Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #161 - Page 56

Originally posted by: PoohNotFound

PS, please tell me whether Raavi is actually going to college or not? Please confirm if she has dropped out.

PS writers: Raavi college kab jaa rahi thi?! 😲

Pooh: 😕

Hum: 🤣 #NoHope

Originally posted by: PoohNotFound

Oho, I smell a mahakaand brewing😆

Well there is that cow/cattle that was there in their stories lol btw they still are shooting in the prep clothes so seems like a long day lol

Originally posted by: manny136

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYo2n5VDOI4

So this is the time BhabiMa was on weekend vacation😕

KD snd Alice are in the BTS costume when they were with the cow the other day ( Monday?) and this scene will not show up until Friday.

Now coming to the segment-

So Rishita and Raavi successfully got the contract for the bandare, hmmm 😆

Now will Shiva and Dev take back their words or ready for some punishment? If I were the writer I would include the following as a punishment for both😆

Dev - lift 20 extra boris 😆

Shiva - you can’t open your mouth and argue with Raavi, or humiliate her for an entire day and have to do everything she says😆

How I would love to see both happen 😆

Raavi there is no need to help with the bore, “ tu apni tucche se dust allergy ko dekh pehle” 😕

KD’s interview yet again -

Where is my duct tape?😡 What nok- jhok is he talking about? The constant humiliation Raavi is facing from Suman and Shiva and her efforts not being recognized? Is that what he is calling nok- jhok?
Alice is too naive in the interviews , she should learn to give it back to him. Why is she nodding her head when he calls it nok- jhok? 😔

Pehle waale ShiVi ki tarah nahi hai. Abb Raavi pyaar karti hai tujhse, you duffer, aur izhaar bhi kar chukki hai. How can he equate this old ShiVi vibes😕

Originally posted by: PoohNotFound

Oho, I smell a mahakaand brewing😆

Yes!!

Hopefully there is huge argument between Shiva & Raavi, and Raavi finally leaves, Shiva feels guilty &wants Raavi back, and we get the track we've been waiting for since Raavi rescued herself from being trafficked.

Originally posted by: ishan2003

I guess you have never lived in a joint family and know how the dynamics work. This used to be the norm in most households just that people are living in more nuclear households nowadays.

Interference and care are different things, and it is subjective - so it's good that they are showing both sides of the perspective.

I've lived in a joint family, seen it's down fall because like in this show, when the fine line between interference & care is crossed it's all chaos & leads to resentment.. Which makes you more distant with family members... All these things which are shown here like interference of dhara, Suman, toxic behavior of Suman, Shiva, Dev.. Physical violence of dhara, gaumbi, doesn't happen in healthy joint family & these things should never be glorified

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Excuse me kanwar

We are not missing tashan at all

We want some romance

Dhakam dhakaa kaun miss karta hai bey

My reaction was samee... No kanwar, we are not missing that tashan at all & it's not same.. What's going on right now is downright toxic not healthy bantering, nok jhok at all

PS: nok jhok se yaad aaya, kanwar ne sawan pooja wale ek photo me bhi jisme Raavi ko dhakka diya tha, "kaisi lagi shivi ki ye nok jhok" Aisa poocha tha😕this boy🤪

https://www.instagram.com/p/CSJQc3ygPpa/?utm_medium=copy_link

This was nok jhok too according to him🤣🤣to ab to bol hi sakta hai😆

Originally posted by: manny136

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYo2n5VDOI4

alice onscreen and offscreen dono taraf se shiva or kd ko de rahi hai 🤣🤣

Jab kd bola ki bori utha k laaya mai

Woh bolti hai ye toh bas bori leke aaya abhi saare ghehu saaf karna fir khana banana padosna sab toh mai or rishita hi karege damn pehli baar maine dekha alice ko kd ka muh band karwate huye kisi interview me🤣🤣

Originally posted by: VNuts

I am going to disagree here.

In a non-dysfunctional joint family, couple solve their problems between themselves, and generally, no one interferes between other couples. The solve house issues together, but they also have individual lives as couples. Generally, there is some sort of balance, despite the lack of some private that nuclear households offer, but the support system is different. Sure, daughters-in-law may discuss arguments, so may the sons, but I'm pretty sure if anyone behaved like Dhara, nobody would like it & it is interference.

Similarly, if a husband behaves like Shiva or Dev, very few would put up with it. Your husband is your tie to that house; for him to constantly belittle you in front of others is not acceptable.

And a mother-in-law like Suman, who treats her daughters-in-law differently because of the support they may or may not have is degrading. She treats Dhara the way she does because Dhara has the entire house to support her. She treats Rishita the way she does because Rishita shuts her up. She treats Raavi like that because Raavi has no support, in Pandya Niwas or outside, and because Raavi treats her with respect, even though she can shut her up (as they've shown).

And yes, interference and care are two different things. When Raavi asks for help from her sisters-in-law (like the advice scene or Rishita scaring Shiva), and they offer her good advice from their experience, that is care. Dhara, post-danda kaand, was just interfering. Not forgetting, she's emotionally manipulative to everyone in the family who would listen to her.

And I disagree there I have seen a lot of my parents disagreements or arguments get sorted by my grandparents and the same for my uncle and aunt.

Having elders helps as they have the experience that the younger couples don’t.

Seems like this track is realisation of Shiva to witness Raavi’s “sachey ehsaas” via nok jhok. It is going in the direction where the makers want Shiva to realise and appreciate Raavi’s efforts. There is no marital relationship between them anymore so there is no obligation for Shiva to think that Raavi is doing all this to stay in Pandya House. I am thinking we will get to witness more care by Raavi towards Shiva and Shiva realising slowly that his chipkali truly and wholeheartedly wants him.

This of course will be in form of nokjhok or as a viewers perspective more humiliation for Raavi as she is ITV bahu so agneepareeksha is a must to gain husband’s trust.