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I am once again going to say this, Gautam chose to become a drunkard because he could not see Dhara cry.

But Shiva becoming mentally unstable, losing his memory, losing 7 years of his life and Rishita losing her child was all due to Dhara’s obsession with Chiku,

When she got Chiku, she became nice to everyone. Before that when they all went against her plan, she taunted them and touted the sacrifices she had done and made them all feel guilty.

Originally posted by: anoniya

Dhara wouldn't be above using them to make the others stay. They are both quite young and so would make for easy targets. Moreover Rishita isn't very close to her son so he probably craves maternal affection, while Raavi's son has faced a lot of bullying so probably craves love and affection in general. But it would still be extremely cruel of them to show the children becoming closer to her than their own mothers, and prove Rishita and Raavi correct in wanting to stay away

If they show like kids develop a great bond that they want to stay together, its actually a good way to show bond of love(between kids)..maybe ravi and rishitha will be in dilemma becz as mothers they too realise how their kids are happy with each other..just dnt even try poking dharas nose on this..and it can be reasonable..

Precap- Though Raavi talked about what she has been going through for the past 7 years, I expect Bhabima to turn the tables on her, infact blame Raavi for Shiva becoming worse😔

I am expecting Bhabima to play the victim card yet again😡

Originally posted by: mpks1

Who asked Bhabima to make food every day and let it go waste when others struggling to pay rent or school fees? This proves that Bhabi has plenty of money that she is wasting food everyday. Who wastes food, when there are millions who go to bed hungry every single day!😔

Bhabi will do all kinds of nautanki but when others call her out, she plays the victim card.😡

And less saud, better it is about Suman. Where was her tadap when Shiva’s treatment was delayed, instead she was worried about the store and the house😡

That dialogue was so strange. She every single day made food for people whom she knew were not even living in the same town/city let alone that very house. Where was the logic in doing so.

Would it not have been better if she just talked about praying for their return every day, or at least claimed to have given food to the needy and asked them to pray for her family to be back together. This would still be dramatic but more sensible than what was shown.

Originally posted by: sakshi.ekansh

That Shiva getting violent scene when he throws stuff upon getting flashes of past, should not have happened in front of the kids. Offscreen as well as Onscreen

Agree.

They must be very careful on what & how they shout with these kids. They are all very young.

they Shoot w/o Leadben for weeks with her scenes inserts- then why not do same here?

Originally posted by: mpks1

I am once again going to say this, Gautam chose to become a drunkard because he could not see Dhara cry.

But Shiva becoming mentally unstable, losing his memory, losing 7 years of his life and Rishita losing her child was all due to Dhara’s obsession with Chiku,

When she got Chiku, she became nice to everyone. Before that when they all went against her plans, she taunted them and touted the sacrifices she had dine abd made them all guilty.

That was her true face when the devars disagreed with her on a particular thing..😳

Originally posted by: mpks1

I just finished watching that scene and totally agree with you. What are these writers going after? Those little kids be scarred for life? Why are they showing such traumatic scene happening in front of the kids. Do these people even care or even know about what Children go through these days?

Didn’t they show pre-leap that Chutki got affected and was admitted in the hospital because of what Bhabima did, when she took her to steal Darshan’s picture from the store and later Chutki was taken to jail?
And Mitthu, at such a young age knows how Shiva will react to the photo if he sees it! How sad is this? That child is being robbed of his innocence and childhood because of the adults in the family, especially Bhabima with the help of Krish destroyed everyone’s life in Kandya Niwas.

Originally posted by: anoniya

That dialogue was so strange. She every single day made food for people whom she knew were not even living in the same town/city let alone that very house. Where was the logic in doing so.

Would it not have been better if she just talked about praying for their return every day, or at least claimed to have given food to the needy and asked them to pray for her family to be back together. This would still be dramatic but more sensible than what was shown.

All i can think of is she wasted money on her delusional nonsense when ravi was struggling to make ends meet, having to care for shivas treatment, pregnancy, delivery..child care..rent of the house..and here she was wasting food on the money that belonged to ravi too..

Originally posted by: deeps07

Its like all the evils in the world playing karma with each other..

The only problem with that is Suman isn't considered bad by the characters. The way she is revered instead is extremely problematic and unpleasant, but she still should not have had all her rights taken away the way it happened. That probably is what led to her becoming even more insecure and bitter.

If Dhara does try to take control of Raavi and Rishita's children, I would like for this to be brought up.

Originally posted by: sakshi.ekansh

This PH has sold sensitivity in exchange of Bhabhi Maa. They don't consider emotions and mental health.
Raavi was literally mentally tortured by Suman. Later she got into a self blame state considering herself as unlucky for the family. But they did not address it in the form of mental issue, rather called her dobi and spreading unnecessary manhoosiyat.

Rishita's postpartum depression was addressed, but she was normal the next day.

Shiva's insecurities were never addressed through counselling.

They take mental state so lightly and so will continue that way for kids too.

Because the entire script is written with one character in mind- Bhabima

- only she was seaparated from her so called chikdren 7 years

- only she went through mental agony because saw Suman’s mayus chehra

- only she thought about making food for her bacche but they never showed up

- only she has scarified her life for this family, which she will not leave a chance to rub it on other Kandya members face

- only she claims to think about everyone’s well being while in reality she is the most selfish person and a control freak, cannot take a no for an answer.

The entire family comes to her rescue, to her support even for smallest of the small matters, she will make sure everyone supports her even if they don’t like it, yet she is the one whining all the time and playing the victim card,

Only her mental health is important for the writers, Baaad mei jaaye baaki saare characters ki mental health