Nisha is so selfish lately

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AyeshaKt

@AyeshaKt

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Posted: 10 years ago

I apologise if I sound rude and ''hurt'' fans but Nisha is a very selfish girl

She basically made a fake profile (Aarti) and was talking to VSR and falsely pretending to be someone else

I Don't knw abt you guys but I see it as breaking trust/impersonating

if you have watched Catfish(tv show) you will realise those who create fake profiles and pretend to be someone else, when ultimately the truth comes out, the other person can never trust them again

Anyway back to Nisha so after that Viraj obviouslly got angry and was trying to move om

So that made Nisha angry/hurt and she went to a roadtrip and met this guy Kabir who was basically a stranger and could be a criminal or anything, who knows

so after around a month at most of that trip,she comes back

then buaji said something about moving on to her and being the childish,jealous guirl she is, she got jealous knowing that VSR is going to marry Kaira

that very day she took the decision that she is going to take ''revenge'' from VSR by showing him she has moved on with Kabir,whom she does not love/like nor know that much,I know they are friends but she hardly knows him

SMH Yeah right, and what abt Kabir? Sorry his consent does not matter, it is only Nisha who is allowed to play with everybody's emotions and take all decisions

then tonight's marriage, I mean heights of ego! Just to show Viraj she has moved on, she is willing to put her and her family's future at stake and get married to Kabir

then the last one, Viraj came and apologized and confessed his love to her but Lil miss Princess Nisha is obviouslly the ''hurt'' victim here and VSR is the bad,bad guy, I mean how dare he get angry and try to move on after she created a fake persona(Aarti) and fooled him!

Sorry but Nisha's parents have spoilt her

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Binita

@...Binny...

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Posted: 10 years ago

This is going to be my personal perspective..

Selfish seems to suit Viraj perfectly atm.. agreed Nisha was hurt and decided to marry Kabir based on getting a little back at Viraj.. but she accepted her mistakes and even helped Kabir run away.. he came back willingly and is helping her out of this situation of his own free will.. no one forced him they care for one another and will deal with this situation together..

As for Nisha's pain at seeing Viraj moving on it was natural for a women to feel disheartened in that situation.. but I don't get why Viraj is the only one allowed to be angry Nisha can't be upset at being insulted repeatedly by the man she loved whom she apologized to where as he never once accepted his mistakes and chose to play the victim until the very end.. where the marriage is concerned.. she did not make her decision based on anger but she did stand up for her self respect and she should be applauded for the same.. the man never once apologized sincerely he came said I'm ready let's get marreid like he was doing her a favor..

Nisha chose the perfect life partner.. who even today put her before anyone else.. he stood by her when she needed him the most and without question.. she trusts him and she has every right to move on in her life.. no offense but they butchered Viraj today..while Nisha and Kabir came across as mature individuals who care and accept one another as they are..!!

Edited by ...Binny... - 10 years ago

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IKEAwizard

@IKEAwizard

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Posted: 10 years ago

Oh my god, I can't believe I just saw someone reference "Catfish" on India Forums. My two worlds are colliding! Haha, but seriously I love Catfish! It's a guilty pleasure of mine, although the folks featured on the show can be pretty trashy sometimes. 😃

In response to your post, I would say don't take it too seriously. I agree Nisha is pretty spoiled, but I don't personally think of her "catfishing" because she did make an effort to reveal herself to Viraj. I don't think she was being selfish, just maybe shy/embarrassed.

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LiveLifeInBliss

@LiveLifeInBliss

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Posted: 10 years ago

I am sorry, I don't mean to hurt anyone but I completely disagree with what you said.

It is true that anyone in Viraj's place would have been angry and would have tried to move on. However, what Nisha was most hurt about is all the insults that Viraj hurled at her. It's not like she didn't understand him for being mad at her for pretending to be someone else on the internet, she did. But that doesn't mean that Viraj has the right to insult her and her family in any way that he wants. And she still gave their love a last chance in the card shop , but no matter how many times she begged to Viraj, no matter how many chances she kept giving him, every single time he not only rejected her but he also insulted her and hurt her self-respect deeply in the process.

Sorry, but there is only so much insults a person can bear. It is true that Nisha initially wanted to marry Kabir out of anger, but the decision she made today wasn't out of anger. It was made out of careful consideration of her family and most importantly herself obviously because this is her life that's at stake. Whether you love a man or not, any girl should first think whether or not that man will respect her and treat her properly because where there is respect, one day or the other there will be love.

And Viraj 'apologized' yes, but that was the lamest apology I have ever seen. Because not once did he seem remorseful for what he's done. The way he was talking it was like he expected Nisha to forgive him right away and just marry him. Sorry but forgiveness can't be DEMANDED, it has to be EARNED. Rather than apologizing and begging her to forgive him and to have a fresh start with him ..to give their relationship a chance again and to STOP the marriage ..he was rather demanding that she marries HIM instead right there as he is the best one for her. Hello, who is he to decide that?! Nisha may have fallen in love with Viraj first, but that doesn't mean he has all the rights on her and can do whatever he wants!

And at the moment, it is not that Nisha is trying to show Viraj that she can move on..but she IS trying to move on because she has realized that Viraj is not the type of guy she wants to marry. There is a lot more responsibilities that comes with marriage, and Nisha didn't see Viraj as someone that can be her husband. Lover yes, but not husband that's why she refused to marry him.

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1018283

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Posted: 10 years ago

I agree that Aarti was foolish and one of the stupidest things Nisha has ever done. Though, one has to mention that Nisha didn't create Aarti to hurt anyone, she wanted to help Viraj, her way to do so was idiotic but since she could never be open with Viraj himself, she chose to hide behind her laptop and be it. Viraj replying to her emails wasn't her fault (she never asked him to). Viraj falling in love with Aarti wasn't her fault, either. There was an innocent intention behind Aarti from Nisha's side.

Creating Aarti was her fault. Hiding that she was Aarti was her fault. Not telling Viraj who Aarti was sooner, was her fault. Thus, hurting him was also her fault.

So, yes, I can understand what Viraj went through in the PC - his hurt, his pain, his anger were all justified. Him not trusting Nisha then and there was also justified and I've never hold that against him. He was a victim in this whole fiasco, as well, and I think the PC itself is nothing most of the fans hold against him- other actions of his are.

Though, I would have expected a little reflexion from him here once he had cooled down, to think the scenario through and consider all the facts since he knew Nisha and the real tamasha became Nisha and her family, didn't they? But as far as Viraj is concerned, once angry at someone he doesn't think rationally and only sees their faults; it happened before, too.

When Viraj realized his 'love' for Nisha, he didn't know about buaji, yet he could admit that he loved Nisha and it makes one wonder why that is so. Because it clearly looks like that his anger later on, the anger because of PC only came back when he saw Nisha-Kabir, not before that. So, was it his real anger or his jealousy misplaced? And does his anger/hurt justify everything? Like insulting Nisha when she didn't even do anything to provoke it?

And I'm sorry but - Viraj might have apologized but he didn't sound sorry. He came there and told Nisha they should marry as if he was doing her a favour! Same when he asked Moresh to make Nisha understand, as if he was doing them a favour! Viraj clearly never expected Nisha to reject him simply because she has always been the one to come back no matter how much he hurt her- here she took a clear stance which every self-respecting girl would have done in her place. Maybe if Viraj would have taken her aside, explained everything and told her his side of the story... but nope, he made a huge drama in front of the guests and Nisha's family, disregarded the family as a whole and Kabir completely. The peak was him pushing Ramesh! This is just not done.

Also: Nisha isn't marrying Kabir out of anger nor to spite Viraj. Yes, she agreed to it out of anger but realized her mistake soon after and tried to redeem it by helping Kabir to escape. Kabir came back because he couldn't leave Nisha in that situation and because he cared for her family - he is in this all out of his own free will. Even today, Nisha emphasized that she isn't marrying Kabir out of anger (as he asked her) but because that's what she decided and I believe her. Her anger vanished that same day she had agreed for the marriage - this marriage didn't happen because Nisha wants to show Viraj that she moved on, and that's a fact.

Lastly, I want to say: We can't do anything against our past (like Viraj) or the circumstances our life creates for us. But we have complete controle about how we handle the past and how we handle those circumstances, we decide our actions. Nisha realized her mistakes, she tried to talk to Viraj, she threw her self-respect out the window to beg him one last time and he blew it. Viraj knows he has done a mistake, too, but I got the impression that he hasn't accepted it, hasn't absorbed it, yet. He's brushing it aside with his 'Let's get married' instead of taking responsibility. A tragic past/life doesn't give us the free pass to do anything we want and we can't expect people to always consider our past (like we can't do expect Nisha to do (she understood him initially but everything has its limits) or her family who doesn't know much, it's not fair) - he has a long way still to go.

Nisha is not perfect, she errs like very human being and she accepts mistakes she does - that's why I like her so much. She's human 😉

Edited by Ekstase - 10 years ago

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Ritzie Ring'gghania

@Ritzie

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Posted: 10 years ago

It won't be fair to compare one show with another. The circumstances shown in NAUC where Nisha posing as EWF didn't seem very odd to me considering the kind of girl Nisha is shown as. She can goto any length to help others. And her impersonification just shows the extension of her nature. In the past also, she has done some activities which otherwise would be called illegal but she did it not for herself but for others. One such example is when she tried to help Dolly to hack Sumeet's account before marriage.

Though I do not approve of the above activities but I would call Nisha anything but selfish.

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dare.devil

@dare.devil

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Posted: 10 years ago

I completely disagree! Nisha might have made few selfish decisions but she owned to every one of them. She accepted the reason she said yes to marriage was because of virat and even tried to rectify it. But has Viraj once owned up to anything? apologized for anything? NOOO!!!

And no matter what the circumstances, No guy has any right to insult the girl's family repeatedly!!!

Also Viraj cannot make all the decisions of when they are together and when they are not and when he feels they should get married

edit: typo

Edited by dare.devil - 10 years ago

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Achira

@achirasingh16

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Posted: 10 years ago

i think it was both nisha and viraj's fault..

nisha didn't wrote as aarti to gain viraj's love but to fade loneliness from his life...viraj didn't listen to her was his fault...

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Teeya

@Teeya

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Posted: 10 years ago

hen... Nisha is a very selfish ? 🤢🤢

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Akhu

@Akhu

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Guys I think both nisha and viraj made mistakes both had opportunities to be together but they just spoiled it...but how can somebody say viraj is selfish viraj once blindly trusted nisha but it's gaya who created misunderstandings among them but for me nisha who was seen very zidhi would have tried 100 times to prove she is right...cvs just spoiled all characters thats wrong...

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