Cursing- no.
Just wishing well.
As you rightfully said: Pandyas are NOT worst people. So wishing someone getting husband/ sasural like that - how is that cursing?
You are...
When acc to you "A" is not a right human for anyone then u don't wish tht for anyone be it Ur friend or enemy
Every one's pov is diff you don't like shiva buts some loves him...if they say tht they want him as their life partner or whatever it's diff as they think he is a ideal human
But in ur case u don't feel like he is a good person still wishing that certain people get someone bad just because they r defending a ckt is cursing only
You r targeting real life human for fictional Ckt
Also i didn't say Pandyas are not worst humans... I said u feel they and Shiva r whereas some feel Shiva is not 🥱