Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #228 - Page 63

Originally posted by: deeps07

I can already see ravi maafi maanging bhabhi saying dhara di..aap bilkul sahi thi mujhe naukri se nikalwaane keliye..maaf kardo mujhe..meine aapko kitnaa sataaaya..aap tho sief mere bhalayi keliye yeh sab kar rahinthi....and heera shows his attitude says i told u..and u blamed me...nullifies his extra vachans becz he has no more reason to be guilty and he was infact right all the time for questioning her relationship with the boss..🤪

This show does have a tendency to give out the wrong message and blame the victim.

Even if Arnav gets turned into the "bad guy", I fail to see how it makes Raavi at fault for working with him. But, of course, one cannot expect logic or sense from this show. They seem to believe a husband "allowing" his wife to work or claiming to not have any problem with it is progressive enough, so it wouldn't be surprising if they also show her giving up on working outside because of this.

Shiva's guilt seems to have vanished the moment Raavi came back to him and now the only person he is shown feeling concerned or guilty for is Dhara. He not only blamed Raavi for Dhara's misery but also felt bad about not taking Dhara's side when Raavi called her out on getting her fired from her job.

Shiva needs to stop bringing their relationship issues in public...

Today Raavi is so right abt everything bt dhara use shiva complains ka pitara against raavi to make her shut

If ur husband don't value than family also won't...

Bt raavi hold her ground well this is the best version hope it remains forever

Bt aaj essa laga rishita n raavi role reversal hai

Liked rishita n raavi small convo hope they show their bond strong

Originally posted by: anoniya

This show does have a tendency to give out the wrong message and blame the victim.

Even if Arnav gets turned into the "bad guy", I fail to see how it makes Raavi at fault for working with him. But, of course, one cannot expect logic or sense from this show. They seem to believe a husband "allowing" his wife to work or claiming to not have any problem with it is progressive enough, so it wouldn't be surprising if they also show her giving up on working outside because of this.

Shiva's guilt seems to have vanished the moment Raavi came back to him and now the only person he is shown feeling concerned or guilty for is Dhara. He not only blamed Raavi for Dhara's misery but also felt bad about not taking Dhara's side when Raavi called her out on getting her fired from her job.

That's the reason i didn't wanted raavi to come easily

She is always talen for granted

Originally posted by: mpks1

This is the actual synopsis for today’s episode 😆

Waah, bhai! Rishita ne bhi to kiya tha, tab to Dhara Mata ka muh nahi khula. Raavi ne bol diya to chul mach gayi. 😔

Originally posted by: mpks1

I have not seen 20 + something year girl behaving like how Shweta is being portrayed and no mother in the world would do what she is doing.
Choubays and Vinod Ranganath saare characters ki band bhaja dhi

- working women are shown in poor light

- mothers including Bhabima, Suman are horrible in this show

- women these days are capable of doing lot of good things in this world and become very successful bit what do we get to see her, a 20+ girl is plotting, planning, destroying families, abusing a child, endangering his life for her personal agenda and gains

And we have Alice telling in Akshay’s interview that women in Kandya Store are portrayed very strong 😆

Do these people even know what it means to be strong or what it takes to be strong?

This show is the worst ever in portraying women so badly, really bad and the story is coming from a woman writer and there are few women writers on the creative team. Shame on all these women for writing this.😡

More than Shweta acting like this, it is her motivation that irks me. Her actions make no sense. She always targets the wrong people and doesn't stay on course for whatever her objective actually is. Her family is the one with the money and are the ones most likely to sympathise with her. Would it not have been better and easier to guilt-trip them? They also have the power to change the custodianship, especially since now the baby isn't even staying with Dhara. Taking revenge from the people in the Pandya family, for whatever reason, is utterly pointless. Not only is it a waste of time but she literally doesn't gain anything from it.

Bold - If I'm not mistaken, I believe she was talking about the actresses and not the characters.

Originally posted by: mpks1

I have not seen 20 + something year girl behaving like how Shweta is being portrayed and no mother in the world would do what she is doing.
Choubays and Vinod Ranganath saare characters ki band bhaja dhi

- working women are shown in poor light

- mothers including Bhabima, Suman are horrible in this show

- women these days are capable of doing lot of good things in this world and become very successful bit what do we get to see her, a 20+ girl is plotting, planning, destroying families, abusing a child, endangering his life for her personal agenda and gains

And we have Alice telling in Akshay’s interview that women in Kandya Store are portrayed very strong 😆

Do these people even know what it means to be strong or what it takes to be strong?

This show is the worst ever in portraying women so badly, really bad and the story is coming from a woman writer and there are few women writers on the creative team. Shame on all these women for writing this.😡

Oh God! Is that what she meant? It thought she was saying that the actresses are all strong women, SD, SB, Kruttika-ji and Alice. 😕

I need to go rewatch it, I think.

Originally posted by: anoniya

This show does have a tendency to give out the wrong message and blame the victim.

Even if Arnav gets turned into the "bad guy", I fail to see how it makes Raavi at fault for working with him. But, of course, one cannot expect logic or sense from this show. They seem to believe a husband "allowing" his wife to work or claiming to not have any problem with it is progressive enough, so it wouldn't be surprising if they also show her giving up on working outside because of this.

Shiva's guilt seems to have vanished the moment Raavi came back to him and now the only person he is shown feeling concerned or guilty for is Dhara. He not only blamed Raavi for Dhara's misery but also felt bad about not taking Dhara's side when Raavi called her out on getting her fired from her job.

I know its outrageous....but still reading this is making me laugh so much😆😆..kahaa se aathe hein yeh clowns..😆😆

Originally posted by: VNuts

Waah, bhai! Rishita ne bhi to kiya tha, tab to Dhara Mata ka muh nahi khula. Raavi ne bol diya to chul mach gayi. 😔

I hope shwetha gets successfull and bahus demand separation from this joined bewakoof family..handling nalayaks are easy when separated..atleast one fool at a time..

Originally posted by: freebird_dd

Shiva needs to stop bringing their relationship issues in public...

Today Raavi is so right abt everything bt dhara use shiva complains ka pitara against raavi to make her shut

If ur husband don't value than family also won't...

Bt raavi hold her ground well this is the best version hope it remains forever

Bt aaj essa laga rishita n raavi role reversal hai

Liked rishita n raavi small convo hope they show their bond strong

Exactly. Shiva not only made his grievances publicly known but kept complaining about Raavi's actions even after finding out the truth (though he claimed to not be blaming her).

The lack of trust and respect Raavi was talking about will remain a problem even further down the line. Him openly fighting with her, insulting her and accusing her gives others the chance to look down upon her. Him never standing up for her, her rights and her self-respect in front of his family means she becomes an easy target for every single one of them.

Yes, I would love for Raavi to remain confident and courageous even if she does have to fight her battles alone. She should not be shown backing down or getting emotionally manipulated into believing she was wrong. Being submissive is not about being selfless and certainly not something praiseworthy.

Originally posted by: deeps07

I know its outrageous....but still reading this is making me laugh so much😆😆..kahaa se aathe hein yeh clowns..😆😆

And the most extraordinary thing is this show isn't intended to be satire or some sort of parody.