Originally posted by: Yeah
I realize that infidelity breaks homes...but then doesnt that go to show that relationship was just never meant to be...I believe in destiny...and if you are destined to be divorced/go through several partners before finding the rite one then that's how ur life was planned out for you...And its funny because I have seen relationships which after a case of infidelity have managed to survive...now whether that is due to sheer love or love for their kids I dunno...but they have...
Its mostly becuz of kids that those couples stay together, with each leading separate lives, bitterness and betrayal fresh in their minds. Or in other cases, the wife is such a doormat that she accepts that infidelity/abuse! OR... some women may even like their husband/lover that way. Makes them feel important in a twisted manner that other gals want their hubby! 😉
Take a look around you......US has a 50% divorce rate and in most cases its the husband that cheats. Infidelity isnt an obstacle.....its the death of a marriage/relationship. It is the death of an ill-fated relationship, a relationship which was never meant to be.
In real life thats what would happen to A-K....😆
That doesnt make his actions right or his sleeping around cute and hot!I don't understand one thing...did u ignore the laughing emoticon after I said that LOL...I guess expressions are never enough eh....and defenitely his actions were not right but HE was cute and very HOT! Angad no matter what he did...was still hot property.😳 And i'm not so shallow that I would choose a partner based on looks, neglecting their habits...but if those habits can be mended, then why not act on that hotness😆
IF those habits can be mended and hes never unfaithful after committing to you. But what if he still cheats after commitment? 😕
. Yeah but...I guess to an extent "you" whoever that you is at fault...as there is clearly something lacking in that relationship...there is a void the husband feels and which he is filling by bringing in those random girls...which again to an extent is the same void that Angad tried to fill why Kripa was not there..
Thats a terrible thing to say....blaming the woman for her husband's infidelity/disgusting behavior. This is exactly why women are still lower in position and accept all kinds of crap from their husbands. Because Society blames the woman for everything! And thats why many women put up with such disgusting behavior and remain silent victims. 😭
.In fact, it is unthinkable. Its only becuz we love A-K that we accepted all that crap. 😆 I don't think any of us accepted that "crap"...none of us have been able to accept him sleeping around with girls or Kripa sleeping with Prithvi (diff reason but still not able to accept it..for me at least)...
U r still equating Angad sleeping with random bimbos to K sleeping with her own husband ? UNBELIEVABLE!
.......infidelity/ unfaithfulness is the death of ILL-FATED relationships. Once trust is broken, it cant be mended. that's to extreme...It can defenitely be mended. The CHINK always remains, unless u get ur memory erased like in that movie "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind"😆. God is different....God is parental figure and parents forgive everything kids do. Well...parents don't always forgive their children...but Agreed that God does....but the fact remains that u need some kind of obstacles in ur life...whether they be emotional, mental, physical obstacles...to perfect the person u are .....yes, thats abt one's own self....one needs obstacles in life to emerge stronger, but not abt commitment and relationships where infidelity is concerned. We are not talking abt obstacles like ego clashes, fights, arguments, misbehavior here...all couples fight and argue, we are talking abt a very serious issue here, and that is betrayal of trust in a marriage/committed relationship. That is unforgivable!
may have gone slightly off topic...but I like my response😃