I grew up in a joint family, have seen adults fight but they always kept us kids away from all this mess. We were in our own world, never bothered about which chacha-chachi were fighting etc. we were 10 kids grew up in the same house until my middle school years.
i am appalled that they are using little kids in these adult fights, it’s so wrong, not a good thing for kids growing up in the current times. There are lot if psychological repercussions to it.
I hvae never lived in Joint family
But I know jab bhi mumma papa kisi aur ki baat karte the if that person didn't treated them nicely or something or any gossip they always used to do it at night when they used to go down for a walk together.
Until and unless I came in class X my mumma never told me anything ab jaakar we both siblings know what actually happens or happened in their lives as now they share everything otherwise as kid they made sure we knew nothing about any mess if it happened.