Why is raavi asking this ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: _charu_

She may not know everything, but she knows Anita's story ..she was there in the wedding when Anita humiliated gombi and broke the marriage ...she now knows about Kangan and the whole mortgage thing also probably she knows bec mausa was repeating it quite often....the main thing is , since childhood she has heard mami spit out poison for the pandyas.... I was surprised howcome raavi didn't get affected by it and kept day dreaming about dev. Ajab gajab personality hai raavi ki😆 she knows mami will never change.. n this is the first time she played the mother card ..otherwise raavi never supported mami. She ignores her mostly

You never know, Mausapa might have secretly been giving her some side gyan, as a way to rebel against Maami 🤣 Also, she has been enamored with Pandya House and Dev, so looks like she chose to ignore Maami’s teachings.

In addition, it looks like Dhara+Pandya house was pretty famous in society and the Somnath ladies seemed to love Dhara(at least post marriage). So probably Maami’s message never got any reinforcement. I think the only reinforcement she got was Shiva’s hatred- which is why she is more inclined to follow Maami’s “jaahil, unpad, gawar”’taunts.

Originally posted by: _charu_

She may not know everything, but she knows Anita's story ..she was there in the wedding when Anita humiliated gombi and broke the marriage ...she now knows about Kangan and the whole mortgage thing also probably she knows bec mausa was repeating it quite often....the main thing is , since childhood she has heard mami spit out poison for the pandyas.... I was surprised howcome raavi didn't get affected by it and kept day dreaming about dev. Ajab gajab personality hai raavi ki😆 she knows mami will never change.. n this is the first time she played the mother card ..otherwise raavi never supported mami. She ignores her mostly

A lot of Raavis childhood wasnt showed to the viewers earlier . We have only seen her bond with pandya family and her being a crazy mad girl for dev . We have only seen the girl who was blindsided in love and dreamt of marriage . The writers are slowly showing her character how she is . I understand the whole right and wrong part but I for one cannot feel she's totally wrong . I feel she's just a human whose torn between two important relationships .one that has a name ( maasima/mausapa who raised her else she would've been an orphan ) and one where she was forced into and she doesn't even know if shiva feels anything for her besides probably responsibility which was forced upon him . She does know maasima loves her . That girl married the person she knows hates her on her maasapas insistence is what we are forgetting. She is trying to accept shiva and her relationship she just is expecting same from him which obviously is the conflict being explored I guess . I feel we have been shown how she reprimands her time and again for being wrong when she did but just imagine the scenario if your husband had placed a sickle on your mom's neck how would you react even if she was the evil one ( also we have t been clearly shown how much she knows ) ? Yes expecting him to accept mami is wrong but then again she is getting smashed between shiva and mami . Dev has been most of the time aloof about mami while Shiva has always seen her intentions so somewhere raavi who was naive girl who crushed on dev , her saviour from shiva didnt see this coming that she would be marrying someone whose hate is more stronger for mami then anything else in his life .

One last thing I feel it's person to persons nature . Post the whole Mukteshwar kand she expects not lovey dovey scenes of Shiva with mami but at least they shouldn't be at each other's throat . Mami is evil period we the viewers know it but raavi I am not too sure if she does .

I for one feel she didnt ask for it . Everyone leaving shiva speak normally to mami . The reason we were shown raavi always tried to get Shiva's acceptance from day one .

She was judged for her mamis actions always by shiva which she feels she doesn't deserves and questioned him as for respecting part she shouldnt expect from him but to go out of way for disrespecting her maasima also what she expects her husband shouldn't do .The reason she clearly stated to Mami to not come in front of Shiva . She has always loved the Pandyas and the Pandyas have always reciprocated the same and she just wishes her husband would at least not be at her maasimas throat .

Living under the burden of someone taking you in when they themselves weren't financially stable is something that over powers you when she mentioned the same to shiva we do see a slight change in his expression . He lost his one parent and he knows how it is while Raavi lost both and was taken in by this same evil mami .

We see his slight turmoil in that split expression I feel . The things happening are way to complicated if you got to see in right and wrong then you can relate to just one side . I feel for both shiva and raavi frankly both have to understand and establish a common ground by having a conversation one day .

Sorry for the long post but I hope it makes some sense ,🙈

Originally posted by: luvshivika

Sorry for the long post but I hope it makes some sense ,🙈

It did make sense dear..I am not saying raavi is wrong..I am saying she needs to understand some basic facts..that mami wont change , she will continue to hurt pandya family ..that Shiva too won't change from a tiger to rat in one day...

Just as it's the responsibility of the husband to mend bridges between his wife and family, similarly its the responsibility of the wife to mend bridges between her maika and her husband/sasural...Instead of asking Shiva to respect mami, she could reinforce that she knows mami is wrong and she won't let her interfere in their family matters , that Shiva must trust her on this...

Raavi wasn't shown much but she used to laugh on shivas antics which he tried on mami..like.those marbles..she was always pro pandya family than pro mami...but Shiva took out mamis anger on her. I am aware...he always saw mami and raavi as a team that's why he was so much against raavi and dev rishta...he takes it upon himself, to protect pandya family from mami..so raavi's role here is imp than Shiva..

I hope I made sense 😆

I badly wanted shiva to tell raavi (when she was claiming and telling shiva maami Jo bhi bolti hai tumhe mere bhalayi ke liye bolti hai ) if you think maami tag me with so many names because of your sake then options are open for you you listen your maami and move on no need to stay in this marriage forcefully but he didn't

Raavi never claimed she was the most intelligent in Somnath - she is the most beautiful one.

Aise aur bahut saare questions toh bante hai!

Originally posted by: Irshita

Raavi never claimed she was the most intelligent in Somnath - she is the most beautiful one.

Aise aur bahut saare questions toh bante hai!

The Girl has a pure heart.. but mami will ruin her married life..she needs to stay away 😆

Ab tab Kahan pata tha that Mami will come peeche peeche raavi ke every where .

And what raavi is saying is called character growth ,that time she was an airhead in love with a person blindly

This raavi is someone who has been left at the altar , has seen and experienced what heart break and hurt means ! So she has matured a lot

Originally posted by: _charu_

It did make sense dear..I am not saying raavi is wrong..I am saying she needs to understand some basic facts..that mami wont change , she will continue to hurt pandya family ..that Shiva too won't change from a tiger to rat in one day...

Just as it's the responsibility of the husband to mend bridges between his wife and family, similarly its the responsibility of the wife to mend bridges between her maika and her husband/sasural...Instead of asking Shiva to respect mami, she could reinforce that she knows mami is wrong and she won't let her interfere in their family matters , that Shiva must trust her on this...

Raavi wasn't shown much but she used to laugh on shivas antics which he tried on mami..like.those marbles..she was always pro pandya family than pro mami...but Shiva took out mamis anger on her. I am aware...he always saw mami and raavi as a team that's why he was so much against raavi and dev rishta...he takes it upon himself, to protect pandya family from mami..so raavi's role here is imp than Shiva..

I hope I made sense 😆

Yes yes you totally do . But I feel both Shiva and Raavi are flawed .The asking for respect was just spur of the moment thing is what I feel . Somehow I think she was asking for respect for herself then mami the way she yelled at mami and suman felt it was for her .because Raavis immediate next statement was about where do I fit in between your fights . Where was I wrong ?

Mami is downright evil and am not defending her in any sort of way . However Raavi is a character who has been forgiving always may it be the family who cheated her , caused her to take decision of suicide or Mami for her misdeeds .

I somehow have a soft corner for her , I don't expect her to make all right decisions and question things correctly . She made the biggest stupidity of falling for dev so smartness is definitely not expected .

About name calling defending she did try defending shiva but he just yelled at her and told her to shut it . She did try and has been trying .

The curve her role will take is something I am waiting to see . Her role changing she being more pro shiva then pro mami . But the writers are trying to show that raavi trusts shiva now but accepting him as her husband is still a little dicy . Just my understanding 🙈

I love Shivi 💓 and I hope their journey is showed in the right manner . It's too difficult to judge based on one episode until it's as extreme as the danda maaro scene😛

At the end of the day we all know raavi is naive and dumb🤣 Gadhedi jo tairi . Bechari anita di pe barosa karne ki saza milne waali usse kal ya parso based on precap .

Originally posted by: luvshivika

I have one question does Raavi know of all the things mamis done ? Meaning about the mortgage , father dying ? I mean do the the kids at that time shiva , dev , Krish know mami did this ? I can't really remember the episodes .They disclosed the kangan story via Suman but leaving Gombi on altar aside does she know her maasimas evil deeds . If so I do feel for raavi she keeps telling of mami about anita doing wrong by listening to you but the rest of the things does she know ? Even shiva mentioned only her separating her brother from Suman .As much as I remember only dhara Suman Gombi had gone to mamis place for confrontation aside . .

I recently watched old episodes so i remember when suman dhara n gautam went to confront mama mami Ravi was ryt there listening each n every thing ..even though she was a child but was old enough to understand everything .she even got water for suman when her tabiyat got garbar while scolding mama .

Ravi knows everything she was just hopeless romantic person and was blinded by Dev's love.

But now I feel she loves pandya family more than dev . Because she didn't got dev still she is not leaving the pandya family and love them unconditionally.