AgreeThey brought the kids up. 10 years is plenty of time to inculcate healthy conflict resolution into your family regardless of how different the three brothers are. My problem is that they just don't want that happening in fears of the family coming undone, which is stupid. Even now, whenever Shiva broaches the elephant in the room all they do is shut him down. He might be stating stuff in angry outbursts, but letting it out and hearing the other party's side and burying the hatchet once and for all is better than "hug karo, bhool jao" any day, especially now that they're all adults and married.
Humsa temporary solution kaam nahi aata ye baat woh log ko samajaye kaun.... 😓