Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi
You know i have heard from many people that in a marriage someone always loves more,cares more, puts more efforts and is the first one to Apologise keeping ego aside.is it true, married ladies? 😆
Why do I feel that it will always be raavi who will be the giver and preserver of their relationship? Shiva will save her when she gets kidnapped or about to be harmed.
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I don’t mind. I know he loves me a lot, has said many times can’t think of a life without me and the kids. But I always initiated adjustments, compromise, understanding and trust. The only thing he follows is blind trust on me that whatever I do, will be the best. For him understanding comes later😆
In many ways I am like Raavi but definitely not a dobi. I am the bubbliest, cheerful DIL in their entire family including cousins, their wives and others. I am more close to his extended family than he is😆
When we travel to India which is every year, I am the one buying gifts for all his family members, he doesn’t even know what his mom, brother, SIL like 😆
When we fight, I am the one to break the ice but have never apologized, that is my motto, never apologize to him. I break the ice by talking about the kids, everything else takes a backseat 😆 Anger is gone, we won’t remember what we fought about😆
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