Originally posted by: SAOkr
man why is this fighting even going on.....its clear makers and directors are at fault.....
also whats so wrong in raavi calling him bail buddhi shiva himself calls him that.....and he has never refrained from saying to maami he is gawar , ....or he is thelewala...to raavi....
"caarwali ho gayi he ...thele wale ko kaha.....puppy degi.....'"...so shiva never felt in being addressed with such terms...
also the hug...for me it didnt seem so wrong man ,,we are living in 21st century.....and a girl who has had just undergone a traumatic experience only few hrs ago......especially a girl like raavi.....that hug didnt seem wrong after all intentions matter.....
and raavi saying to shiva to not go with her so that to avoid more of embarassement is one thing she came because she had just gone through the exp..just few hrs back.... and she doesnt want to be embarrassed yet again...
after all..."kheechad me pattar maroge to kuch to aap par bhi chidkega"...
and raavi not taking shiva or krish ...because she want to solve the case alone without involving more people......as its marriage also....
and shiva not going with raavi....raavi herself has said to shiva infact urged him to not do anything....just as the statement.....raavi trust arnav because he was introduced by her hubby(lol)...and krish or so one say...
shiva too trusts arnav because he was introduced by krish he is jealous but shiva trusts arnav with raavis case.....
and shiva not going if in a husband wife relation if wife says she needs time and space for some time you need to give her that... raavi just told him to not do anything.....and she was not going to anyone but arnav.....both raavi and krish trust him so why should he go when his wife said so to not do anything....
i dont want to say things but i came across a word "s**t shamming" by a certain member....the irony is that when dhara hugs shiva... or when dharas backless blouse is commented upon....where was this knowledge.......of yours....man.....where you point fingers at others.....
was it not "s**t shaming."......
i am saying this to that person only who is acting hollier than thou....and blaming others for their opinion.....
all the other members are mature enough they atleast dont discriminate when it comes to women in general ....
but a few like these who point that you are shaming the victim... and giving all those gyan is the same one who s**t shamed a woman on devar bhabhi.....
ofcourse no one likes such scenes and its a fact but dont bring in real life values...to reason with whats happening in fiction......
and if you are bringing in values...then that should apply for every women....otherwise its just hypocritical.....
"practice what you preach..."