Originally posted by: SlytherInMe
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I agree she doesn’t have to tell every little thing but if he asks, can she not tell him the truth?
jab tak she was keeping it a secret because of her reservations it was fine but then that secret turned into a lie and that’s literally what shiva was mad about - that she lied
Hey dear🤗..so happy to see u active..❤️.and ur love for some great romance between shivi..😆chobeys just wont give it without dupatta and 1metre distance between them..shivi are like those 70s couples..
And abt the topic..Ofcourse that would have been the right time to tell the truth..i do agree on that...or atleast shr should have told to wait for sometime before she can talk abt it..but she lied..thats wrong....but is it that wrong that she is being treated like this?....and as we all know shiva the hypocrite has lied to her so many times..and. so conveniently blamed it on her dobiness for lying to her..and she took the same reason for hiding it to him .
That doesnt make lying ok..but its a result of his general attitude towards her..not something impossible to understand..instead of making this big..he should be showing his disapproval abt her lying rather than humiliating her like this..fights happen in marrg..we cannot expect spouse to always behave in a certain way becz thats how we like it..i would have sympathised with him if he had dealt this in a matured way..rather he is humiliating her and making a big deal in front of the whole family further humiliating her..
I think the main problem is he is jealous..maybe not abt the money..more like he is afraid she is going away from him..more success..more work..less attention for him..when early it was all just for him and his family..less time with him..and like a tantrum child he is making a fuss..but he needs to grow up and talk with her..if she understands his insecurity, she would be more watchful and attentive..i know these things take time..but he cpuld atleast stop himself from making a thamasha in front of family..thats too low..