Originally posted by: Yeah
I think I had said that would make an interesting relationship...never said that's exactly how I want my life to be LOL...
and agreed trust is the basis of all relationships...never really denied that.... but in life...people who are strong are not those for whom life has been a bed of roses....but those who have constantly been faced with obstacles and challenges....similarly I guess there are different obstacles a relationship must face in order to prove it self and strengthen to stand the test of time....
I dont think infidelity is an issue which can be overcome that easily. I have seen real-life cases which have broken up marriages, relationships, and everybody has suffered, including the kids. I dont think u know wot u are saying. Take a look around you......US has a 50% divorce rate and in most cases its the husband that cheats. Infidelity isnt an obstacle.....its the death of a marriage/relationship.
Moreover, specifically with Angad and Kripa... everytime they finished fighting....each time they came out as a stronger couple...their love strengthened....they had developped more trust for each other... if they had not had those tests..faced those obstacles then their love would have never been as strong as it was by the end of the show....
I agree that was the main point of the show and the title: Kaisa yeh Pyar Hai....to prove love can withstand all betrayals. But its Ekta's show and they really made Angad's character go to depths of depravity. He became a rapist, woman-beater, womanizer, etc. He touched rock-bottom again before Kripa redeemed him again. 😆
That doesnt make his actions right or his sleeping around cute and hot!
And last...how do u realize ur love for God (if u are a theist)...when God sends you on earth to face LIFE....and why do we have 7 births....cuz each time we're basically purified...and come out as cleaner souls...only those who have emerged from such obstacles/challenges can tell you exactly what faith in God is....
Its very easy to talk, but impossible to implement in real life when ur husband is openly unfaithful to you, brings random gals into ur bedroom. In fact, it is unthinkable. Its only becuz we love A-K that we accepted all that crap. 😆
So basically you need unfaithfulness..or some kind of obstacle to an extent...to eventually yield a better relationship whether it is with another human or with God himself.
Again I say u dont know what u are talking about 😆.......infidelity/ unfaithfulness is the death of relationships. Once trust is broken, it cant be mended. God is different....God is parental figure and parents forgive everything kids do.
may have gone slightly off topic...but I like my response😃