Viraj's 'Uss Ladka' Syndrome Note pg 4/ 5

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Viraj was never a good judge of character.

Besides that Kabir is no Rajput( he doesn't know). So why will he respect that guy?

Now when he will know who Kabir is------that will be a great lesson for him.

Originally posted by: Ekstase

Lol, I had to laugh when I read "Uss Ladka Syndrome" - probably not appropriate reading your post, sorry 😆

It's true, Kabir never really did anything to him but Viraj is blinded by jealousy, he doesn't think rationally, at the moment. That he was still somewhat polite to Buaji I can explain like this: She practically raised him, didn't she? We can get angry at our 'mothers' if they hurt us but hating them is hard, no matter what. He's known her all his life- she had betrayed him and broken his trust but still, she is his bua and he can't forget his upbringing, probably. Shekhar- well, he knew him, I think that's the difference here. Knowing someone, having been friends - it's hard to show hatred for them, especially for someone like Viraj who had only few important people in his life.

As for Kabir, Viraj doesn't know him. Viraj has seen the immature Kabir who jokes around, mocks him (bade bhaiyya is probably mocking for him), plays silly pranks (the bua-Holi-incident), makes mistakes and smiles at those mistakes, doesn't take anything seriously and is careless. Furthermore, what fuels his dislike is Kabir's closeness to Nisha - which is the root of Viraj's hatred for him. Viraj 'loves' Nisha and he can't see her move on and thus, lose her completely. In this regard, Kabir is a threat to him. And it's not only Nisha (though, she's the main point here), the whole GF has warmly accepted Kabir and supports him as Viraj has seen at the wedding when the Gangwal boys backed up Kabir. Adding to it, Viraj doesn't like it to lose as we've seen with that parking lot scene; for me it looks like this: Kabir wanted to win and Viraj wanted to defeat Kabir. Also, Viraj has always been proud of his lineage- now, that he's put in this emotional situation and the fear of losing Nisha to Kabir is pressing on him, this pride is turning into arrogance- Viraj is a royal and Kabir an ant 😆

If he starts thinking about him as 'Kabir' Viraj will have to acknowledge him, in a way. Accept that him as more than the guy who 'took Nisha away from him'. Calling him "wo/uss ladka" is easier for Viraj because he degrades Kabir and lifts himself at the same time- if this makes any sense. I mean, with refusing to use Kabir's name Viraj shows Kabir's unworthiness in his eyes - he assures himself that Kabir is not worthy of Nisha. He doesn't acknowledge him, hence it's easier to hate him when he has the image of "that boy who came in between me and Miss Nisha" in his mind and refuses to see "Kabir the person".

Before, I have also noted that when strong emotions take over, Viraj ceases to think rationally- be it anger (Shekher-track, PC), desperation (his attempt to crash the wedding) or jealousy (which we now see expanding to unhealthy dimensions). Maybe, if he'd try to get to know Kabir, he'd at least start to refer to him with his name but... as future tracks are concerned, Viraj will keep calling him "wo ladka" 😆 Now, it will be "wo ladka jis ne Miss Nisha ko humse cheena aur humari maa ko bhi"

Originally posted by: libran90

Kabir behaves much more like a Rajput than he is aware of... He respects Nisha, as a matter of fact, he respects all women...which speaks of his mother's influence on him...He respects his elders as well...and knows how to make people happy...as he is always happy...the fact about not knowing his roots, his family, does trouble him, but that does not diminish the positive aura that emanates from his personality...There is definitely a hidden side to his personality, and I would like to know that..he can't be all sweet, right...

Viraj is a thoroughbred Rajput prince, and he carries that attitude and pride with him...and no excuse of the world~ like his mother left him, father died, he is alone, he has a wicked witch of hell in the name of an aunt, can excuse his behaviour for the past couple of episodes, after the PC...His behaviour speaks of the kind of people he has kept himself surrounded with...and Nisha is not his governess to look after his back all the time, that's his job not to be a fool...Everyone goes ga ga over Viraj...but I think he acts a lot better as a psycho than a prince in love...

Originally posted by: libran90

[quote= jhalak7]I think Kabir is like his mom---------a happy and positive guy.
Viraj has no mom. Kabir has no dad. But he is not sorry for that.
Viraj looked for mom...and got frustrated , then stopped.
Kabir didn't stop. He came to India to find out not his mom/dad----------a boy, For who his mom cries. Because he wants her to be happy. That just explains his character.
With that it means he is the guy who doesn't easily gives up or get frustrated like Viraj do.

But for Nisha...what to do? 😆 I really enjoyed the part when Nisha came to fight with him and he just gave up. Dropped on the bed and uttered "tu laaar!" 🤣


But one thing I don't want for him to go to the palace and be a Rajput. First of all he will not suit there, second Nisha will not suit there----------and I don't want them to be boring like Viraj. Giving gifts like-----------my GM's old kangan, old saari, old necklace, old ring----------- . Better they stay near the Gangwals. That's more fun than Viraj or his Grand father!!!!

Agree about Viraj's character.

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Not having a mother is not an excuse for behaving in such a semi-vicious manner...why? hamare desh me kitne bachche hai jinke ma nahi hai...sab kya pagal aur frustrated bade hote hai...and Kabir has a mom, so he is happy and chirpy...waah!...

Viraj has imposed loneliness and frustration on himself...khud ke liye ladne ka will nahi hai, dusre ke liye kaise ladega, and he supposedly fought paralysis. Jab dekho fight karne ki jagah London nikal leta hai...Lakshya academy ke liye funding nahi hai to London chalo...PC me izzat ka faluda ban gaya tab bhi London chalo...and Nisha says that he is her inspiration...I frankly speaking feel that Nisha has much more strength of mind and strong will than Viraj...so does Kabir...

He has come here to find his roots, and he will try all means possible, even if that means marrying Nisha...he has the will to fight...Kabir and Nisha are quite similar in that way...

I agree...I hope they don't show Kabir going over to the Rathore's mansion...Viraj himself is quite annoying...I wan't less of him and more of cousins, GF and NiBir drama..that will be fun to watch with added spice of Viraj's sunkipana...

Originally posted by: jhalak7

I think they are trying to show the importance of a mother here.😆😆

Although at this stage of life--------most of the people have no mom, or they learn to come out of egg shell. 😆 What to do with Viraj! I think may be this is the reason why Basundhara Devi ran away-----------Viru itna rotey hai! 😭😭🤣