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Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

love you for this 😂❤️

but lavanya didn't go all psycho, neither did NK 🥺

Who r they ?

Originally posted by: Transference

Presenting Ma and Me after a long time:

My Ma arrived today at my place with her full swagger and is staying with me for a few months , which means we cumulatively dissect episodes in real time

After 4months today I didn't watch episode with my mother😒 Missed her a lot

Awwww whenever I get the chance to meet you, ie would like to meet your mother as well🤗🤗

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Lovely post Chikki!

Compromise is definitely needed in any relationship whether it is out of love or arranged. I think what Raavi needs to address with Shiva is what the basis of the compromise is. I guess what Shiva is thinking that they might be ok for the present, but somewhere down the line, when there are bad days, he does not want her regretting her marriage and cursing her fate. (Have seen real life instances- that is why I am very wary of forced marriages). 10 years down the line it might be too late to do anything- now atleast Raavi has a chance to move on(difficult, but easier than when she will be in her 30s).

So Raavi definitely needs to address the insecurities. Not "I wanted something else before, now I am going to compromise", but "My needs and understanding have changed- I used to like something before, but now I like other things". Shiva is basing his assumptions on Raavi still wanting the same things from life

Yes Shiva is definitely wrong in not hearing her out. Maybe that is what Raavi wants to eventually touch upon as she speaks with him. Unfortunately, ShiVi have bad timing. If they had this conversation pre-Sneha kaand, Shiva might have even agreed with her and worked things out.

Insecurities do cloud a person's judgement. It is very burdensome for people surrounding the insecure person- just like us viewers are irritated with Shiva and want him to just grow up and deal with it. People give well meaning advice on either changing or learning to let go. Perfectly sound advice, but completely useless until the person works his way out of his insecurities.

We all agree Raavi needs to be loved and pampered. Maybe Shiva feels exactly the same. And what if he is convinced that he cannot be person, that he cannot change? This is not about wanting to change- he is refusing to even to take a step in the direction because his confidence is shot.

I also agree with your analysis of how difficult Raavi's life might be if she did get divorced. But despite the social pressue, divorce should always be option. Keeping aside my bias for Shiva, what if his push had injured her 😕 Or what if (hypothetically only) he had hit her in anger? She should definitely not stay in such a relationship, and should walk out. I'll go a step further and say, if she is being mentally battered in a relationship, shouldn't she walk away?(Here I am a bit unclear- is she being mentally or emotionally tortured? Somedays I feel yes, somedays no)

That said, this is a show, and we have a loved pair. All references to NDE, third angle, divorce are mainly plot points to move the story forward, not as a means to be insensitive. 😆 If the makers gave us progression through open communication and introspection, like the OG, no one would bother asking for this. When two characters are at a stale mate and refuse to talk to one another, how do you force a change? 🤷‍♀️

Again a thesis 🙈 I think I should impose a moratorium on my IF visits when PMSing

Bold1 I completely agree. Divorce is and should be an option. But we do bend down to society at times. It's not right. No woman should accept it( this is in general and not about Shivi)

Bold2 Na na no imposition. I love your thesis 😆

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

Who r they ?

Characters from ipkknd season 1. Lavanya was the male lead's fiancee before they broke up, NK was the male lead's cousin who crushed on the female lead. They both had positive characters although Lavanya started off as a negative. Hers is probably the best redemption arc I've ever seen on ITV, like ever.

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Sending positive energy to the universe for a good episode

Couldn't tag Sandy ,Sri or Pri😒

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Adbhut Dhara adbhut Dhara hare hare

Bolo pandya parivaar Dhara Mata ki jai×2 chorus

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Originally posted by: Pottermeow

Characters from ipkknd season 1. Lavanya was the male lead's fiancee before they broke up, NK was the male lead's cousin who crushed on the female lead. They both had positive characters although Lavanya started off as a negative. Hers is probably the best redemption arc I've ever seen on ITV, like ever.

I wouldnt call lavs evolution as redemption she was just a little arrogant and mean girl type but her inner core was nice and when she got to know the family and khushi her true inner kindness came out. Lav was never evil or grey just had a misguided way of life but even her wanting to live in with her bf and trying to adjust to his family showed she was open to all sides of thinking. She deserved her own hea coz she was the ultimate modern woman who found a balance between forward thinking and respecting ones culture. Just coz lav wore western clothes and had a career and was a boss didnt make her a vamp and she was fine just the way she was in the end.

What else had I done yesterday? Yes reverse

I want JusticeforAnita. We still didn't get the rain sequence she fell ill shooting

#Anitadeservesbetter

Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

love you for this 😂❤️

but lavanya didn't go all psycho, neither did NK 🥺

Lavanya and NK are my babies I cried so much during Lavanya’s exit 😆

Remember Sheetal? 🤣 She didn’t go psycho but didn’t want to leave either 🤣

Originally posted by: Scarysea

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Sending positive energy to the universe for a good episode

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Hare Rishu Hare Rishu Rishu Rishu Hare Hare

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