Education and love - Page 3

Originally posted by: CarpediemRose

This post is really thought provoking, I liked to comment on this because this strikes me really hard when I watch out this show.

When it comes to education, it is worthy indeed, but the tenacity of education is only measured by how much it shapes us a person, moulds are behaviour, our thoughts, our intentions, even our choices too.
And in the subject of love if education really has to intervene it can work wonders herein but it solely depends on the person alone.
Shiva is a determined, hard working man who wants his family happy and toils hard to ensure their faces are always lit with a smile. If the sole purpose of Education is to feed our stomach and make ourselves a better person, then in my point Shiva is already one.
He has imbibed that from growing up in a family, gathering experience of life from a very tender age, dedicating himself to the family’s needs, he is more rational and discerned than any other person.
Today Shiva works for the Pandya store, he is thoroughly self sacrificing and has laid forward a path to the upliftment of his family, to the education of his brothers so and so forth.
According to me love is trust, selfless, devoting, care, oneness, eternal promise of togetherness, each of these facets could be scrupulously found in Shiva the lover of his family.
And without any doubt, he becomes the most eligible person in the love to win the war of love at any cost.

Jen

@bold Thank you😃

Beautiful thoughts explained in beautiful words!!❤️

Lovely post, perfect answer to my question.👍🏼🤗

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Another point to be noted is that just because one isn't as educated now is going to last a lifetime. There is no time limit on education.

My husband and I are both educated but after marriage, we have taken turns to study further. We are in two very different fields.

Shiva could do that now, nothing would stop him. He would just need support.

Precisely. And if the theory that Shiva started slacking off so Dev and Krish could have a better chance at education, or if it was solely because of all the bullying he was facing, then honestly my heart goes out for him. I understand he did whatever was under his control and whatever he felt was right, but he can't keep his family and himself happy by not letting himself grow.

You aren't being insensitive. I feel the same way about Raavi. How can a girl build her whole life around a boy?!! It's baffling. There is more to life! She is more educated (formal education) but she's not smart. When I call her an airhead, it's not a compliment 😆

Ikr!!😆😆

Look at DevTa, educated but don't have basic human decency! I honestly don't think education should determine if a person deserves love.

Excellent example! Dev and Rishita, equally educated people who supposedly love and respect each other, and Rishita who never fails to mention how much she has fought for her love, yet so insecure about her relationship.

Even now, Raavi is all about herself. I get it she is heart-broken because of her unhealthy obsession and I sympathize a bit too but why her only? Do you know what I mean? I mean doesn't Shiva, deserve love too. Is she going to be honest and love him? Like always, her behaviour is of entitlement.

Your last point! I can't tell you how much I agree with it. I get that she is heartbroken right now, hence, if she were to ask Shiva for sometime before she is ready to give this marriage an honest chance would be totally totally understandable. Her misunderstanding that Shiva left her alone to fend off for herself is also, to an extent, understandable.

But accusing that he married her for revenge? Not something I can understand. I could understand she might not have processed everything on the same day of marriage, but after they have come on a vacation together, sometime has passed, she has spent time with him. Enough time to absorb his recent change in behavior, yet she feels the same? That he is her enemy? Its not a small thing, she might regret saying all of this in future.

If her observation skills, empathy for others, and resilience is so low, then I don't know what to say, especially considering she lost her parents at such a young age. Someone can be bubbly and mature at the same time, can't they? And someone's heartbreak and trauma cannot be an excuse for them mistreating anyone.

what ever she says its her mossi s upbringing , rest the education some people think the education is counting the classes is they dont even know what is the meaning of the education same goes for rashita.

Originally posted by: kooki07

what ever she says its her mossi s upbringing , rest the education some people think the education is counting the classes is they dont even know what is the meaning of the education same goes for rashita.

@bold forgot to consider that factor, makes sense.