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Posted: 10 years ago
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Going back to the title of the post, isn't it kind of obvious that Viraj will not call Kabir by his name due to his anger for him??
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Swetha-

@TM

Concur with ur post completely!

I think.. Viraj might do something to Nisha to show his possessiveness.. 😡🤢 and Nisha might not like it.. 😔 and this might becume a trigger.. to her recollecting her bad past..


I agree that Viraj might do stuff to always remind her of her first love, but I think Nisha is way past that trauma she had in her childhood...she has become a strong and mature women, who can and will handle herself...and even Kabir is an individual who will stand by her...cos he was the one who said to her, "yeh shaadi ka faisla hum dono ka hai, acha ho ya bura, saath milkar ladenge"...that assurance is much more stronger than Viraj's sunki-ness..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: I...

he is a mix of sunil shetty and srk in dhadkan and darr respectively 😆

his royal highness and his high handedness 😆


Not sure what kind of mix he will be...he has just started by stalking her...we still have to see to what lengths he will go to disturb her...which inadvertently will not bring her closer to him, rather push her towards Kabir...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: CrazyMe_04

Going back to the title of the post, isn't it kind of obvious that Viraj will not call Kabir by his name due to his anger for him??


Agreed...could not think of any better title for the post...but it is really annoying...why does he fool around with people's names??pehle Nisha ka sahi naam nahi bolta tha, ab Kabir ko naya naam de diya...😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramankatika

Viraj Sir...is going to give you the 'DARR' ride of a lifetime...


😊Thanks...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: I...

he is a mix of sunil shetty and srk in dhadkan and darr respectively 😆

his royal highness and his high handedness 😆

Exactly.
From the very first day when I saw him writing letters to his mom at night----------it reminded me -------Ki Ki ki KIRAN!😲😆
I don't know how Niraj fans started to believe that he was the hero!
Because I've never felt that.

I've liked Ritesh more than him. Because he came with an idiot smile.😆 With that the day Dolly got married and they were talking with Ritesh---------he was totally lost in Nisha's thought. Later he agreed to everything Nisha said. He was ready to cook , clean cloths even take care of babies. 😳 But yah later his true face came out. Although that was really shocking. Specially why did he chose Nisha , when he knows her father is very poor. So I'd accept that Ritesh's character was changed. But not Viraj's.

Viraj's every attempt was a proof that this guy is going to be psycho. Just like SRK in "Daar" or SS in "Dhadkan". A guy who lives alone, no friends -----------no family------in a pent house---------writes letter at night and never posts-----------it's completely creepy.

Thank God CVs got their sense back or may be this was the real plan.
Loving Kabir. Normal guy who can bring smile out of everyone.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I completely agree. I hate what they're doing to Viraj's character in order to justify Nibir.
The truth is that Viraj was instrumental in giving Nisha the tools necessary to heal from her experience. Before him, she couldn't even be touched by another person!

[note: I didn't watch those episodes so I'm not sure what exactly it was that specifically helped her. I did notice after the Viraj track that Nisha started wearing girl's clothes and was able to hug people, so his presence in her life must have done something. if anyone wants to fill me in, I'd appreciate it].

I would have much rather preferred Nisha to say something like "I will never forget what you have done for me, but I can't be with you romantically. Please try to understand"


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: IKEAwizard

I completely agree. I hate what they're doing to Viraj's character in order to justify Nibir.

The truth is that Viraj was instrumental in giving Nisha the tools necessary to heal from her experience. Before him, she couldn't even be touched by another person!

[note: I didn't watch those episodes so I'm not sure what exactly it was that specifically helped her. I did notice after the Viraj track that Nisha started wearing girl's clothes and was able to hug people, so his presence in her life must have done something. if anyone wants to fill me in, I'd appreciate it].

I would have much rather preferred Nisha to say something like "I will never forget what you have done for me, but I can't be with you romantically. Please try to understand"


Nisha's healing was started the day she told her story to everyone. And rescued Jwala from the same incident. This is what psychologists say. When you can tell about your sorrow---------you are 70%healed.


Viraj gave her more importance because once she rescued his sister/cousin Pryanka from an accident, where Pryanka was so drunk , she couldn't even walk or talk.

So Viraj needs to "thank" Nisha for this.

He gave her the job. So "thanks" part( which Nisha deserves) is over here.

Now Pryanka changed her mentality-------she doesn't want to be a shooter. But Viraj was such a stubborn big brother-------that he interfered in her personal life----------without knowing what happened to Pryanka's life in this 2years when he was in paralysis.
Since there was no way to convince her----------he used Nisha as a guard for this. Pryanka who was forced against her will by her mother and brother had to take part along with her friends in shooting. So she dumped all her anger on poor Nisha. She torn her trouser in front of all the men in field, pushed her , made fake mms with Saurav----------etc. As many insults she could do to Nisha.

What Viraj Sir did? He gave one punishment to Pryanka once. That's it. Which by the way Nisha forgave.

Later when he tried to touch Nisha , she reacted. He had no "love " feeling for Nisha. He was the boss. This is a duty of every good boss to check and make sure all his employees are mentally or physically well or not. So Viraj told Shekhar to help Nisha. Shekhar helped Nisha to recover from that through a hypnosis. So Viraj Sir has nothing to take credit on this. Besides that he didn't do this because he loves Nisha----------but because she was his employee. If employee is sick ----------boss will lose. We also take our servants to doctor-------------what does that mean? They will remain slave to us forever?


But the worst part was his being completely non-professional. According to the labor law or psychologist-patient privacy law-------------Nisha can even make a case against VSR. For breaking trust and using that in public. When Gaya made that publicity stunt in that PC------she was going to disclose this secret meeting between Shekhar-Nisha- Viraj to the press. Which by the way Viraj didn't stop. It is against law ----------She is his employee and that session was done under the act of employer-employee privacy rules.

And do you think Nisha should thank him for this? He should thank her for not making a case for breaking the privacy rule.
Not only that. Think about the humanity.
Why did Nisha became Arti? When ? The day when Gaya taunt him about his mother. She felt so sorry for him---------that she wrote a letter to him as Arti. She could taunt him , she could make stories like Gaya. But she maintained her humanity. Her anger didn't spoiled her humanity for him. Although she too was hurt. But she thought about Viraj's feelings for his mom.

Now Nisha was hurt too, why hurt she turned abnormal. She was scared of even white curtain...forget about woman's wear. What Viraj did in that press could kill her. Remember the day when Ritesh touched her( are you watching from those episodes or started to watch after Viraj's entry--------- if the second . You will not understand Nisha's behavior). Nisha almost fainted. Saurav was so worried seeing her like that---------he went there and had a fight with Ritesh. How she managed Viraj's silence/support on Gaya's taunt-----------proves what a strong girl she is.

I don't think Viraj's character is change. He was always that jerk---------------who only thinks about himself. Never cares about other's respect or pain. Or else he would stop Gaya there. No matter what she /Nisha did to him.

Besides-----------------when did Viraj thanked her for saving his Academy. Itna shameless aadmi by god---------------he is still running that academy which was a charity of Nisha. When he threw the shirt she gave him. Why not the academy then? Because the academy is expansive but the shirt is not?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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@jhalak7: OH! So Nisha got work-funded professional help! That's even better. Also, I watched every episode until the Viraj track, so I know all about Riteish, etc.
I guess because all the Niraj fans on IF kept saying that Viraj was the one who helped her overcome her fears (they never mention Shekhar), I thought that maybe he had a huge (read: singular) hand in that. From what you are saying, however, it does seem like the help was provided in a professional, employer to employee manner.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: IKEAwizard

I completely agree. I hate what they're doing to Viraj's character in order to justify Nibir.

The truth is that Viraj was instrumental in giving Nisha the tools necessary to heal from her experience. Before him, she couldn't even be touched by another person!

[note: I didn't watch those episodes so I'm not sure what exactly it was that specifically helped her. I did notice after the Viraj track that Nisha started wearing girl's clothes and was able to hug people, so his presence in her life must have done something. if anyone wants to fill me in, I'd appreciate it].

I would have much rather preferred Nisha to say something like "I will never forget what you have done for me, but I can't be with you romantically. Please try to understand"



There was this episode where Nisha's pants got a rip. Viraj immediately noticed that there was some reason to it. That was when he asked Shekhar to counsel her.

After her counseling session, she went home, applied kajal, etc. So yes we may give Shekhar credit. But. Shekhar asked her to close her eyes and listen to him only because he wanted imprints from the keys she carried. Anyway.

After this, she was still scared of being touched. She fell through a jungle, Viraj tried to save her. She asked him to let go. (Despite the fact that her life was at stake, she kind of got a panic attack)
Viraj noticed.
Later, he asked her if he could apply ointment on her wound since her hand wouldn't reach. She refused and was extremely flustered.

He convinced her...asked her to count till 5 while he did so. That was the first time she allowed someone to touch herself, albeit for a completely platonic purpose. So everyone credits Viraj.😊

Of course she had already opened up to her family about it.


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