Originally posted by: firsttimehere
Thank you for the updates Prema ..
This week I won't be able to watch the episodes and your updates are my Sahara 🤗
But looks like I am lucky this time too .. had busy week during other Maha kaands too and now based on today's precap which I found on insta .. another Maha kaand is on the way ..
It's better I don't watch till I know what happens with Rishita's baby .. I can't bear what they plan to show about a pregnant woman falling on her stomach etc .. can't stomach it all ..
Not even for shivi lollipops that they throw in between
Parikrama also happened today .. I have seen sons who put their parents in pedastal however they are to others including wives.. it's just how they are wired and there is nothing wrong or right about it unless that impacts how they balance their relationships .
It's okay as long as the husband takes care of wife too when something goes wrong between the mother and wife ..
So no comments on parikrama . Will wait and watch to see how Shiva handles a conflict when it comes and it will come based on how sharp suman's tongue is and what (less) Raavi means to her ..
But yeah Raavi isn't someone who probably may not get ahead with a conflict with suman .. she is quite sweet that way.. something very strong only can cause a rift from both sides .. anything less will only mean Raavi being raavi with suman and respect and love her nonetheless
current version of Shiva is learning to balance between two. Too new for him, but there is a start.
Like at wedding he didnot outright agree or even responded to Suman's dhamki.
That was first step.
Today, he kept fast but has kept mum about it. Suman doesn't need to know. That's an improvement from otherwise tell-all Shiva.
He was in control, with minimal reactions to Dhara- Jaanu- Rishita chaos. That too was not like Shiva version 1-2-3.
This is the guy who used to put his 3 mothers over everything else. Not any more.
Even if not completely - he has started his journey to prioritize his wife. Has long way to go (and need full mercy of choubeys).
Raavi, as you mentioned, will not directly go into conflict with Suman. She rightfully has this fear block against kaaki & is perfectly valid. Raavi complies, and shows respect & love as suman is Shiva's mother- whom Raavi loves a lot.
This balance is tough for any woman. but haveto!
I can give my example. My FIL was as sharp tongued as Suman. MIL would just support him in everything. Have said many nasty things to me- humiliated me in front of everyone in family functions. My husband stood by me always, didn't get into verbal public confrontation but later has spoken for me. Even stopped talking to his parents for a few months. It did hurt him & I stepped up to reconcile. This give & take sometimes you do for your loved ones.
Does that mean, i forgave my inlaws then- no. infact i still havenot. My fil passed away few years back & my MIL is now in US stays with Sil. she has mellowed down a lot. definitely not nasty comments anymore. We are on casual good terms. ITV bonds us well.
She has realized out of staying with all three of her children - out of 2 bahus- this nonfavored one is the one who takes care.
Time changes things, and hope we will get a track where Suman realizes Raavi's value, her simple & loving need- to be loved. May be they can bring that up in this Dhara-Rishita tussle.
One request to Cv's for sure :keep Shiva's current progress going. This Shiva is much better than the previous 2 versions - 100%.
Edited by spdp - 3 years ago
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