Choose the one that you see yourself as - Page 3

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

I agree with your points and when I agree What else do I say to you😛

I like Suman for the way she sees some things. For the way she knows the world and can read people too.

I like Gaumbi because he is shown like a father figure. He is responsible and calm.

Dhara because of her immense love for the fam and also for her selflessness (a tad u real if u ask me).

Dev because he loves his family and he aso loves Rishu and tried to understand her point of view while trying to balance both sides as much as he can.

Shiva because of how much he tries to take over from Gaumbi and loves his people wildly.

Raavi for her innocence and purity of heart.

Krish because he is Krish! Sweet and sarcastic. Mischievous but also loving.

Kaka because he is selfless (unreal).

But most of them seem tooo unreal na. ITV and all.😆

@bold, that is why I first said, None of the above🤣

Definitely rishita.she is the most near practical character of the show.she has the dreams of any newly wed girl.spending quality time with her hubby, a new bed, some online shopping 😈.

I would have been frustrated about the dhara Jaap and hide and seek game during the batwara track and probably would have blurted out everything to suman like she did.😷

Shiva and Krish were initially mean to her.she was right about reprimanding Krish about knocking the door.why would she love them right from the start?why would she respect and worship dhara from day 1 ? Every relationship takes time.

She has her flaws but she is human unlike dhara who is too mahaan and sacrificial like Hardik said.

Unlike raavi who is too pure and innocent for this world.

Unlike Kaka who works diligently unpaid for months.🤣🤣

Unlike gombi who is too perfect.calm, responsible, loving,smart, sensitive.he is a complete package.

Unlike shiva who is just another dhara with a tough exterior.

Krish is relatable too, but I don't have such amazing one liners 🤣

Dev..blehh🥴🥴🥴

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Definitely rishita.she is the most near practical character of the show.she has the dreams of any newly wed girl.spending quality time with her hubby, a new bed, some online shopping 😈.

I would have been frustrated about the dhara Jaap and hide and seek game during the batwara track and probably would have blurted out everything to suman like she did.😷

Shiva and Krish were initially mean to her.she was right about reprimanding Krish about knocking the door.why would she love them right from the start?why would she respect and worship dhara from day 1 ? Every relationship takes time.

She has her flaws but she is human unlike dhara who is too mahaan and sacrificial like Hardik said.

Unlike raavi who is too pure and innocent for this world.

Unlike Kaka who works diligently unpaid for months.🤣🤣

Unlike gombi who is too perfect.calm, responsible, loving,smart, sensitive.he is a complete package.

Unlike shiva who is just another dhara with a tough exterior.

Krish is relatable too, but I don't have such amazing one liners 🤣

Dev..blehh🥴🥴🥴

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Her struggle for her own place in a family already well knit hits close to home for most women. Even though she has been portrayed as being wrong, she actually isn’t, the way she voices them out is wrong .

After contemplating for a while, I went for Gaumbi in the end.

Though I am still young, but few years back, I might have chosen Shiva. I was slightly bullied as a kid in middle school, so the whole inferiority complex and lone wolf thing would have been damn relatable. But today, I would say I have successfully grown out of that phase and its a thing of past. I am at peace with myself, a journey which Shiva is yet to make.

So I went with Gaumbi instead.

Though I am the youngest of the family and just like Krish I used to crack jokes at all times, slowly I became a serious kid much more mature than others of my age, so Krish as a character is something I always thought I would be when I grow up but that didn't happen. I was a classic case of a child who grew up too early and lost their childhood. I ended up taking more and more responsibilities like Gaumbi when my whole family went through a bad time. So the whole trying to make everyone happy, blaming yourself when something goes bad, taking it upon yourself to make everything right, pushing your needs back for everyone else, and just overall holding yourself responsible for everything, that part is again super relatable.

But if I talk of all the characters in general, then all of them are relatable some or the other time, all of them are exaggerated at times. But I have mostly seen all the characters in real life also, but I think Rishita is the most common. I read others' post also and from what I have observed in everyday life, I think most people would relate to her most.

PS. I just realized my post might sound very depressing by the look of it, but I am okay guys, no need to worry❤️

I can’t vote in this poll as see myself as a combination of all the 3 FL’s

Though majority feel like they can relate to Rishita and she is realistic, which might be true. I am absolutely selfless like Dhara and Raavi, even my MIL says this. So when we visit India with the kids, I split my time between my in-laws and my parents house. My parents have fairly a very big house, we get the largest bedroom with a bathroom to ourselves. My inlaws is pretty decent as well but when my other BIL’s also visit, my MIL will come to me first and say, Prema I know you will understand, is it ok if I give you the smallest room as I don’t want others being unhappy because of this room situation. I won’t say a word, will take it. As is my trips are 3-4 weeks and I split my time between the 2 houses, why make it miserable by putting my foot down and ruin my entire trip, But my MIL has compensated in other ways, I got the most family jewelry without even asking. I even asked her if she talked to others before giving it to all me, she said that some of these are from her hard earned money (she retired as a lecturer) so she doesn’t have to ask anybody, can choose to give it to whomever she want to. So if you lose some, you gain something else😆

As for Rishita’s traits, have the guts to talk openly with my inlaws and the extended family about what I think but without hurting anybody. I am not rude or disrespectful but they hear me out. I have a problem only with my Devar in the entire family. Only my husband and Jeth can handle him, he is a spoilt brat😕
i am also like Dhara, won’t hesitate to do household chores and help both my Mom and MIL😃

I chose Raavi, though I’m not completely Raavi, as I don’t have my head in the clouds always. But there are other characters of her that I completely relate to.

I’m very quick to forgive, no matter who wronged me. It comes easily to me to forgive my loved ones, but even strangers I forgive cause I believe that forgiveness is important for the forgiver’s mental peace too.

And another thing is that I’m a nautanki exactly like her. I go around the house doing things making my family constantly wanting to face palm 🤣

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Pixieeee tu dazzler ban gayi, cutie! 🤗 Congraaaaats! Mahi, sorry to change topics but I can’t tag her and didn’t know how else to get her attention 🙈🤣

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

I chose Raavi, though I’m not completely Raavi, as I don’t have my head in the clouds always. But there are other characters of her that I completely relate to.

I’m very quick to forgive, no matter who wronged me. It comes easily to me to forgive my loved ones, but even strangers I forgive cause I believe that forgiveness is important for the forgiver’s mental peace too.

And another thing is that I’m a nautanki exactly like her. I go around the stuff doing things making my family constantly wanting to face palm 🤣

Agreed! I myself can see lot of traits of Raavi in you just in this forum😆 I can’t even imagine what you will be doing at home to bother your family😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

Agreed! I myself can see lot of traits of Raavi in you just in this forum😆 I can’t even imagine what you will be doing at home to bother your family😆

Premaaaa 🤣 I’ll come show you one day 🤗

Originally posted by: hedwig_potter

After contemplating for a while, I went for Gaumbi in the end.

Though I am still young, but few years back, I might have chosen Shiva. I was slightly bullied as a kid in middle school, so the whole inferiority complex and lone wolf thing would have been damn relatable. But today, I would say I have successfully grown out of that phase and its a thing of past. I am at peace with myself, a journey which Shiva is yet to make.

So I went with Gaumbi instead.

Though I am the youngest of the family and just like Krish I used to crack jokes at all times, slowly I became a serious kid much more mature than others of my age, so Krish as a character is something I always thought I would be when I grow up but that didn't happen. I was a classic case of a child who grew up too early and lost their childhood. I ended up taking more and more responsibilities like Gaumbi when my whole family went through a bad time. So the whole trying to make everyone happy, blaming yourself when something goes bad, taking it upon yourself to make everything right, pushing your needs back for everyone else, and just overall holding yourself responsible for everything, that part is again super relatable.

But if I talk of all the characters in general, then all of them are relatable some or the other time, all of them are exaggerated at times. But I have mostly seen all the characters in real life also, but I think Rishita is the most common. I read others' post also and from what I have observed in everyday life, I think most people would relate to her most.

PS. I just realized my post might sound very depressing by the look of it, but I am okay guys, no need to worry❤️

I am glad u r alright dear!

And ya Even though the poll showed Raavi being the choice for majority, people who connected with Rishita were the ones replying here more.😆

And yeah to a certain extent for the ones who take responsibility in their homes Gautam may be more relatable.