard kids are listening to the tamasha
Mitthu says, “ ye log phir se ladne lage hain”

Natasha says, “ isska matlab hum log alag alag rahenge?”

Chiku says, “ nahi Natasha Maa ne promise kiya woh batwara nahi hone dhegi”

Shesh says, “ isska matlab hum saath hi rahenge naa?”

Back in the aangan

Suman says, “Rishite hai na Prem ki rasdi ki tarah hote hai, ek baar toot haate hai na phir judte nahi, aur jude toh kaanch ka ehsaas hamesha rehata hai, aur tu iss kaanch ko padne se nahi rok sakte hai”

Gautam says, “ Maa ye hamara parivar hai mein kabhi bhi kaanch nahi padne doonga”

Bhabima says, “ iss parivar rug rug mei aapke sanskar base hue hain, ye parivar nahintootegaa aap nischinth raho”

Suman says, “ nahi, jab ghar ki mahilayen ladti hai aur pati unke samartan nahi karte toh parivar waisa ka waisa rehata hai par jab unke pati chup chaap unke perche jaake kade ho jaate hai naa toh phir uss parivar ko tootne se koi nahi rok sakta”

Camera pans on the 3 couples faces. Bhabima and Suman look at them accusingly🙄 Gautam lowered his head.

Suman continues, “ abb ye mera parivar nahi raha, alag alag parivar hogaye hain, Shiva- Raavi ka parivar, Dev- Rishita ka parivar, Krissu aur Prerna ka parivar, aur Gombi- aur tera parivar”

Bjabima says, “ par meta parivar toh aap sabse banta hai”

Suman says, “ banta thaa, banta thaa, aye Shesh, Mitthu, idhar sab bacchon Chiku, Natasha dande padenge, idhar aao”

Kids come down and go to their respective parents. Suman extends her hands but disappointed to see the kids joined their parents.

Chiku is in the middle of everyone, neither close to Shweta not Bhabima who is standing next to Suman.

Bhabima Gaslightung, “ Maa, aap himmat mat haaro, ek aur koshish karne dho naa”

Suman says, “ bahut hogayi koshish, Batwara chahiye naa alag alag rehana hai inhe toh rehane dho alag alag, wause bhi alag alag rahenge toh pyar tih banaye rahegaa warna kutte billi ki tarah ladd jhagd rahe hain ek dhin maar- kaat daalenge ek doosre ko, ye Mitti ke ghar ko koi keemat nahi hai, keemat toh hai uske andhar rehanewaale logon ki rishton ki”

Chiku starts his drama, “ agar wapas sab chale jaayenge toh uss baar mein bhi chala jaaoonga” he runs to Shweta, “Shweta Maa mujhe bhi yahan nahibrehana please chalo yahan se”

Bhabima goes towards him but he hugs Shweta.

Bhabima called hiding the kids from their parents to stop batwara, as koshish🙄 In which dictionary it is koshish? Which law says its koshish?🙄

Originally posted by: spdp

@ bold

Exactly. And that’s why Suman’s baghbaan cries look manipulative and fake. Annoying.

Both her and Dhara don’t want family, they want voiceless, mindless followers of their cult. Who keep slogging, keep taking their orders.

These are the kind of mother s & bhabhi’s who break tgeir children’s marraiges.

Not to forget, Suman never stayed with her sasural. She has separate life and build store with darshan Pandya as it was mentioned earler.

They really have miscalculated on financial security part. It is way too common and terming this as batwara, dhara using kids for this- makes their devi Dhara look worse.

wonder why they want to start leap on characters that look bully, toxic. Dhara Suman chikoo.
chutki is being added to counter balance.

Mitthoo shesh are already shown as servants of mahaan parvarish groomer leader chikoo.

Post brothers walk out: don’t even want to bother knowing who- what next. Done. the end for Pandyastore.

@bold.. This is so true. She never had issues with her mil or fil or jethanis or devranis so she'll never be able to understand what it is like to be a Rishita or a Raavi.

I feel bad for mithu and Shesh who act like followers. Shesh atleast was shown naughty but mithu is so gullible and these vampires will drink every last drop of blood from him.

But Suman's dialogue still leaves me bewildered. Mindless, voiceless followers keep the family intact??!!! What in the world?!!

I still cannot fathom what Suman said that as long as husbands don’t support their wives everything will be fine.

WTF was that? 😳😳😳😳

What would have she done if Darshan Pandya didn’t support her, didn’t set up his own house or business. Would she have kept quiet and continued to live wothiut any basic expectations?

Why is Suman talking as if she is a saint. We saw her maayka why haven’t we seen anyine from her Sasural, no relatives, no Jeth or Devar Devrani ir Nanad visiting her? Why?

They went to take care of the haveli which belonged some Jeth living in the US who also gave them the land but we never saw him in the show. Writers kept Suman’s maayka for sometime but completely eliminated others maayka for the past 1 year except Bhabima who is special because her Bhagodi Mom and Psycho sister came to wreak havoc in Kandyas lives🙄

Shweta entered last July, this July she is shutting the current generation. She was brought for Bhabima to fight, both drowned the show along with other useless characters like Shivank, Bhagodi mom, psycho sister🙄

Originally posted by: mpks1

I still cannot fathom what Suman said that as long as husbands don’t support their wives everything will be fine.

WTF was that? 😳😳😳😳

What would have she done if Darshan Pandya didn’t support her, didn’t set up his own house or business. Would she have kept quiet and continued to live wothiut any basic expectations?

Why is Suman talking as if she is a saint. We saw her maayka why haven’t we seen anyine from her Sasural, no relatives, no Jeth or Devar Devrani ir Nanad visiting her? Why?

They went to take care of the haveli which belonged some Jeth living in the US who also gave them the land but we never saw him in the show. Writers kept Suman’s maayka for sometime but completely eliminated others maayka for the past 1 year except Bhabima who is special because her Bhagodi Mom and Psycho sister came to wreak havoc in Kandyas lives🙄

Shweta entered last July, this July she is shutting the current generation. She was brought for Bhabima to fight, both drowned the show along with other useless characters like Shivank, Bhagodi mom, psycho sister🙄

@bold.. same 😳 I still can't get over it that people can think like that!! What if it's your daughter and she is treated like this in her sasural?? What if her damaad never supported her to keep the family together? Suman would be the first one to recommend a batwara. I'm sure she'd fill her daughter's ears to break out of the house ASAP!

Wish Suman had a daughter so she would at least understand a little bit of her DILs sufferings.

Mitthu says, “ hum sabko saat mei rehana hai,

Shesh says, “please hum sabko alag mat karo”

Natasha says, “ humko alag alag nahi rehana hai”

Bhabima starts her nautanki and crying, folds her hands, “please mat karo aisa”

Bhabima first goes to Dev, “ Dev haath jodti hoon tere aage, tu toh sunn lo, mat Jaa beta, please mat jaa”

Dev holds Bhabima’s hands, “ Bhabi, please haath mat jodo, mujhe inn bacchon ke liye karna hoga, Maa sahi keh rahi hai, har dhin tih ladte hai iss ghar mei ek dhin toh nafrat bhi karne lagenge, ye parvarish fe ge hamare bacchon ko? Mujhe bacchon ke liye ye karna hoga, I am sorry”

Bhabima next goes to Shiva, starts her emotional manipulation, “ tu toh apne Bhabi ka laadla hai naa, tu meri har baat maanta hai naa, mat jaa, ruk jaa,” folds her hands in front of him and continues to cry

Shiva holds her hands and says, “ Bhabi”

Bhabima continues her manipulation, “ Tu bhi mujhe chodkar chala jaayegaa, tujhe meri takleef nahi dhik rahi hai, Mat jaa warna mera Chiku akela reh jaayegaa”

Shiva is quiet

Bhabima’s manipulation continues, “ nahi jaayegaa naa, ruk jaayegaa naa?”

Shiva says, “7 saal Bhabi, 7 saal meta ye Mitthu aur Raavi ek ek niwale ko tarse hain, Bhabi sangarsh kiya hai inn logon ne mein wapas woh dhin nahi de sakte hai inko, abb hab sab sahi hogaya hai toh rehana padegaa inn logon ke liye mein akele nahi chod sakta inko kabhi, issliye Maa jo bol rahi hai woh sahi bol rahi hai”

AAAAA AAA BGM plays

Bhabima says, “ Ek ek taane ke liye tarse ho, mein tarsaoongi, Sunaa aapne issne kya kaha ( to Suman) Maa jo keh rahi hai bilkul sahi keh rahi, bachpan se aaj tak jin bacchon ko ghar jodna sikha hai jinhe ek saat rehana sikhaya woh alag hona chahte hain, aaj ghar todna chate hain, Maa ye parvarish nahi dhi thi meine inhe, aaj mere itne saalon ke pyaar le sawaal utta rahe ho tum.

(Par kaan toh bahut saare ki hai aur sabki zindagi barbaad kar diya😡)

Bhabima turns her focus on Krisuu, “ tu kya mundi neeche karke kada hai, tu bhi bata de kyun chahtha hai batwara”

Krisuu says, “ mere bacche ke liye acchi life yahan se bahar rahegi, Prerna pregnant hai aur uska poora haq hai bacche ki up ringing kahan karni hai, aur baache ki upbringing Canafe mei karna chathi hai”

Bhabima saya, “ C-A-N-A-D-A”

One last emotional manipulation plea woth hanfs folded, “ Mat jaao”

Baghban title song plays. FBs of various scenes from the first pre-leap episodes when Dev, Shiva, Krish were kids, Rishita’s pregnancy confirmation, Shweta kidnapping Chutki, Rishita, Raavi, Krush leaving the house post Shweta kaand, scenes from recent post leap episodes when they all return after hearing about Suman’s heart attack and few other scenes.

FB’s over.

Bhabima is still folding her hands, asking them not to go.-

Shiva- Raavi leave for their room with Mitthu, followed by Krush- Prerna, then Dev- Rishita go back to their room with the kids.

Baghban song ends

Chiku is still crying stands beside Shweta,

Bhabima says, “ Sorry Chiku, mein apne kiya hua vaada poora nahi kar paayi, sorry”

Suman, Gautam, Bhabima purest souls crying uncontrollably 😭

Originally posted by: nami2811

@bold.. same 😳 I still can't get over it that people can think like that!! What if it's your daughter and she is treated like this in her sasural?? What if her damaad never supported her to keep the family together? Suman would be the first one to recommend a batwara. I'm sure she'd fill her daughter's ears to break out of the house ASAP!

Wish Suman had a daughter so she would at least understand a little bit of her DILs sufferings.

My MIL has no daughters, my husband’s family has 3 boys and my husband being the middle one. Not once my MIL felt we were her DILs, always treated us as her daughters and none of us even live with her. We all live in a nuclear family. But my husband and his brothers make it a point to meet every year, spend time with in-laws, don’t take work back home when they visit. Even when my FIL was sick on death bed, all 3 of them took turns to go be with him for months to take care of him.
Not once my in-laws have complained that sons are not doing enough, DILs are not doing enough. They wanted their children to go wherever there were better prospects for them to succeed in life. I am thankful to God for giving me such wonderful in-laws and a very supportive husband. Such are people I am surrounded or connected to.
Suman’s dialogue today was indeed a revelation for me. What kind of thinking that husbands are fine, family is perfect as long as they don’t support their wives. Then why the heck Gautam is supporting Bhabima’s each and every kaand which is causing havoc in other lives in Kandya Niwas🙄

All the nautanki of parvarish & guilt trapping dhara bhabhi tried with devars was mainly to stop them so her promise to her prized possession chikoo gets fulfilled.

Otherwise she doesn’t care much about all three.

if she did, she would have told kids family stories, how Shiva took care of Store when young , how shiva fought to get money for chutki,

How Raavi never let them lift a finger when her & Rishita were pregnant.

But all bhaji does is manipulate, gaslight, add fears, anxiety in young kids. Do weird promises for no reason & go all out committing crimes for that.
lies lies and control.

They honestly think they are making bhabhi Suman look bechara others bad- but as a mother- wife- daughter-daughter in law: I feel only for Raavi & rishita prerna are right in wanting to step out.

No one can live under such suffocating clutches.

Guilt tripping your sons, and playing baghban music doesn’t work with narratives they have set.

whatever they are showing is plain filthy. Again.

Dev- Rishita sitting in their room with Shesh and Natasha

Shesh and Natasha start crying and throwing tantrums, “Chiku ke paas jaana hai, Chiku ke paas jaana hai, hume alag nahi rehana hai Papa”

Natasha says, “ Mumma, mujhe Chiku ke paas jaana hai”

Shiva- Raavi with Mitthu in their room.

He too starts crying, “ mujhe Chiku ke paas jaana hai”

Shiva- Raavi are quiet, don’t know what to do.

Krish- Prerna are in their room thinking.

Back in the aangan, Gautam’s rage builds up and has an outburst

“ ye jo kuch bhi ho raha hai galat ho raha hai, bahut galat ho raha hai, he starts shouting, arrey bahar niklo. Sab mugh chupake chale gaye, bahar aao apne kamre se, tum logon ko batwara chahiye naa, mann bana liya batwara toh tumhe batwara milegaa, Batao kya chahiye, kahan kerchne lakert” breaks a brick lying next to the well. Bhabima and Suman say, “ Gombi”

He again shouts, “ neeche aao”

Bhabima says, “ Gombi, kya kar rahe ho, hosh mein toh ho?”

Gautam continues shouting, “ Dhara mein hosh mei abb aaya hoon, pehle behosh thaa, Shuva, Krush, Dev sabke sab neeche aajaao abhi ke abhi”

Shiva tells Raavi, “ Ye galat ho raha hai, Gombi ko aisi haalat mei kabhi nahi dekha meine”

Dev says to Rishita, “ Rishita hum galat kar rahe hain, hume koi haq nahi hai Gombi ko ye dukh dena ka”

Rishita says, “ ye tumhare janam diye huey bacche hain Dev”

Dev looks at Rishita and the kids, leaves from there.

Shiva tells Raavi, “ tu issko sambhall ( Mitthu) mein aata hoon” he too leaves.

Krish too goes to the aangan.

Bhabima says, “ Gombi, suno meri baat ye time nahi hai baat karne kaa, gusse mei liya hua decision galat ho sakta hai, todi der shaant ho jaao, hum aatam se naat karenge”

Gautam shouts again, “ Shuva, Krush, Dev abhi ke abhi neeche aao”😂😂

All 3 come to the aangan.

Gautam says, “ aaj iss ghar ka batwara hokar rahegaa” 😂😂

Dhoom Tana BGM plays.

End of episode

Precap is the same for the zillionth time👎

I feel like laughing seeing dora overacting skills. Her DDP which Is her real manipulating skills I feel like 2👊👊👊👊👊👊 her. This show has become such a crap always making dora Mahan and making other bshus as vamp.

Hope with leap this show shut the door soon.