They have set the base of "tyaag" wrong.dhara was a young woman of about 19 when she married gombi.she loved the kids and was attached to them even before that.she married a friend,she married someone who has been good to her and respected her all her life.her only challenge was winning over suman,which she did over the years with gombi and her three devars support.
She made a sensible decision to delay having kids.she wanted to wait till her devars grew up.she may have thought about the financial aspect too.any smart, educated woman would have done the same.she was not pressurised or influenced by anyone to take this decision.infact she didn't even discuss the matter with gombi. She told,he agreed.
The audience was connecting well with her, but when in every second episode her "tyaag" was stressed upon by every other character, it lost its essence.
Shiva saved raavi and married her for the family. That was a huge decision.but if in every other episode dhara, gombi and dev would have chanted that what a huge sacrifice shiva made.he saved the familys honour.raavo owes her life to him.he married his childhood enemy.wouldnt it be annoying?
We do certain things for family, for the people we love without expecting anything in return.there is no doubt that dhara loves the family. But so does gombi, shiva, raavi ,rishita and everyone else.when only one woman's love, sacrifice and pain is glorified and the feelings of everyone else is demeaned,how can a viewer love that character?