Evil Woman - Suman Pandya

In my 30 years of watching ITV since my childhood, never seen an evil person like Suman. She only spits venom on anybody and everybody except Disha. She has no patience, doesn't treat her DILs like humans, constantly taunts them and name calls them. Her words towards Dhara pre-leap and now towards Raavi amounts to verbal, mental, emotional abuse. The other day she even was ready to hit Rishita but Shiva had to stop her.

Her sons are mute spectators of all this abuse. She is only kind to Dhara because she is pregnant, otherwise she doesn't care for her and we saw that during batwara and Mukteshwar track.

Now Raavi is subjected to even more evilness, abuse from the time she reentered Pandya Niwas in episode# 199 and today it's episode# 256, every episode she finds new ways, words to abuse her.

Rishita is fighting her but she is not getting adequate support at all from either Dhara or Raavi.

I am not sure how educated DILs can put up with this regressive shit and rise against her.

Please don't justify her actions saying in small towns and villages, that's how MILs are, I don't want to hear it. Then this post is not for you at all.

If the makers whitewash after the engagement stops and make her say that she did all of it for Raavi to realize, I am not going to buy the BS. I will never trust her and even begin to like her again. For me Suman will always be a negative character, no matter how much whitewashing they do.

If I start making a list of abuses Raavi had to endure, it is endless.

Some of it here

Markundi gayi

Pathar Dil

Bhagodi ki Dulhan

Pyaar karna nahi aata.

and so on

I want the DILs to walk out in unison and protest against this and even file a Police complaint. One complaint is all required to put her behind bars and she rightfully deserves it.

DILs are not able to defend themselves and stand up against her. The sons are even worse, they let her abuse their wives and are mute spectators and they don't do anything to stop her and bitter words.

Today again Kirti was terrorized in the episode for no fault of hers. She is just a teenager who was there to help her sister.

If this continues, we will have to write a petition to remove the character from the show. She is toxic as hell.

Please comment and share your thoughts.

Originally posted by: mpks1

In my 30 years of watching ITV since my childhood, never seen an evil person like Suman. She only spits venom on anybody and everybody except Disha. She has no patience, doesn't treat her DILs like humans, constantly taunts them and name calls them. Her words towards Dhara pre-leap and now towards Raavi amounts to verbal, mental, emotional abuse. The other day she even was ready to hit Rishita but Shiva had to stop her.

Her sons are mute spectators of all this abuse. She is only kind to Dhara because she is pregnant, otherwise she doesn't care for her and we saw that during batwara and Mukteshwar track.

Now Raavi is subjected to even more evilness, abuse from the time she reentered Pandya Niwas in episode# 199 and today it's episode# 256, every episode she finds new ways, words to abuse her.

Rishita is fighting her but she is not getting adequate support at all from either Dhara or Raavi.

I am not sure how educated DILs can put up with this regressive shit and rise against her.

Please don't justify her actions saying in small towns and villages, that's how MILs are, I don't want to hear it. Then this post is not for you at all.

If the makers whitewash after the engagement stops and make her say that she did all of it for Raavi to realize, I am not going to buy the BS. I will never trust her and even begin to like her again. For me Suman will always be a negative character, no matter how much whitewashing they do.

If I start making a list of abuses Raavi had to endure, it is endless.

Some of it here

Markundi gayi

Pathar Dil

Bhagodi ki Dulhan

Pyaar karna nahi aata.

and so on

I want the DILs to walk out in unison and protest against this and even file a Police complaint. One complaint is all required to put her behind bars and she rightfully deserves it.

DILs are not able to defend themselves and stand up against her. The sons are even worse, they let her abuse their wives and are mute spectators and they don't do anything to stop her and bitter words.

Today again Kirti was terrorized in the episode for no fault of hers. She is just a teenager who was there to help her sister.

If this continues, we will have to write a petition to remove the character from the show. She is toxic as hell.

Please comment and share your thoughts.

I completely agree with u. I have earlier mentioned than in my whole life I itv i have never seen such disgusting character like suman. She is true nagin.she is not fit to be a mother.

Maa ki naam pe Kaala dhaba hai

I totally agree with this one

In name of making Shivi realise their feelings or any other thing can't be a excuse of the torture and harrasment she does to Raavi not daily but every hr.

She treats her like free ki maid.

Want her to do all the ghar ka kaam alone as no else helps and also should be her punching bag where she can hurl as many abuse and her shit mentality bcoz at the end no one will support Raavi she herself won't.

Suman tendency to blaim her dils even for her son's fault gets on my nerves.

She won't call her son bhagoda but will call Raavi bhagodi ki Dulhan.

She won't call out her son for never respecting his wife, for character assinating her, for sending divorce papers but will will blaim her for all the things without any fault of hers.

She has soo much venom in her and she actually looks like the villan of the show, bcoz the villan actually looks better than her.

But bcoz she is Pandya so she never gets reply back, or shown mirror but still respected even after being the worst in the show.

Originally posted by: Lovely2021

I completely agree with u. I have earlier mentioned than in my whole life I itv i have never seen such disgusting character like suman. She is true nagin.she is not fit to be a mother.

Maa ki naam pe Kaala dhaba hai

Thank You for commenting.

This show is watched by teens of impressionable age as well. When adults like us are not able to tolerate this shit, IDK how the teens will be able to tolerate. Also it is giving them a sense of impression that it is ok to be like Suman and get away with it.

This is so not right. I am sure even the TRP audience will reject a character like her. No wonder the TRP of this show don't go past 2.2.

Originally posted by: Palak2812

I totally agree with this one

In name of making Shivi realise their feelings or any other thing can't be a excuse of the torture and harrasment she does to Raavi not daily but every hr.

She treats her like free ki maid.

Want her to do all the ghar ka kaam alone as no else helps and also should be her punching bag where she can hurl as many abuse and her shit mentality bcoz at the end no one will support Raavi she herself won't.

Suman tendency to blaim her dils even for her son's fault gets on my nerves.

She won't call her son bhagoda but will call Raavi bhagodi ki Dulhan.

She won't call out her son for never respecting his wife, for character assinating her, for sending divorce papers but will will blaim her for all the things without any fault of hers.

She has soo much venom in her and she actually looks like the villan of the show, bcoz the villan actually looks better than her.

But bcoz she is Pandya so she never gets reply back, or shown mirror but still respected even after being the worst in the show.

Palak, Suman and Pandya brothers never face the consequences of their actions. It is always the bahus who are paying the price.

Dhara's life was made hell pre-leap simply because Suman wanted Anita has her DIL and Dhara is Bhagodi ki beti. Her family has been the cause for Dhara's repeated abuse she has been facing at the hands of Suman even after 10 years of marriage.

Raavi paid the price for Dev's mistake and now paying the price for Shiva's blunder but she is the only one going through the harassment, abuse, name calling and blamed for both the fiasco that happened in her life.

Rishita is trying, but she is being taunted because of her family.

Suman thinks she is some sort of a perfect person ever to be born in this world and everyone else is inferior to her/

If they don't whitewash her after this engagement track, I am concerned that she will make Raavi's life even more miserable and will do things by hook or crook to get rid of her from Shiva's life in the next 6 months. I am 100% sure that Shiva will never support her in front of his Mom just like his brothers.

We should write to the PH and sincerely ask them to let go off her character.

I am 💯 with you on this, Prema. There is no justification for her insults towards DILs. I can’t relate to her scenes where she showers love and concern towards dhara. Suman only cares for her sons and unborn grand child. I find her new found love for deesu temporary.. after marriage deesu will get the same treatment as other DILs.. yahi suman ki fitrat hai.

Keeping Suman’s character aside, krutika is a brilliant actress.

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

I am 💯 with you on this, Prema. There is no justification for her insults towards DILs. I can’t relate to her scenes where she showers love and concern towards dhara. Suman only cares for her sons and unborn grand child. I find her new found love for deesu temporary.. after marriage deesu will get the same treatment as other DILs.. yahi suman ki fitrat hai.

Keeping Suman’s character aside, krutika is a brilliant actress.

Shruti, thanks for commenting. I cannot relate to her and neither I like her seeing on the screen these days. Since I don't miss any scene, I swallow a bitter pill and watch her atrocities. Today I could not tolerate when she was terrorizing Kirti.

IDC about Disu, she can do whatever she wants with her. But she has no business treating her DILs the way she treats them. Even animals are treated better than them. As for her care for Dhara, it is only temporary as Dhara is pregnant. Once she has the baby, Suman will go back to being what she was with Dhara before pregnancy. In this day and age I am appalled that the makers think it is ok to show toxicity with respect to Suman's character and get away with it.

Her chaar heere jaise bete, khara sona are all nalayaks who don't know to treat their fellow beings properly and are mute spectators when their Mom goes on insult tirade on their wives, Pathetic!😡

I totally agree with you. I just cannot tolerate her when she opens her mouth. I am now forwarding all her scenes. Even yesterday when she cared for Dhara, I did not feel anything else than irritation and anger. I used to feel good in haveli watching her scenes but not now.

I seriously do not like her sons when they don't open their mouth. In the name of respect for their mother, they can not be muted andet her do anything which is absolutely wrong. Also, apart from Rishita, why none can open her mouth infront of Rishita if she is wrong.

Suman should go back to mute and bed ridden. That's the best can happen to pandya bahus.

Suman has crossed every line to now flip and call this damn behaviour as a part of the plan to make Shiva and ravi together. 🤪..

I can't believe this is the same women who once told Shiva will eat only as much as ravi will serve him..and now..the same women blames ravi ..saying ladki hoke dev ke asal feelings jaan nahi payein..what abt ladka hoke her heere apne asal feelings batha nahin parahein hein?..neither dev..nor Shiva. Spineless sons..

And what has ravi not done for her ,her potha pothi, her char char namoonein..she ate her pride to take care of dhara and her family..not an ounce of thanks..and a truck load of taunts..

I dnt care how the makers try to whitewash her..according to me, the kua is waiting for her..all it needs is the water to be drained out and a good dhakka to the wheel chair.. maybe her laadli dishu can do the honour. 🤪