Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #161 - Page 50

Originally posted by: Miss.M

Because even during the Disha track, he refused to say no....and Raavi knows that he's not going to do anything

Then isn't this marriage all one-sided

He decided to file for divorce because he made the decision for both of them

He refused to say no for the engagement

Now he is accusing her of doing kaand after kaand and want her to prove her innocence.

Instead the girl is showering him with love and affection.

So if he is not going to do anything for their marriage and the relationship, what's the point? What is Raavi fighting for if she is not going to get what she wants?😕

If it had been some other girl in Raavi's place, she would have happily walked off even if the divorce happened without her knowledge. Infact she would be thanking whoever tricked her into signing the papers.

Raavi, here is made of something else. She has lost all her self respect and self esteem😕

Originally posted by: mpks1

Then isn't this marriage all one-sided

He decided to file for divorce because he made the decision for both of them

He refused to say no for the engagement

Now he is accusing her of doing kaand after kaand and want her to prove her innocence.

Instead the girl is showering with love and affection.

So if he is not going to do anything for their marriage and the relationship, what's the point? What is Raavi fighting for if she is not going to get what she wants?😕

If it had been some other girl in Raavi's place, she would have happily walked off even if the divorce happened without her knowledge. Infact she would be thanking whoever tricked her into signing the papers.

Raavi, here is made of something else. She has lost all her self respect and self esteem😕

This marriage is indeed one sided.

I don't know what they are trying to convey. That pandyas and shiva, dev are some great catch and raavi, rishita have a long way to go before they prove themselves " worthy" to " deserve" their love and respect? 🤷

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

This marriage is indeed one sided.

I don't know what they are trying to convey. That pandyas and shiva, dev are some great catch and raavi, rishita have a long way to go before they prove themselves " worthy" to " deserve" their love and respect? 🤷

If that was what they were trying to convey, then they've been abysmal at it, because we all clearly can't understand exactly what these men & the family have that the girls don't leave.

If anything, they are making it so that people resent bhabhi rishta, the joint-family concept with multiple bahus & MBA toppers.

But i liked the rishita and raavi scene. Was a good mix of rishita's practical approach and raavi's emotional connect. Would love to see these two bonding more. They are in the same boat somehow and i would love to see their relationship explored ❤️

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

This marriage is indeed one sided.

I don't know what they are trying to convey. That pandyas and shiva, dev are some great catch and raavi, rishita have a long way to go before they prove themselves " worthy" to " deserve" their love and respect? 🤷

Prema pixie has summed up my feelings exactly..

I only want to add here that I hope for whatever reason(read other worldly intervention) the writers are building up both Shiva and Dev's stinking attitude to bring it crashing down 🤞.. Because both Raavi and Rishita are willing to move mountains for the men (really boys since they're still tied to their bhabhima's pallu completely) they love.

Zyaada mahaanta dikhaake saare characters ko ruin kiya....we cannot connect with any character except Raavi...Shuru se bola hun....ye heroism dikhaake, they are just ruining Shiva....even in Malayalam thars y i stopped watching the show....Being good and being unnecesaarily heroic is different...

They think frightening wife by showing danda and throwing tomatoes on her, by calling names-they are showing some mass masala hero??...even thats y I never liked Arnav Singh Raisada or Shivaay Oberoi(i know mein ajeeb hun and many ppl like them)...i cud never relate with them...Shiva ko pasand karne ka wajahh was his noticeable care for his ppl....he was a pakka egs of "bahar se tough andar se naram type hero"...but now he is giving takkar to worst of the villains😢

If he is not shown apologising to Raavi sincerely..and if a redemption is not shown for Shiva(even the whole pandyas esp Suman), then thats it for me...i will not rerurn to this 💩 ...

sed me🤢😭

Originally posted by: Miss.M

Prema pixie has summed up my feelings exactly..

I only want to add here that I hope for whatever reason(read other worldly intervention) the writers are building up both Shiva and Dev's stinking attitude to bring it crashing down 🤞.. Because both Raavi and Rishita are willing to move mountains for the men (really boys since they're still tied to their bhabhima's pallu completely) they love.

Truee min.

Raavi and rishita have their flaws, but the way these girls love their husbands is so pure. As you said they can move mountains for them, but sadly they are not even getting the basic respect in return.i hope that we see a balanced marriage rather than one sided efforts soon.

Originally posted by: Paru95

Zyaada mahaanta dikhaake saare characters ko ruin kiya....we cannot connect with any character except Raavi...Shuru se bola hun....ye heroism dikhaake, they are just ruining Shiva....even in Malayalam thars y i stopped watching the show....Being good and being unnecesaarily heroic is different...

They think frightening wife by showing danda and throwing tomatoes on her, by calling names-they are showing some mass masala hero??...even thats y I never liked Arnav Singh Raisada or Shivaay Oberoi(i know mein ajeeb hun and many ppl like them)...i cud never relate with them...Shiva ko pasand karne ka wajahh was his noticeable care for his ppl....he was a pakka egs of "bahar se tough andar se naram type hero"...but now he is giving takkar to worst of the villains😢

If he is not shown apologising to Raavi sincerely..and if a redemption is not shown for Shiva(even the whole pandyas esp Suman), then thats it for me...i will not rerurn to this 💩 ...

sed me🤢😭

I agree.

At least ASR had to work to get Khushi back. SSO was a jerk of the first order, but Annika just became a doormat after marriage. 😡

I really hope they show Shiva working to get Raavi back. They should address all the important issues that have cropped up between them since their marriage, and then make it funny (since that's what they do constantly).

Originally posted by: VNuts

If that was what they were trying to convey, then they've been abysmal at it, because we all clearly can't understand exactly what these men & the family have that the girls don't leave.

If anything, they are making it so that people resent bhabhi rishta, the joint-family concept with multiple bahus & MBA toppers.

The more they brush shiva's mistakes under the rug, the more disconnected the audience will be from him.

Raavi signing the divorce papers without reading was stupid of her. But the girl is suffering for that , trying to correct it, making efforts to save her marriage. That's why she is a delight to watch. She owns up her mistakes and is shown wrong when wrong.

While shiva gets dlgs like hamesha mai kyu jhuku and the audience is left wondering in which epsiode shiva bowed down in their marriage ?

Flawed character is good to watch if their flaws are addressed or else they just appear as insensitive jerks.

Namak k bore ko mera haath lag gaya toh usse mirchi lag gayi🤣🤣her shoulder push to Shivakitni cute hai yaar yeh I'm a fan of Raavi's flying kisses now

Shiva is truely chattan🤪pighalta hi nhi!

But he was doing too much of Chipkali Chipkali today...is it a start of his Chipkali Jaap😳

RishVi scenes are so good these days..❤️