Analysis: Viraj~Nisha and Kabir~Nisha

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libran90

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Posted: 10 years ago

Cautionary warning: Please this is my analysis of both pairings that I have seen and felt...so no bashing please..but do comment...

Viraj and Nisha: From the very beginning when I have seen them together, I have always felt their chemistry to be very one-sided, cos I have felt Nisha expressed much more than Viraj ever did. I can see two reasons behind this. Firstly, because Nisha was Viraj's employee and then student, and secondly because Viraj is royalty...where everything is kept locked behind the veil of reserve, even emotions.

Nisha was always spot on with her emotions, expressions and actions. Each and every gesture of her's reflected how she felt for Viraj, like a 'girl' with major stress on the girl factor as her love for him brought out the girl hidden behind Nishu 'bro', due to her past traumatic incident.

I have no such experience of love, but from what I have heard, it makes you feel happier, confident and makes you do stuff which if u r logical wouldn't do. And Nisha did everything for him, saving Viraj from getting shot, saving him from Shekhar, help him save Lakshya Academy etc. etc. etc.

Now coming to Viraj, in my opinion, I never really felt his love for Nisha or him pining for her, neither his gestures or actions depicted any of it. Well that could also be accounted for his royal reserve, but he was very expressive when he was angry or ridiculing Nisha for the supposed betrayal, which was an immature and childish mistake. Pain, i get it, but any emotion overpowering reason is just not right.

If you ask me, Viraj is an insecure person with unstable emotions and immense trust issues. He also possesses an ego greater than his self, which was the cause of the entire fiasco that separated him from his so-called love...which honestly never tugged at my heart.

So my conclusion is that Nisha was definitely much more stronger and expressive in her love, and Viraj was not, and she spent most of her time to be the girl of 'Viraj Singh Rathore's' dreams that somehow she lost herself in trying to build that image.

Kabir and Nisha: Coming to the newly wedded couple. These two are unique in themselves. In the words of Singham Gangwal, 'ek pagal aur dusra sirphira'..

Honestly, I am a sucker for friendship in marriage type relationships and that is one of the reasons that I like this pair a lot. I am not very fond of Mishkat as I had seen him as Raj in APHG...where he was too sweet for my appetite. But Kabir, is the perfect mix of sweet and spice, naughty and nice, happy go lucky and mature.

When Nisha and Kabir met, one was hurt and the other was trying to mend her, when they again met, then they became 'justice league' to save Chandu, when the third time they met they had become friends and the next time, they got married...kya relationship hai..waah..

Kabir, is kind of the younger version of Ramesh, he is water that takes the shape of the vessel..with kids he is a kid, with cousins he is like a cousin, with elders he is mature and serious...adaptable...

Nisha wanted to carve a path of self-discovery for herself, and ended up getting married to him...that might be the answer to her questions, but she chose to avoid it, but the truth would not leave her alone, so it came before her again and again forcing her to accept it...

The best part is how Nisha is really comfy around Kabir, nothing to hide, not trying to be someone else but Nisha, she is very comfortable in her skin as Nisha than she was ever around Viraj...maybe that is why she does not mind dancing with him, or him touching her or kissing her as a matter of fact...

Nisha was always awkward around Viraj, whenever she dressed up as a girl, but that is never the case with Kabir...maybe because before nobody told her that she is beautiful'...and with Kabir, it is like, 'Nisha, you are already beautiful, you don't to need to change.'

And strangely, Kabir repeatedly stresses on the point, that 'main pyaar ke liye bana nahi hoon', but himself does stuff, that makes you question, is he doing it as a friend or lover?..trying to know every small detail of Nisha's life, what makes her sad or happy...which friend really does that, and why does it matter so much to him, what Nisha feels or wants?...Is he really not made for love, or is he not aware that he is already in love is the question... and answer will come three months later...

Coming to the conclusion, I personally feel that there are many people who come and go in our lives...some whom we claim to 'love' as well...but there are some called 'soulmates' for a reason.. where one half of the soul is in Nisha and the other half is with Kabir...they might not know each other for years...yet are intensely drawn to each other...and would love to see their passionate love...as their friendship itself is not devoid of passion...

The amount of chemistry these two share in their friendship, I have not seen in the love-isshtory of Viraj and Nisha.. That is my piece..all comments welcome..😊

Edited by libran90 - 10 years ago

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Posted: 10 years ago

Fabulous Post!!👏

You spoke my heart out and I couldn't have put it in better words myself.😛

That is exactly how I feel about both pairings.😊

I especially love what you said about how there are people who we come to 'love' in our lives, but on the other hand there are people who are our 'soulmates',

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Posted: 10 years ago

I never show the show until Kabir so cannot comment on NiRaj but I love NiBir and totally agree with everything you said about them..Kabir and Nisha are comfortable in their own skin around each-other..they don't need to pretend, they don't need to act, they don't need to be correct, they don't need to be sane..all they have to be is to be themselves😃..that makes them perfect❤️

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Posted: 10 years ago

Wonderful post. Here is my thought in this whole weird love triangle.

Niraj: Yesterday I made a comment on someone's post that who calls their love Sir and Miss. Even if you look at what they call each you can notice a status differences in between them. Viraj obviously has the upper hand. Love should be about equality, trust, understanding, and respect. Clearly these two lack that in a relationship for it to successful. Nisha's love always one side so there never was a Niraj.

Nibir: Like you I am a sucker for friendship type love relationships. They two may not know each other for a long time but they have equality, trust, understanding, and respect. They can be themselves around one another. Plus Kabir is so imperfect that is what makes his character so likeable and relate-able. For the past couple of days, it seems they both have develop liking for one another.

Lets see how the cvs play this triangle. Will they keep the marriage valid or will Nisha reunite with Viraj. If you want to find out stay tune and watch NAUC only on starplus.😆

Edited by cocololo123 - 10 years ago

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Posted: 10 years ago

I was about to go off to sleep when reading your post, so thought to reply before leaving 😆

You analysis is nicely done and it mirrors exactly my own thoughts - especially regarding Nisha-Viraj, I have to agree with you. This love was always one sided and Viraj's sudden realization of his love just didn't sound convincing to me. It came out of the blue, so to say.

"If you ask me, Viraj is an insecure person with unstable emotions and immense trust issues. He also possesses an ego greater than his self, which was the cause of the entire fiasco that separated him from his so-called love...which honestly never tugged at my heart."

Yes, Viraj definitely has trust issues and emotionally, he's anything but stable. He needs to sort these issues out before he's ready to enter any relationship - otherwise, they will always come in-between all his relationships might they be romantic or his family. About his ego: He's always been proud to be royalty and now, pushing him into this situation which is emotionally charged for Viraj, we see how deep this pride runs- it comes out in the form of ego. Of seeing himself above others- in this case, Kabir.

I wouldn't say that this alone was the reason for the mess that separated him and Nisha as they both are not to be blamed for PC. But for whatever happened before that/afterward, they both can and are to be blamed - Viraj mainly for not even once thinking about the whole situation with a rational mind, not even when he went away and had time to do so, hence he never listened to Nisha. And also, when he realized his love for Nisha, the PC incident suddenly didn't matter - it only came back full-force when he saw Nisha with Kabir. It makes me wonder why that is so. Was it really Viraj's ego that made him push away Nisha even after he confessed to himself that he loved her?

I'm liking it how the CVs are showing sides of Viraj which have been hinted at earlier, way before his fall-out with Nisha (like during the Shekhar track) - hence, I'm not that shocked to see this shades of him 😆

"Kabir, is kind of the younger version of Ramesh, he is water that takes the shape of the vessel..with kids he is a kid, with cousins he is like a cousin, with elders he is mature and serious...adaptable..."

This is what has many loving Kabir even if they haven't prefered any specific pairing before. We also compared Viraj to Dadaji and Kabir to Ramesh and their respective roles in Nisha's life. Not to forget the sweet bond that is developing between Ramesh-Kabir - I always sensed, since the moment Kabir met his sassurji, that this bond will be something special, a sign, something very important and significant in Nisha's life..

"Nisha wanted to carve a path of self-discovery for herself, and ended up getting married to him...that might be the answer to her questions, but she chose to avoid it, but the truth would not leave her alone, so it came before her again and again forcing her to accept it..."

Well said. I agree, their marriage was accidental and they both never accepted it, though I always thought that Nisha took it more seriously than she admitted (with the Flashback of the meaning of sindoor and later, refusing Umesh to clean the color on her head and thus, her sindoor) and also, I feel that Kabir is slowly starting to accept this marriage, as well (turning point: him missing his mom on his wedding day. Had this been a complete joke to him, he wouldn't have even thought about his mom). The circumstances were unfortunate and what they have decided, now, is foolish but - some things happen out of a reason. Sometimes, God puts people into our lives and we need time to understand why that is so.

A marriage based on love is never a guarantee for a happy, successfull married life and similarly, a marriage without love (but mutual respect and deep friendship) is not automatically doomed. Love is one thing and marriage is another.

"And strangely, Kabir repeatedly stresses on the point, that 'main pyaar ke liye bana nahi hoon', but himself does stuff, that makes you question, is he doing it as a friend or lover?..trying to know every small detail of Nisha's life, what makes her sad or happy...which friend really does that, and why does it matter so much to him, what Nisha feels or wants?...Is he really not made for love, or is he not aware that he is already in love is the question... and answer will come three months later..."

As I mentioned above, subconsciously Kabir is already accepting this marriage - he's getting attached to the GF, he cares for them and most importantly, he cares for Nisha. And as you said, all the things he had done and is still doing, there was no need for them, at all. Friends don't go to such extents for each other, at least not if you have known each other for only such a short amount of time.

And you know, Kabir insisting that he could never fall in love - I always have to laugh at that 😆 Never say never, darling 😉 He thinks he's not husband/lover/damaad material and he'll prove himself wrong, in fact, he already is proving himself wrong.

"Coming to the conclusion, I personally feel that there are many people who come and go in our lives...some whom we claim to 'love' as well...but there are some called 'soulmates' for a reason.. where one half of the soul is in Nisha and the other half is with Kabir...they might not know each other for years...yet are intensely drawn to each other..."

Only one thing to add: Sometimes, we've known people for years and still, feel like we don't know them, at all. And sometimes, we just met someone and it simply clicks.

So, and now, I'm off to sleep! Awesome analysis, dear! 👏

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Posted: 10 years ago

Great post! You've basically summarized by thoughts processes!

Viraj never thought of Nisha as a potential love interest. He always thought of her as a mentee and employee. That's why the initial love was definitely one-sided. He loved Aarti. Yeah Aarti and Nisha are the same person, but the way he looked and thought of each was different. So Nisha was never someone he could marry/ have a relationship with, in his eyes. As Noor already pointed out, Viraj's love declaration was very fast and didn't really make sense. It would've been much more logical for him to connect the dots and see Aarti as Nisha and realize his love for Nisha. But alas, it was rushed.

And you're completely right in that Viraj has some major issues he needs to work on. He has trust issues, abandonment issues, and a tendency to pity himself and put himself first. For him, it's always about what others did to him, what he did, what he felt, etc. That's why the card shop scene was so important because it demonstrated that he could not put his and Nisha's love over his pain; he's not ready for a real relationship.

Although, I'd like to say, this doesn't mean that Viraj is a bad person. He's done some very good deeds and generally seems like a good person. But he has some things he needs to work on. And I'm really enjoying this sketching of Viraj, he's more real to me. And I think when his backstory is revealed with the entry of his mother, it'll be even more interesting to watch how he wrestles with these issues.

That's another reason it was so easy for Nisha to fall hard and fast for Viraj. He essentially came across as the perfect person: well mannered, smart, good-looking, accomplished, rich, generous, etc. He was her idol who actually behaved like an idol. And so there was also an unequal aspect to their relationship. Viraj was on a pedestal with Nisha being below him, it was something both of them acknowledged. Which is also one reason why I was never fully on board with Nisha-Viraj.

And you're also right. It was this unequalness and self-pitying behaviour that caused Nisha to attempt to better herself. She changed herself to suit him. Which worked for him, but not for her.

All of this is not present within Nisha-Kabir's relationship. As you pointed out, she is completely comfortable with him and feels no need to impress him. It's because Nisha and Kabir see each other as equals.

Kabir has also consistently displayed the ability to put others above himself, whether it be Nisha, Chandu, Ramesh, or even the GF.

Like Noor said, there's just some people with whom you instantly click. That's Nisha and Kabir. In fact, she herself does not understand the deep connection she has to him. She relies on him a lot and feels relieved when he's around (ex. Holi scenes and when Kabir came back from running away).

So yeah, I also agree that Kabir is better for Nisha at this stage in time. They both fit together really well.

However, I am also wary of Kabir as we essentially know nothing about him. His character is yet to be fleshed out. And I'd like to see that before I make my final call about Nisha-Kabir being soulmates :)

Edited by lovely_lady - 10 years ago

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shruti113

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Posted: 10 years ago

Great dear... Totally Agree with u... :)

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Pilu05

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Posted: 10 years ago

OMG ! ! ! ! ! ! yaar what a post...amazing and a perfect analysis bboth 3 character of NAUC. I abosolutely agree ur every point of view specially about Kabir. good said that he was the younger version of Ramesh. and yes both NiBir was perfect match pair ...as Amresh Puri said " ek pagal ek sarphira..." and our cute Kabiree said ..." loha hi lohe ko katt taa hai...". Kabir was pefect for Gangwalls too. bcoz VSR ( Viraj Singh Rathod) always importants his royal tag attitude never understand the feelings of Nisha and never mix with her cousins. but KABIR...Atte hi ghulmil gayaa Glucose ki tarha...mano sab Gangwals main JANN aa gayi...