Originally posted by: funny_fubar
It is not exactly about being jealous about other guys, it is about being the guy Raavi subconsciously despises.
As Piu mentioned Raavi is emotionally and physically unavailable. Shiva is no paragon- but he still does not deserve to be in such a relationship.
Having been in a downward spiral with my self worth after certain people at work felt I was not "good enough", I can tell you that it's not fun being the person on the receiving end 😐
You can say all the things like you decide your worth or you should not get affected, but talk is cheap. It is really hard to be the bigger person when you hear such things, even if the person saying it has no bearing on your life.
I have said it before, and still stand by this. If Shiva had been brash and rude to Raavi, Raavi is no sweet angel. She can easily brush off her actions as "woh ateet mein tha" but the thought existed- she did despise Shiva.
I am not saying that she is a villain- we ourselves have discussed that how Shiva is not exactly ideal love material. All I am saying is Shiva's insecurities are not exactly unfounded. His dialogues may be repetitive and actions abusive, but I understand the core emotion, and somewhere agree with him. 😐
I do agree with everything u r saying here..absolutely true..she did despise him at a time..so did he..but now he changed..she too changed but he is not seeing it..his changed feelings are due to his budding love..but for her he thinks it's her goodness and majboori..here the problem is both them.are not in position to communicate..communication between the kind of shiva and raavi is very difficult..especially when raavi is too fast to react with the wrong words like compromise karni padthi hein...and shiva is too fast to judge everything according to his own imaginations..and then react harshly..