Aik Sitam Aur(Thread 4) Usama Khan, Anmol Baloch (ARY) - Page 18

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

some other observations -- so my online kdrama forum friends usually laugh at me because I pay a lot of attention to decor. usually those are the first things I notice even more the characters. 🤣 here, the cushions and the two ceramic pots immediately jump out at me. 😂

but back to these two, the cushions and pots give me a sense of physical distance. now, maybe she can't necessarily sit on the other side of the sofa because the camera would have to pan too far. but usually in these interviews, the folks will sit on two ends of the sofa. here, she is choosing to sit towards the right and so there is a bit of distance but not that much. so close enough to swat his arm and touch him. his body angle is interesting. you never get the sense that he is turned away from her. yes, he is sitting straight and facing the camera. but at the same time, the body language is so relaxed that you feel they are comfortable and turned towards each other.

Omg you are so spot on. The distance thing even i noticed. She could have seated on the end of sofa but she chose to sit away from it. She was constantly patting him ☺️ Damn., about him i did not get much but after you described, i got it. Please keep them.coming before we get to know he and Zainab getting married, we can have fun with these observations 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Originally posted by: spnfan

We used to ship ek duje ke vaaste leads in the forum just like usmol. But nothing happened there😆

Suman and Shravan 💔 in season 1.

I was totally heartbroken with abrupt ending.

I wish they complete the season with Namik-Nikita. I don't know what exactly was that season 2 with unnecessary army background and actors without acting skill.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

yea, as long as it is harmless, it is fun. I do think it crosses limits when they tag actors and unnecessarily harass other costars. as a fan, you don't own the actor and neither are they obligated to fill you in. at the end of the day, their job is to entertain you. thats it.

for me, as long as you are like those aunties who giggle and tease you about a good match, then ship away. but if you are like those insistent matchmaker aunties who want to rule your life, stupid fandom!

I have heard sajal-ahad fans used to hate on every other costar of ahad. That's too much.

I agree with you. All those harmless shipping also makes me more invested in the show as well.

Originally posted by: spnfan

She had to change her tweets supporting Sana as well. Also somethinghaute didn't put much post regarding all those allegations.

Oh , i did know..well they are biased towards top stars . Azekah also posted against Sana in a comment during Dunk shoot, and Amna sided with Sana. I did not like that. She keeps on praising certain . Despite, she praises my favouritea, too constantly like Zahid , Bilal and Wahaj but still i do have issuea with her view points.

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake

Suman and Shravan 💔 in season 1.

I was totally heartbroken with abrupt ending.

I wish they complete the season with Namik-Nikita. I don't know what exactly was that season 2 with unnecessary army background and actors without acting skill.

Yes... Namik and Nikita used to make a wonderful couple. I liked them offscreen as well. They both came off as well educated and level headed. I think with the abrupt ending they also kind of had a fiction but none of them said anything bad about the other and then during edkv anniversary they posted a pic together.

I didn't even bother to look at the trailer of edkv2.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

yea, as long as it is harmless, it is fun. I do think it crosses limits when they tag actors and unnecessarily harass other costars. as a fan, you don't own the actor and neither are they obligated to fill you in. at the end of the day, their job is to entertain you. thats it.

for me, as long as you are like those aunties who giggle and tease you about a good match, then ship away. but if you are like those insistent matchmaker aunties who want to rule your life, stupid fandom!

This!!

I remember how toxic fans bash the wives of male actors and vice versaa. And because of this even harmless shippings get bashed. Alao, it is so wrong to tag actors and bashing them to get married to their favourites 😳

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

Wow 😂😂

Bold: Same, i stay away from toxic shipping. I do it just for fun esp till the time their show is on air , after that i hardly care 😂😂

I would love to hear more observations lol. I love reading them 😂😂 in my last fandom, there were people who used to do this 😂😂

kekeke... some observations:

someone told me this when I first started shipping and I was surprised by how on point she was. no ships are alike and no shipping community will have the same experience. that is actually true.

1. when people ship, it is because they either idenity with:

a. one of the actors rather strongly (maybe it is their personality or the way they look)

b. the character in the drama or something about the story itself

c. the pairing and what it represents

d. you are just a romantic aunty at heart that wants to matchmake!

2. so yes, maybe you see a spark that is interesting and maybe others don't. however, the reasons one ship appeals to you and another doesn't actually speaks more about you as a person and your own romantic aspirations. for example if people find a couple playful, then in real life, the fans might be in a relationship like that or that is what they hope to get as a partner.

3. fan wars reflect personal insecurities -- continuing from the previous example fans who enjoy such playful banter might find quieter couples boring. then you have both ships fighting which is stupid. what they are actually fighting is about their romantic preference. those who like quiet romance feel hurt that people might not find it romantic. does it really matter what others think of your romantic expression style? no it does not. instead, just better to realize that no couples will be alike and each couple will have something that is unique to them.

4. shipping is often an extension of romantic hope. that is why it makes people happy for some reason. I think it is fine as long as it is harmless. 😆

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

Oh , i did know..well they are biased towards top stars . Azekah also posted against Sana in a comment during Dunk shoot, and Amna sided with Sana. I did not like that. She keeps on praising certain . Despite, she praises my favouritea, too constantly like Zahid , Bilal and Wahaj but still i do have issuea with her view points.

I remember azekah shading on Sana but at that time nobody cared much. Then after all those makeup artists came out Sonia mishal(i think that's her name) also came out and said how bad her attitude was on set.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

kekeke... some observations:

someone told me this when I first started shipping and I was surprised by how on point she was. no ships are alike and no shipping community will have the same experience. that is actually true.

1. when people ship, it is because they either idenity with:

a. one of the actors rather strongly (maybe it is their personality or the way they look)

b. the character in the drama or something about the story itself

c. the pairing and what it represents

d. you are just a romantic aunty at heart that wants to matchmake!

2. so yes, maybe you see a spark that is interesting and maybe others don't. however, the reasons one ship appeals to you and another doesn't actually speaks more about you as a person and your own romantic aspirations. for example if people find a couple playful, then in real life, the fans might be in a relationship like that or that is what they hope to get as a partner.

3. fan wars reflect personal insecurities -- continuing from the previous example fans who enjoy such playful banter might find quieter couples boring. then you have both ships fighting which is stupid. what they are actually fighting is about their romantic preference. those who like quiet romance feel hurt that people might not find it romantic. does it really matter what others think of your romantic expression style? no it does not. instead, just better to realize that no couples will be alike and each couple will have something that is unique to them.

4. shipping is often an extension of romantic hope. that is why it makes people happy for some reason. I think it is fine as long as it is harmless. 😆

I think in itv it's the way they behave offscreen for me.

I was a crazy fan of kaisi yeh yaariya and loved the leads but never ever shipped them offscreen. They didn't get along offscreen and their IVs together were a pain to watch 😆.

Then in ek duje ke vaaste, the leads were really comfortable with eachother and namik used to praise Nikita very often and used to post pics with each other often. So i loved shipping them on india forums. We used to have so much fun with our shipping talks.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

kekeke... some observations:

someone told me this when I first started shipping and I was surprised by how on point she was. no ships are alike and no shipping community will have the same experience. that is actually true.

1. when people ship, it is because they either idenity with:

a. one of the actors rather strongly (maybe it is their personality or the way they look)

b. the character in the drama or something about the story itself

c. the pairing and what it represents

d. you are just a romantic aunty at heart that wants to matchmake!

2. so yes, maybe you see a spark that is interesting and maybe others don't. however, the reasons one ship appeals to you and another doesn't actually speaks more about you as a person and your own romantic aspirations. for example if people find a couple playful, then in real life, the fans might be in a relationship like that or that is what they hope to get as a partner.

3. fan wars reflect personal insecurities -- continuing from the previous example fans who enjoy such playful banter might find quieter couples boring. then you have both ships fighting which is stupid. what they are actually fighting is about their romantic preference. those who like quiet romance feel hurt that people might not find it romantic. does it really matter what others think of your romantic expression style? no it does not. instead, just better to realize that no couples will be alike and each couple will have something that is unique to them.

4. shipping is often an extension of romantic hope. that is why it makes people happy for some reason. I think it is fine as long as it is harmless. 😆

Whoa, this is so interesting !! I always thought i did shipping only because i loved them as characters and then actors and two of my favourites coming together for life lol 😂😂 stupid😂😂

But yeah, not gonna lie, i enjoy offscreen shipping a lot of my favourite actors and i only do that till the time their show is on air. I mostly do this to time pass or to have some fun with my fandom mates esp when we are done discussing characters and nothing more is left to discuss 😂😂

But i dont get obsessed with offscreen . As it is not good for the actors, not for us. People get so much attached with a certain couple that they even ruin their mental health and even cross limits by hating on their partners . That is why i love India Forums. No tagging , we can have harmless fun😂😂