Originally posted by: sakshi.ekansh
How can you impose your decisions to anyone? How can you make decisions on anyone's behalf? She needed to prove herself mahaan, so she paid Raavi's rent. That's what she feel helping her family means. Keep taking decisions for them and keep imposing your rights and wrongs on them, instead of sitting with them and trying to share their pain. Trying to talk things out. Trying to make them feel you are their support. Gain their trust back. Stop taking advantage of their miseries.
But no Dhara bhabhi Maa the mahaan criminal minded lady with go with hafta vasooli attitude and will take decisions on everyone's behalf and later will stand in front of them holding her head high expecting them to bow down to her and accept that she is always right and she should parent us for lifetime. We should be her puppet of this mahaan mahaan aatma..
Writers are breathing poison, hence vomiting toxicity on papers and presenting it to us.
The way the writers treat Raavi’s character is appalling. The girl gets no respect from anyone at Kandya Niwas. They all still consider her stupid. Even after getting a bahu like Shweta, Suman still hates Raavi more than Shweta. Infact Shweta is treated better than Raavi in that house. The girl cannot make any decisions on her own. doesn’t get any happiness, in love with the wrong person, Shiva who is really a useless husband amd doesn’t support her in especially when it comes to family matters. More than half of the first 2 years of their married life were spent on Shiva being suspicious of Raavi, calling her characterless multiole times and her proving that she is not again and again was downright humiliating, abusuve and distespectful and he always goaded and supported by his mother, who is the vilest human being I have ever seen.
They make Bhabima spit venom, is she not a bahu like the other 2 in that house? Don’t they all have the same rights as the bahu of the house? Why this discrimination against these 2, especially Raavi? Is it because she is not from a well to do family, most importantly raised by Mami and an orphan? 😡
In what way writers think that Bhabima yelling at Raavi and Rishita and accusing them of separating the family is justified, when she is the actual reason, her selfishness is the reason, her obsession is the reason for it,
If writers want to show Raavi’s humiliation only then they should write her off by having her walk out on Shiva, Kandya parivar and the house. But she should at any cost take Mitthu with her, never give him away, definitely not to Bhabima. Anyway Shiva-Mitthu have no bondung at all, so he win’t miss him as he can bond with Chilu and Chutki. Raavi will do a great job raising Mitthu as a single mom if she leaves the Shiva and the hell hole which is Kandya Niwas.