Qarz E Jaan (HUM) #3 - Usama Khan, Nameer Khan, Yumna Zaidi - Page 128

Originally posted by: WabalMunni

I think in any case Burhan should have talked to Nashwa first and then later on Faryal or Qudsia could be involved. But directly going to Faryal without even talking to Nashwa or Bisma about it is insensitive I think.

Maybe Bisma/Nashwa have other plans for their life, who knows. Burhan at least doesn't know what is going on with Bisma/Nashwa or what have they planned for themselves. So instead of spreading his one sided idea around (dunya main baat phailanay kai bajaye) he should have talked to Nashwa first and of course Bisma through Nashwa.

They are talking about Bisma's marriage and who is closer to Bisma than Nashwa, if Bisma can not be taken into confidence about it then Nashwas should have been consulted. It is like same as before where others decided about Bisma's life making Bisma a third party to her own fate.

I am sure Nashwa would have got angry even if he would have consulted her first and later involved Faryal. At that time she would have pounced at him ,why did you involve a 3rd person. Burhan has seen how Bisma and Nashwa are treated in Barkhat Villa during the marriage. He has understood that he needs a strong person to help in this mission.

I think She was very rude. But yes maybe Burhan could have told both of them together.

Originally posted by: pilot100

I am sure Nashwa would have got angry even if he would have consulted her first a day involved Faryal later. At that time she would have pounced at him why did you involve a 3rd person.

She was very rude. But yes maybe Burhan could have told both of them together.

Well then again that is fine. If Nashwa does not want to involve a third party in this matter then that is also fine.Maybe yes because of jealousy or maybe because she doesn’t trust Faryal ir anyone else. But at the end it is Nashwa's choice. Burhan could have then later convinced her that why Qudsia or Faryal should be involved. See Nashwa herself wanted to do the same right.. but look at the way she went about it. She talked to her Nani to understand what happened. Hinted towards her plans and then kept quiet biding her time. She didn't spread the word around. I think Burgan messed up here.. maybe he still doesn’t fully understand the situation in which Bisma and Nashwa live.

I think he was wise to choose a mediator than approach N directly and proposing marriage between A and B . She would have gone ballastic .

But I get ur point , she and her mom always have been for each other and suddenly hearing strangers discussing her mom marriage must have triggered her .

Originally posted by: Winterberry

Didn’t u feel N was harsh with B ? He was only discussing the idea with F . Yes he should have approached N first and ask what she thinks and how her mom would react, but he was only speaking with F didn’t reach her house for rishta also the part where she says you don’t have any relation with Asim sounded insensitive .

let’s look at whole picture N and her mom have much say in house , the power imbalance is clear and wedding established enuf that Fariyal mom has more power though Bharkat and bhaktiyar are decision makers but Quidsa is more formidable ally if he has to make a move.

Exactly she was very very rude. And she should not have said, that since you are adopted, you have no relationship with Asim. It's not like he had Aldready executed the plan. It was a matter of only 3 hrs. That is why he called her immediately. Didn't Nashwa also want the same thing. Even she discussed first with her Nani. Burhan has seen how Nashwa and Bisma are treated in Barkhat Villa . He definitely needed someone strong like Faryal to help him in this mission. He only had good intentions. Look Faryal gave back Bakhtiyar and Dadi. He has judged, he needs her help. And frankly Faryal is also family. Everyone knows about Asim and Bisma story.

I am sure Nashwa would have blasted him.even if he would have involved Faryal later. At that time also she would have said why did you involve a 3rd person.

Dont understand why Nashu is so angry

Unpopular opinion, but I am just loving Usamas portrayal in QEJ. It's very unfair to compare him with SMD. Its not his fault, that his role in SMD is highly toxic. Added to that, the depressing slow motion with constant crying, is spoiling it further. He is Just enacting his part. Both the roles are poles apart.

He indeed gives the intellectual Barrister vibes. And he really looks Handsome. Don't find anything wrong with his pronunciation and dialogue delivery too. I don't even use Subtitles.

Originally posted by: Winterberry

Didn’t u feel N was harsh with B ? He was only discussing the idea with F . Yes he should have approached N first and ask what she thinks and how her mom would react, but he was only speaking with F didn’t reach her house for rishta also the part where she says you don’t have any relation with Asim sounded insensitive .

let’s look at whole picture N and her mom have much say in house , the power imbalance is clear and wedding established enuf that Fariyal mom has more power though Bharkat and bhaktiyar are decision makers but Quidsa is more formidable ally if he has to make a move.

Nashwa's response was totally justified because she is too sensitive about her mother. Burhan should have talked to Nashwa first before sharing this plan with Faryal.

Originally posted by: Sanskruthi

Best actor in negative role yaar.... Hoti hogi na?

Don't worry we already have given him title of" best villain "

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Baaki sab toh theek hai but I really cannot understand what is nashwa's problem..she is well aware of ammar and his ghatiyapanti supposedly hates him but phir bhi aage se jaa jaa ke takes pange with hin unlgi karti hai where there is no business of her ..she seeks his attention and seh nahi paati ammar kot giving her bhaav and all thag supposed banter feels rather psycho and attention seeking if u know someone is that problematic just stay in your own lane na why u have to have any kind if interaction esp when he doesn't give any bhaav to this Nashua.. it is always her tadooing him.her getting in his wah and mostly being forced .it is always initiated from her to get some.kind of reaction..e.g today why does it matter to her what he is talking to faryal..first he wasn't harassing her and second unke rishte ki baat chal rahi hai he knows it and uske baad faryal knows how to handle and answer back..isko kisne appointment kia hai security guard..it was rather hilarious ke she says one should mind own business and not talk to irrelevant people yet she is the one always trying to nikalo kuch bhi from ammar by this logic he is irrelevant to her koi dosti ya bhaichara ya noble thoughts toh hai nahi phir kyon..it is such a fail IMO

I can understand you POV. But we have to understand from Nashwa's POV as well. She has spent her whole childhood with him. They have brought up togather. Its common cousin's behavior.

From episode 1 makers have shown this side of Nashwa towards Ammar. Even when Ammar was sitting alone in lawn area She came and just taunted him of using cigeratte even Ammar talked to her.

Originally posted by: pilot100

I am sure Nashwa would have got angry even if he would have consulted her first and later involved Faryal. At that time she would have pounced at him ,why did you involve a 3rd person. Burhan has seen how Bisma and Nashwa are treated in Barkhat Villa during the marriage. He has understood that he needs a strong person to help in this mission.

I think She was very rude. But yes maybe Burhan could have told both of them together.

Thinking from nashwa's pov, her outburst is valid.

Nashwa is extremely protective towards her mother. And her mother's marriage is very sensitive matter. But burhan and faryal treated it as some random case.

The way they both approached nashwa also wrong. Nashwa was on her leave, burhan called her by lying she should come to office because she gonna have her first case, first case is very big thing for anyone. So imagine how hopeful and tensed she might have been feeling throughout the journey to the office.

But what she faced is faryal ( a third person to both bisma and burhan's father) telling "we" decided to marry your mother and burhan's father. It was not opinion , she was stating their decision. That tone was condensing. First of all who are they (especially faryal) to decide anything about her mother. And not just that nashwa got to know about burhan being adopted son after faryal. She was made to feel she knew nothing about the man with whose father her mother is linked. That's why she says who are you to him.

That line you are not his real son is rude. Yes But she deliberately said it to hurt him because of the way he unintentionally made her feel insignificant.

If anything only nashwa and burhan have rights to discuss about their parents marriage. So burhan discussing it with faryal and involving her first instead of nashwa in her own mother's matter is unacceptable.

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

Thinking from nashwa's pov, her outburst is valid.

Nashwa is extremely protective towards her mother. And her mother's marriage is very sensitive matter. But burhan and faryal treated it as some random case.

The way they both approached nashwa also wrong. Nashwa was on her leave, burhan called her by lying she should come to office because she gonna have her first case, first case is very big thing for anyone. So imagine how hopeful and tensed she might have been feeling throughout the journey to the office.

But what she faced is faryal ( a third person to both bisma and burhan's father) telling "we" decided to marry your mother and burhan's father. It was not opinion , she was stating their decision. That tone was condensing. First of all who are they (especially faryal) to decide anything about her mother. And not just that nashwa got to know about burhan being adopted son after faryal. She was made to feel she knew nothing about the man with whose father her mother is linked. That's why she says who are you to him.

That line you are not his real son is rude. Yes But she deliberately said it to hurt him because of the way he unintentionally made her feel insignificant.

If anything only nashwa and burhan have rights to discuss about their parents marriage. So burhan discussing it with faryal and involving her first instead of nashwa in her own mother's matter is unacceptable.

I don't think Burhan knows the extent of possessiveness Nashwa holds for her mother I give him that benefit of doubt.

And no I don't think it was a random decision for him. He has always been trying to convince Asim to marry Bisma. Infant he bought that house stupidly paying such a heavy price just to reunite Asim and Bisma.

And it's not like he had Aldready started executing the plan. It was just a gap of 3 to 4 hrs. He called her specifically to the office. How does it matter whoever knows first that he is adopted. The question is not about his adoption, the matter is about Bisma and Asim.

Also Nashwa has to think about her behavior too. Look how faryal in 1 week has become so close to Burhan. Because she gives him that warmth and a confidence of a true friend. Nashwa is too professional and has kept her distance with him. She is not approachable. Maybe that's why he needed Faryal help to act as a mediator to convince Nashwa too. He was not sure about Nashwa reaction too.

Originally posted by: pilot100

I don't think Burhan knows the extent of possessiveness Nashwa holds for her mother I give him that benefit of doubt.

And no I don't think it was a random decision for him. He has always been trying to convince Asim to marry Bisma. Infant he bought that house stupidly paying such a heavy price just to reunite Asim and Bisma.

And it's not like he had Aldready started executing the plan. It was just a gap of 3 to 4 hrs. He called her specifically to the office. How does it matter whoever knows first that he is adopted. The question is not about his adoption, the matter is about Bisma and Asim.

Also Nashwa has to think about her behavior too. Look how faryal in 1 week has become so close to Burhan. Because she gives him that warmth and a confidence of a true friend. Nashwa is too professional and has kept her distance with him. She is not approachable. Maybe that's why he needed Faryal help to act as a mediator to convince Nashwa too. He was not sure about Nashwa reaction too.

Burhan's intentions is not wrong but his approach is.

He doesn't need to be known about nashwa and her mother's bond to think that he should discuss with nashwa first who is bisma's daughter not faryal who is no where related to his father or nashwa's mother.

It's not about how many hours passed. It's the fact that he didn't think of discussing such sensitive matter about her mother to her first.

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Look at their tone and body language. The way they informed "their decision" about her own mother to her. It didn't look they are trying to convince her, they are telling their decision about her mother.

Nashwa is intern to burhan. He is her senior. So she can't act friendly with him like faryal. That would be unprofessional. She doesn't need to act friendly or approachable for burhan to discuss her own mother with her first.