So, here are my thoughts about the episode (and yes, it is a good episode)...
I'm beginning to think if Kanwar doesn't spoil us, it wouldn't be an episode filled with romance, and after our speculation about the bed wars, a little part of me thought the romance might be too soon or far fetched. Remember, Shiva and Raavi have only been married for about 2-3 days now, so despite knowing each other for their whole lives, they've entered a new relationship that just expects differently of them. Plus, as of now, none of their misunderstandings (mostly Raavi's MU of Shiva) are cleared. So until then, fanfiction is the best way to go.
Now coming to Raavi, since we're probably going to be debating about Raavi's behavior (was it good/bad/ugly?) for the rest of the night. I agree, her behavior during the pooja was uncalled for. She should've reserved her hate/reservations for Shiva after the pooja, especially since it is not just them doing the pooja but also the other couples. Plus, Suman sent them out there to do the pooja for a purpose. So, despite her inhibitions, she should've just quietly sat down and recited the lines as best she could.
On the flip side, knowing Raavi's character, her actions make a lot of sense. She's a kid at heart. I'll stay by the words I've said before. Raavi, despite the traumatizing wedding, never had the chance to mature and grow up. She sees the world at the surface level. From the way Shiva grabs her, yells at her, "leaves" her alone to be with the goons. She hasn't thought about the reasons why Shiva does all of this. Partly due to the trauma of her wedding, partly due to her innocence, and partly due to not rightfully questioning Shiva to speak up. Just like it's hard to tell the truth, it's also hard to ask for the truth.
If you take what happened during the morning, the sindhoor scene, it almost kind of foreshadowed her behavior at the pooja. I don't know how you guys interpreted the scene, but I saw it almost as a scene of heart break for Raavi. Raavi wanted Shiva to step aside so she could apply the sindhoor to her forehead herself, but Shiva didn't give her the space or time. He just grabbed it and applied it for her, and I think a little part of her broke right then and there. The sindhoor reminded her of her relationship and (who knows if I am reading too much into the scene) it reminded her that Shiva has the power in the relationship.
Just wanted to end the post by saying, yes, I am disappointed by her behavior. I have always thought speaking your mind is a good thing. But there is a time and place for everything. She was wrong to do it during the pooja, and that is why even Gaumbi was disappointed in her. She is not just Shiva Pandya's wife. She is a Pandya bahu who needs to respect and care for the rest of the family. And in her childish outburst, she forgot about that. Only focused primarily on her husband.
Coming to the future episodes, I think it'll take a lot more for Raavi and Shiva to open up with each other. These two are what? 20 and 21 respectively? Don't know about you guys, but if I married at that age, I would be clueless too, and I think that is what is trying to be portrayed on the screen. These two are young, thrown into an unfamiliar situation. Both of them are still children at heart, but with the people around them, they will mature into proper adults.