Suman throwing the money at Rishita - Page 2

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

Exactly throwing money was too much and that time being stopped actually cleared all the guesses that it is no longer the show which we said is cliche but different.

No difference and instead of correcting 1 wrong they make others do a bigger wrong.

trp girao, bring it back to 11 pm😭

Originally posted by: hedwig_potter

See like we saw Rishita was already shocked when Suman asked Gaumbi for money

The message was already loud and clear, Suman had put her in place (usually don't like such scenes but can't help it in this case)

If Suman had forcefully kept the money in Rishita's scene, it would have been just as impactful without unnecessary disrespect🤔

Why are they so hell bent on butchering the characters?😒

I thought Rishita deserved every bit she got from Suman except the money part because she is the root cause of all the problems. She is saying, nobody is ready to accept her but how much effort did she put. Raavi has always been nice to her but she humiliated her. Krish did kaand, got punished, apologized and hugged too but she was rude to him. For her it’s always her way or the high way😕 I was happy that she was the first one to get ot before Dhara, who is next in line.
Rishita has this sende of entitlement and the way sge smirked when Dhara was getting berated by Suman abd today when Raavi dropped the chain😕 That shows how insecure, jealous and disrespectful she is.

With Suman, I thought she was in character all the time, like you said, the only thing I did not like was throwing the money at her.

Money throwing part was unnecessary. Suman should have given it in Dev's hand- would have passed on the message that: better act up. Family cannot keep giving & forgetting as if it is one way street. Where They keep doing kaand & rest of the family takes it up.

Dev has not said a word about his dumb muteness at every step of the way, right from icecreaming with Raavi. Infact, why Suman hasn't taken his class yet? Or she feels He is trapped by Rishita? Whatever, alongwith Rishita- Dev needs major Suman satsang.

Rest what Rishita got from Suman was all ok- as Rishita has been selfishly insecure & many times nasty with all.

Even if she is right at points- Her approach is verbal diarrhea. and that doesn't work. She was emboldened by Gaumbi's genuine words & Dhara's partiality.

Found comment on her family bit offensive too, but then She hasn't spared anyone in this family. So balances out.

ever heard of the saying "laaton ke bhoot baaton se nahi maante"? that is what rishita is. it was little dramatic that suman threw money at rishita but i am not going to sit here and argue in rishita's favor and treat her like a bechaari because she is not. rishita doesnt understand anything by words. she needs a suman in her life to bring her on right path. frankly speaking, i am done with people arguing that that is just her insecurities and what not. what insecurities does she have? she has a sense of entitlement and ego which are very different than insecurity. she doesnt even know or care to know what requires to earn someone's love and respect and you expect me to believe that she is insecure about her place in the family when she clearly doesnt care about the rest of family? if she could, she would totally persuade dev to go away and live separately. that is how much she cares about rest of the family. i am not saying living separately means someone doesnt love their family but here in rishita's case that is the case. rishita is busy comparing herself to raavi even after knowing how connected raavi is to the pandya family. people are blaming gautam for not noticing the difference in gifts. seriously? since when does the monetary value of gifts started to matter over the sentiment behind the gift? even if hers was little bit less, how does it matter? after all these kaands and constant disrespect, she still got a gift and that too without putting any effort from her side in accepting the family. moreover she is not upset over gift itself. her issue is that she got 2gm less than raavi so for her clearly the monetary value matters more. being content in what you have is a foreign concept and she doesnt want peace in this family and that is clear with the way she was smirking when dhara was being berated. so instead of being dhara and constantly covering her disrespectful behavior and blunders under the garb of insecurities, try calling her out on her behavior because she is not a child. she is an adult who has never bothered about anyone but herself and refuses to see her own flaws. she wants love and acceptance without doing it as she doesnt understand that love and respect are earned. they are not some property or possession which can be passed around lightly. what happened with her today is the language she understands because she just wants to find a single flaw and make a mountain of it and create tamasha. well suman gave her loads and bundles of drama.

I loved the scene otherwise but I agree suman could have avoided throwing the money

She could either have forced rishita or Dev to come and take it from her, or just put it on a side table or something and ask one of DevTa to pick it up with some strong, sassy dialogue.. would have been equally or more impactful

See..money throwing at rishita was humiliation of the next level. This was after she finished her regular whining session .so I will give it a pass..it wasn't as offensive to me as dharas danda session . She didn't handover the gift personally so that means she is pissed with rishita pehle se...we need to accept that suman is not a mother to her bahus and won't be. She is the mil. And she will always be like this..

The message was clear. No rights without fulfilling the responsibilities. Suman reminded her this. Rishita didn't think how to earn everybody's respect , she wants everything by default and better than the rest. She needs to be explained that like money , respect and love are also earned ..other than this, suman said the right things.. rishita does act like she has come from.bhooka nanga family 🤣

Plus , from this scene , I cud imagine how imp family is to suman. "Meri saansein chal rahi hain matlab mera parivar saath hai" ...means dhara ki toh solid band bajegi if suman knows that she separated the kitchens.

Keeping this issue aside , if rishita truly wanted respect , she should have requested suman to hand over the shagun ke aap mujhe pyar se do toh main loongi , not take it excitingly from gombi. That shows she cared for the gift / gold more than their feelings

Originally posted by: john909

ever heard of the saying "laaton ke bhoot baaton se nahi maante"? that is what rishita is. it was little dramatic that suman threw money at rishita but i am not going to sit here and argue in rishita's favor and treat her like a bechaari because she is not. rishita doesnt understand anything by words. she needs a suman in her life to bring her on right path. frankly speaking, i am done with people arguing that that is just her insecurities and what not. what insecurities does she have? she has a sense of entitlement and ego which are very different than insecurity. she doesnt even know or care to know what requires to earn someone's love and respect and you expect me to believe that she is insecure about her place in the family when she clearly doesnt care about the rest of family? if she could, she would totally persuade dev to go away and live separately. that is how much she cares about rest of the family. i am not saying living separately means someone doesnt love their family but here in rishita's case that is the case. rishita is busy comparing herself to raavi even after knowing how connected raavi is to the pandya family. people are blaming gautam for not noticing the difference in gifts. seriously? since when does the monetary value of gifts started to matter over the sentiment behind the gift? even if hers was little bit less, how does it matter? after all these kaands and constant disrespect, she still got a gift and that too without putting any effort from her side in accepting the family. moreover she is not upset over gift itself. her issue is that she got 2gm less than raavi so for her clearly the monetary value matters more. being content in what you have is a foreign concept and she doesnt want peace in this family and that is clear with the way she was smirking when dhara was being berated. so instead of being dhara and constantly covering her disrespectful behavior and blunders under the garb of insecurities, try calling her out on her behavior because she is not a child. she is an adult who has never bothered about anyone but herself and refuses to see her own flaws. she wants love and acceptance without doing it as she doesnt understand that love and respect are earned. they are not some property or possession which can be passed around lightly. what happened with her today is the language she understands because she just wants to find a single flaw and make a mountain of it and create tamasha. well suman gave her loads and bundles of drama.

I wholeheartedly agree with you. Even if she is insecure it doesn't give her a right to treat people like sh*t. And I don't buy the blaming Gaumbi thing at all, nor do I believe that it was about the sentiments rather than money and comparison with Raavi. Rishita deserved every bit of what Suman did.

The only thing that did not sit well with me is throwing of the money. That's just plain disrespectful to yourself. Talking from a religious point of view, money is in a way, a form of prosperity hence a symbolism of Lakshmi. Any kind of paper, even money is a representation of knowledge, and in turn, the goddess of knowledge. Throwing the money is disrespect of God which is why it did not sit well with me.

Rest everything was well deserved and very much needed.

Originally posted by: hedwig_potter

I wholeheartedly agree with you. Even if she is insecure it doesn't give her a right to treat people like sh*t. And I don't buy the blaming Gaumbi thing at all, nor do I believe that it was about the sentiments rather than money and comparison with Raavi. Rishita deserved every bit of what Suman did.

The only thing that did not sit well with me is throwing of the money. That's just plain disrespectful to yourself. Talking from a religious point of view, money is in a way, a form of prosperity hence a symbolism of Lakshmi. Any kind of paper, even money is a representation of knowledge, and in turn, the goddess of knowledge. Throwing the money is disrespect of God which is why it did not sit well with me.

Rest everything was well deserved and very much needed.

I dont think people who are in the moment and are angry/frustrated by something gives that a thought. suman being suman doesnt believe in pulling back her punches when she is expressing herself. rishita's tamasha got on her nerves and she was angry for her kids. i am not justifying the money throwing incident, but i do understand why it happened. moreover, it was not suman's intention to insult lakshmi or saraswati. so i would call it an unintentional mistake from a religious pov.

Originally posted by: mpks1

I absolutely did not like that part as well and realize that it was done to create drama and effect, which was totally unnecessary😕 Also the freeze frames with jarring BG music, thought PS would not fall into the rut, apparently they did😆 I want to know which TRP audience like such scenes and the Nation wants to know too😆

The writers of this show have overlooked many things and when they can trivialize something as big as physical abuse, this is nothing for them, but it is disappointing.

Other than the money throwing part, liked the scene😃

Bold Aunties like Suman 😆